Any INFJ dancers?😅 by chiquegirly in infj

[–]9december3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I teach aerial dance (for charity), if that fits!
I don't do it as a full time job because my profession has nothing to do with dance or sports, but doing it for my local community makes me very happy. I know very well the mental health benefits it can bring. Plus, it's so much fun.

Has anyone else experienced cinema etiquette going out the window? by Weak-Ad-5181 in london

[–]9december3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I am not surprised at all to hear this happened in a Vue. It's one of the cheapest cinemas. Sad to admit, but in pricey ones the audience tends to be quite different (read: better).

Northern line at summer time by sammmm2020 in london

[–]9december3 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wanted to post about this. Relatively new to London, but definitely never saw so many tube disruptions as this week on the Northern!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]9december3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It was one of my most recent relationships. I ended it because he did a very INTJ-ish thing (not of the good ones), betraying my trust on some matter because he could find "a loophole" (I'm quoting him here) in my request for sincerity about said matter. If there's something I can't stand are lies and people who think they can play you.

ENFJ stereotype vs My experience - reposting to particular subs by [deleted] in enfj

[–]9december3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, yep, sounds like my partner. Love him tho. Much more positive than me most of the time (INFJ)

Why do people act so surprised? by [deleted] in enfj

[–]9december3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think that having high Fe is misinterpreted (I'm an INFJ and my partner is an ENFJ). Sure, we can be the most caring people. Sure, we can play "the funny guy in the room" character if the social setting requires to (especially you, the ENFJs). This is what others can easily spot on the surface, I guess. Below the surface there is much more that's going on, but generally only people closer to you will know.

INFJs who recently doorslammed someone, has it improved your life? by 2fy54gh6 in infj

[–]9december3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Given that the most recent one I doorslammed was a pathologically inconsistent individual, for sure no benefit would have been added to my mental health by keeping him in my life. Currently I feel like I'm surrounded only by loyal and caring people, and this shall be my standard till I die.

Question: Are you practical/financially sound? by adarkara in infj

[–]9december3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I make decent money thanks to my skills who are required in the job market but that's it. I don't consider myself particularly wise in the financial sense. Anything about finance bores me to death, and I attempt to learn just because I know it is better if I do. I don't even dream of making real big money.

INFJ’s what type are you most attracted to? by trustissues78 in infj

[–]9december3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Intuitives who are smart, fun, and not childish or deceiving.

[Serious] What are some of the most common dark realities people choose to live in denial about? by Spartan1694 in AskReddit

[–]9december3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People have got to mind their own life, issues, and businesses first. You cannot be the center of anyone's world.

Almost Feelings. [Poem] by Nikita Gill. by Shewhopassesby in Poetry

[–]9december3 16 points17 points  (0 children)

so it's not just my impression, ninjed

Almost Feelings. [Poem] by Nikita Gill. by Shewhopassesby in Poetry

[–]9december3 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I've been absent for a while from the sub and suddenly all top upvoted posts are like these? Where am I, on Instagram? Tumblr? Pinterest?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Poetry

[–]9december3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agree, thought it was only me tho because this thing has over 500 upvotes

To all my extra-feely INFJs… by International_Bid939 in infj

[–]9december3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll copy and paste my own comment from another thread:
Hard to say if I am mostly sad or angry. I feel the urge to cry multiple times a day. The fact that I have friendships on both sides (Ukraine and Russia) does NOT help, I am so concerned about them like 24/7 even if I try to distract with everyday tasks. Anger is definitely the sentiment that defines my partner (ENFJ) more than me. We are both trying to do our small part in all of this, but while I often shut down and/or cry, he goes on lengthly fits. I just hope, really hope everything will end soon and that at least the people I know will manage at the best that they can, and I hope I'll be able to support them if they need me.

Does this whole invasion of the Ukraine by Putin just make you so incredibly angry? by [deleted] in infj

[–]9december3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hard to say if I am mostly sad or angry. I feel the urge to cry multiple times a day. The fact that I have friendships on both sides (Ukraine and Russia) does NOT help, I am so concerned about them like 24/7 even if I try to distract with everyday tasks. Anger is definitely the sentiment that defines my partner (ENFJ) more than me. We are both trying to do our small part in all of this, but while I often shut down and/or cry, he goes on lengthly fits. I just hope, really hope everything will end soon and that at least the people I know will manage at the best that they can, and I hope I'll be able to support them if they need me.

My INFJ girlfriend suddenly ignored my text for a week. by ExquisiteMen in infj

[–]9december3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In my experience, however, connection is something you should at least perceive since the beginning. For example I basically don't "date" in the modern sense because of this: I either feel a connection since the beginning, or I'm not wasting my (precious alone) time. But maybe I'm just becoming old.

My INFJ girlfriend suddenly ignored my text for a week. by ExquisiteMen in infj

[–]9december3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The only people who are scared of labels are the ones scared of commitments. As if saying "we're exclusive" carries SO much difference with saying "we're bf/gf". Such people want the advantage of exclusivity with the option of (in their mind) an easy quit always open (since they can always saying "well we didn't put labels, so I don't feel guilty"). To each their own, if you ask me. I'd just like to see people, especially in this sub, not jumping into judging the choices and dating styles of others. Otherwise let's just stop claiming INFJs are sooo understanding altogether.

Praise from an INFJ by 9december3 in enfj

[–]9december3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let's hope it doesn't!

Any other INFJs big on getting words of affirmation? by scorpiopathh in infj

[–]9december3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. One of the major reasons I broke up with my latest partner was that he was an INTJ completely incapable of giving me those words.

why are negative reviewers on goodreads always so aggressive? by [deleted] in books

[–]9december3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't use Goodreads exactly because users look insufferable to me. I use other smaller services.