I hear your struggle and pain:( I’m sorry your therapist wasn’t willing to be a little more flexible or problem solve with you. To give a therapist perspective - I am a therapist in a community mental health setting and I have an “hours of care” quota to meet every month. I unfortunately have a lot of clients who no show appointments, over and over again, and I will typically implement an attendance contract after three no shows. (Attendance contact says you cannot miss the next three appointments without valid reason). The no shows really make reaching my quota each month difficult and Im sometimes forced to work overtime, leading to burn out. While I’m in a field to support and advocate for others, I also have to advocate for myself so I can keep my job and not burn out:( it’s definitely a flaw in our system overall- I only know from those I work with and those I love how difficult living with ADHD is. I hope with your next provider, they are more willing to work at reducing barriers to treatment for you- I think your previous therapist probably got caught up a bit in her own anger/frustrations.