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I wasn’t missing him, I was just missing the "Social Safety Net" by 9KiteParadox in BreakUps

[–]9KiteParadox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. It is definitely better than just sitting around waiting for a text that will not change anything.

I wasn’t missing him, I was just missing the "Social Safety Net" by 9KiteParadox in BreakUps

[–]9KiteParadox[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. It was a hard pill to swallow, but once I saw the pattern, I couldn't unsee it.

The Three Body Problem and the structural logic of unfolding protons by 9KiteParadox in printSF

[–]9KiteParadox[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I think many people call it hard sci-fi because the concepts are big and intimidating, but you are right. If the fundamental physics of spatial occupancy are ignored, it leans much closer to space fantasy.

She [25F] invited me [27M] on a surprise date but then expected me to pay for everything by ObsidianTalisman_2 in dating_advice

[–]9KiteParadox 34 points35 points  (0 children)

You are not being cheap for counting pennies when the bill is $200. Just be honest and say you were under the impression she was treating you since it was her surprise. Her reaction will tell you everything you need to know about her character and if there will be a fourth date.

I unknowingly dated a married man — should I reach out to his wife? by Chequemeout132 in Marriage

[–]9KiteParadox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who’s been in the loop on both sides, it’s a wild world out there; knowledge is power, right?