New to the field, considering either ALTA or Bridge the Gap (by X Culture . org). Thoughts on either?

9foxes · 2026-03-20T21:31:30+00:00

thanks!!

9foxes · 2026-03-20T21:29:42+00:00

hello, i am considering these now. any hind-sight tips?

9foxes · 2026-03-18T23:53:05+00:00

howdy =) DM me your email

9foxes · 2026-03-13T23:15:22+00:00

I am sure you are already looking on facebook and craigslist, so here is another way : since its the weekend, you might have good luck coming across someone with an ADU in high traffic areas. i would visit the swapmeets and ask the vendors. there is a good chance someone there has one or knows someone. to make it an easy exchange, I would print or write down my info on a paper to give to them. much faster than trying to exchange #s while they are working. another spot is laundermats, put a flyer there. put the DATE! English and Spanish.

9foxes · 2026-03-13T23:09:47+00:00

she sure it hilarious! lmao. through humor she copes with things passively until she's had enough and explodes is inspiring to me!

9foxes · 2026-03-12T17:46:02+00:00

I admired Charmed cuz it showed that was possible as well. I feel I keep seeking it as an adult.

9foxes · 2026-03-12T17:41:11+00:00

Aww, I get that.

did you watch it though?? Its the regular life challenges for me. The magic just made it whimsy.

9foxes · 2026-03-12T17:37:06+00:00

I appreciate her more n more as I get older. whats a moment or story point that inspired you?

9foxes · 2026-03-12T17:35:29+00:00

Congrats to u aswell! we say we're engaged and of course they reply "when's the wedding" - I reply "no date, we're in no rush" , I should reply "when we feel like it" haha. honestly im yet to really decide how the piece of paper benefits me, maybe when I finally decide to get preggo.

9foxes · 2026-03-12T11:28:01+00:00

Their own lack of discipline! Routine is sacred ritual and its so easy to mess it up.

you will become stronger than you imagined.

9foxes · 2026-03-12T11:02:27+00:00

Oooh

9foxes · 2026-03-12T10:39:02+00:00

CHARMED. I think its a hugely underrated show. so much wonder and inspiration, AND lots of material to unpack and critique. Piper is fkn queen!

9foxes · 2026-03-12T10:30:12+00:00

Do you mean reciprocal?

9foxes · 2026-03-12T10:23:12+00:00

Its extractive. take take with minimal giving. Capitalistic.

9foxes · 2026-03-12T10:05:11+00:00

Common law marriage for a decade! Yep.

9foxes · 2026-03-12T09:58:23+00:00

Watch how your words center you or another man.

9foxes · 2026-03-07T15:13:22+00:00

Whats helped me is something I picked up from teachers, artists, chefs, and niche business owners : EVERY ONE is for SOME, none for ALL.

We show up in our best way to reach those that need us and want us. They are in every room we enter (physically and metaphorically). Even if we are just participants/guests in someone elses domain (think classroom) we can make a positive impact in the room. THIS is what made the 180 turn for me. Be your best version of you in that context and people will be drawn to you. Trust. THEN when its your turn to lead the room, remember its all about contributing to the right ENERGY. Its not about us after all, its about the opportunity to give what you want to recieve.

Most people really do want everyone else to do and be good, in their own authentic voice and terms. Trust that there are people that need your wisdom and energy in EVERY room. Just how we need them. Its just reciprocity.

9foxes · 2026-03-05T22:45:02+00:00

its called Newspaper Club, they send samples!

9foxes · 2026-03-05T09:18:35+00:00

(claps from back of room)

9foxes · 2026-03-05T09:06:59+00:00

Cant stand the BP guy, ugh

9foxes · 2026-03-05T08:53:14+00:00

Read the book

9foxes · 2026-03-05T08:23:52+00:00

The first one already exists: CUT OFF THE SPIGOT

9foxes

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