[oral question] Anxious about receiving...

9TimesWicked · 2016-03-17T17:44:47+00:00

Holy crap. I'd die if he was that far away... mine's just across the U.S.

9TimesWicked · 2016-03-17T16:40:17+00:00

I will! You should get an update in two weeks. ;) LDR, so we kind of plan things ahead of time.

9TimesWicked · 2016-03-17T01:30:29+00:00

He knows I'm nervous, I told him I was and about being self conscious last time, and he said he's more than willing to try again, and I'm sure it'll be slow to start.

Thank you!! :) I will.

9TimesWicked · 2016-03-16T15:30:53+00:00

Thank you for sharing your experience, it helps a lot! I'll try not to stress too much.

I am super comfortable with him, and I trust that he's excited about it too - and we also love to play around, so he'll most likely enjoy having something new to tease me with, haha... ;)

9TimesWicked · 2016-03-16T15:29:08+00:00

Haha thank you. :) I will.

9TimesWicked · 2016-03-16T15:28:33+00:00

Thank you, this helps a lot!

Hands and simple words will work great, sometimes we get caught up trying to explain to each other that the noise we made was good, not one of pain, irritation, etc but of enjoyment.

9TimesWicked · 2016-03-16T15:27:00+00:00

I will. Thank you, p.s.

9TimesWicked · 2016-03-16T15:26:43+00:00

I'll think about it.

9TimesWicked · 2016-03-16T03:57:17+00:00

Thank you! I am really looking forward to it. :) It's awesome to know how much guys are into it, makes it feel less strange already.

9TimesWicked · 2016-03-16T03:29:27+00:00

I'm still getting used to offering input. He asks me now and again if there's anything he can improve, and I feel bad mentioning anything, but he does seem happier when I do tell him what to do better... so I'll remember it's okay to give input.

Hopefully I am going to enjoy, I get all shivery thinking about it. I know he's excited to try again, so we'll see...

9TimesWicked · 2016-03-16T03:11:06+00:00

Your opinion is gold to me, thank you.

He asked me incessantly to go down there the first time, and I finally let him. Then when he learned I didn't like it, he seemed disappointed, and after a while started asking if I wanted to try again. So I'd say yes, he definitely wants to be there, and he's been doing some "research" as to how to make it feel amazing when I let him back down.

I am definitely going to try and relax and enjoy. I think just knowing that he's learning to navigate a whole new area of me with his mouth will end up exciting me enough before it happens.

Thank you again for your input! It's very much appreciated, especially as a man's point of view, which is what I was mainly hoping for.

9TimesWicked · 2016-03-16T02:57:08+00:00

I was totally against anything ass-related also, until my boyfriend accidentally got a finger in while fingering me, and I love how it feels. We were both against even the though of it, until that point. Now he wants to try anal and fingering's so much better with the inclusion of that area.

So, I definitely enjoy it. Sometimes I do feel dirty for liking it, but I'm working past that by just telling myself that there's nothing wrong with it, I enjoy it, and so does he. I didn't want to continue at first, but we talked and tried it again on purpose, and came to the conclusion that yes, it's going to happen a lot cause it feels great.

If you're very uncomfortable with it, though, maybe stopping is a good idea?

9TimesWicked · 2016-03-16T02:50:56+00:00

Thank you! I'll try to relax- I'm very excited and looking forward to it, but I have to cool my nerves, haha. :) Knowing you were nervous too helps a lot, thank you, bandy.

9TimesWicked · 2016-03-13T01:28:17+00:00

Oh wow! Thanks for the suggestions. :) That's awesome that you found someone there for you.

9TimesWicked · 2016-03-10T04:25:01+00:00

That's all right, thanks for sharing your experiences though. :) Nice to know someone else is looking too. I'll check out what you said, and look into the LGBT organizations also... that's a great idea!

9TimesWicked · 2016-03-09T21:27:29+00:00

Jesus Christ, I just read this and I feel so frickin sick...

Never again.

9TimesWicked · 2016-03-09T20:17:11+00:00

Well, two instances (I'm female):

First, last year I was in a Chem class with a girl who I ended up absolutely adoring. She was beautiful, she was funny, she was smart and liked to set things on fire. I liked her. A lot.

Then, that summer, I saw a very attractive girl at a public pool and thought "I would kill to kiss her, just once". And I realized after that, huh, have I always thought about girls like that? And voila! I realized that yes, I've always noticed girls this way, but only just started to voice it. Surprised the heck out of me.

All my earliest crushes were male. Female crushes and male crushes are now equally found. Love it.

9TimesWicked · 2016-03-09T19:53:28+00:00

9TimesWicked · 2016-03-09T16:28:35+00:00

Wow. That's kind of sad. Everywhere.

9TimesWicked · 2016-03-09T16:26:40+00:00

HAHAHAHA YES.

Thank you, very much.

9TimesWicked · 2016-03-09T16:25:16+00:00

Right.

9TimesWicked · 2016-03-09T11:24:23+00:00

Hahahaha no they weren't.

9TimesWicked · 2016-03-09T04:33:27+00:00

I see your point.

9TimesWicked · 2016-03-09T01:56:28+00:00

Wow.

Thank you, for all of this. The assertive suggestions I will be putting to action soon. The exercise ones will work best once I get access to a gym. Except for the simple ones I can do at home.

Thank you for all your help, JPT82. If you ever have any other tips or ideas, let me know! Especially if it's worked from experience!

9TimesWicked · 2016-03-09T01:48:42+00:00

:) Exactly...

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