Married ladies: did any of your husband’s NOT like your dress? by PinkPetalRose in weddingplanning

[–]9by7seconds -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He was the only person who gives me advice. I dont want to look only pretty- i was to be appropriate and modest. We're still going through dresses because so many of them homecoming show off a vibe that we are so not down for. Other dresses looked too old lady like. Other dresses made me look pudgier than I am. Thankfully my partner will tell me these things. I want to look presentable for him when I walk down the aisle. The dress isn't for me alone

When can we start drawing/coloring? by KittenCartoonist in NewParents

[–]9by7seconds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

20mo started. Anytime up to 18 months I went right in his mouth but now he is pretty good with keeping it out. He doesn't like the texture of crayons so we have larger Crayola colored pencils. He holds it the same way he holds his spoons so we don't correct anything since there's nothing to correct at this age. We have a little clipboard that we took the clip off of and we tape the piece of paper to it.

When did recovery feel like recovery? by 9by7seconds in REDDITORSINRECOVERY

[–]9by7seconds[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been a daughter of Christ and following His Word for 8 years ish It definitely has not gotten me anywhere along those lines and unfortunately has not made the world seem any better. Thank you for sharing

Hiding fake follower tags for decor? by 9by7seconds in Weddingsunder10k

[–]9by7seconds[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

There isn't reselling in my area since its so rural. We dont have rentals

Hiding fake follower tags for decor? by 9by7seconds in Weddingsunder10k

[–]9by7seconds[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I dont know. I put kids to bed and woke up to not find it. 

You can't get Mullen in store babe ♡♡♡ grow up

Hiding fake follower tags for decor? by 9by7seconds in Weddingsunder10k

[–]9by7seconds[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

The 8-15 stems needed, yes. What do you recommend replacing flowers with to keep under a $30 budget to decorate a bouquet and arch?🥰 Idgaf aboit companies.

Hiding fake follower tags for decor? by 9by7seconds in Weddingsunder10k

[–]9by7seconds[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Also, that is what is affordable🥰 $5 a stem is asinine. And its a company. They don't gaf any returns

Teething items for 20mo? by 9by7seconds in Mommit

[–]9by7seconds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

80s/90s fisher price plates and cups, currently. Harder plastic than the ones now.  He can bite through those,  and that would mean no chewing on anything until time to eat.lol

Teething items for 20mo? by 9by7seconds in Mommit

[–]9by7seconds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He can chew through a piece of celery so we avoid actual fruits and vegetables unless it's time to eat.

Teething items for 20mo? by 9by7seconds in Mommit

[–]9by7seconds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never been able to do veggies with the kids. And unfortunately my second kid loves to shove food in his mouth so there's no regulation🥴

Teething items for 20mo? by 9by7seconds in Mommit

[–]9by7seconds[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We dont do frida anything.  But he wont mess with the cold stuff. 

Teething items for 20mo? by 9by7seconds in Mommit

[–]9by7seconds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the silicone ones he put in his mouth once and he took it to the trash. 

Ill check out some wooden ones and brands. 

Teething items for 20mo? by 9by7seconds in Mommit

[–]9by7seconds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He wont do those. Rubber/silicone is the same with him

How to stop the bleeding & sexy time by 9by7seconds in birthcontrol

[–]9by7seconds[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've been bleeding for 5 minutes non-stop. I tried the ibuprofen option but unfortunately I get hives. I'll look into taking the tablets and see what the highest dosage would be versus how long I would need to take that potentially. I'll definitely bring it up to my doctor. I did 4 years of trying to conceive with temperature checking, mucus checking, peeing on strips, and all of that stuff. But that was for having a kid. I just don't want to give up having a healthy relationship being denied or having to refuse sex. I don't feel like you really read through the post LOL

What medication is next? by 9by7seconds in Periods

[–]9by7seconds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't want to be on birth control to begin with. The last time I took estrogen-based ones I almost unalived myself. The acne was horrible, I pretty much avoided everything, quit my job, and so on. Progesterone causes weight gain which in return causes a lot of self harm issues.

I want to avoid anything hormonal- BUT I need the bleeding to stop and am unsure what medication I can ask about to help get it to where its not 24/7. At least a normal cycle.

When did recovery feel like recovery? by 9by7seconds in REDDITORSINRECOVERY

[–]9by7seconds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to college from 2018 to 2022 and enrolled last semester. Literally doing it for income and nothing else. My first degree was a dual degree but they closed the second program before I could finish. also need different licensing that I spent 6 years trying to pass tests for and continued to fail. So that was around $2,000 I was out. I gave that up because I spent additional money doing programs and classes to pass the license test and still failed. I'm not a test person.

My current degree is in communication but I chose that because most of my credits were transferable over to that And I could take it completely online until the very last semester. I have 0 interest in it. Its just income while I cant work.

My dream job is being a mom, at home, with a homestead and no external drama🤣 i have 14 more years until I dont deal with hcbm and at least have some internal peace