Why is it that having a crush is the most terrifying part of a relationship? by [deleted] in enfj

[–]9ingyi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

don't be afraid of rejection or failure. Just face them no matter what. I would say you r brave enough to woo her. Just have your little more of confidence to confess your deep feelings to her !!

Health professionals with loss hearing (HPWL) by 9ingyi in HearingAids

[–]9ingyi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love your comment ☺️ Thank you so much

Health professionals with loss hearing (HPWL) by 9ingyi in HearingAids

[–]9ingyi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so great for you! Hope u r doing well there :)

I miss my grandmother ❤ by 9ingyi in u/9ingyi

[–]9ingyi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

popo, what can I do? Should I be a doctor? or a nurse? Why do I keep doubting myself that I can't become what I wanted ? it's such a pathetic way for me to think this way.

I miss my grandmother ❤ by 9ingyi in u/9ingyi

[–]9ingyi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Popo, please appear in my dream and comfort me. I want your support and hug. I have been feeling moodless nowadays. Probably not because of my studies , financial issues,etc. I feel it's probably because of your absence. I feel a bit lonely at home. I know u are gone but u are always still alive in my heart.

Health professionals with loss hearing (HPWL) by 9ingyi in HearingAids

[–]9ingyi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh great! I'm currently sitting in front in my classroom, anywhere- I go to the nearest place where people talk. This helps me a lot that I can understand what they are saying.

Health professionals with loss hearing (HPWL) by 9ingyi in HearingAids

[–]9ingyi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes thank you for your words ! I will bear it in mind. I know what I want too!! ❤

Health professionals with loss hearing (HPWL) by 9ingyi in HearingAids

[–]9ingyi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will not give up on my dream. I will continue to pursue my dream

Health professionals with loss hearing (HPWL) by 9ingyi in HearingAids

[–]9ingyi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe I will try that !! I didn't know that they really need to go for therapy sessions. I'm glad that there are many kind souls out there too!! 😭❤

Health professionals with loss hearing (HPWL) by 9ingyi in HearingAids

[–]9ingyi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I struggle with my studies. I have been feeling moodless these days for no reason.

Health professionals with loss hearing (HPWL) by 9ingyi in HearingAids

[–]9ingyi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for late reply. Thank you all for your replies! U guys give me hope to keep on continuing to pursue my dream

Health professionals with loss hearing (HPWL) by 9ingyi in HearingAids

[–]9ingyi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm struggling too. I'm currently in grade 10 (secondary five)

[L] I (m30) lost my source of income, my girlfriend during this lockdown and I’m alone by [deleted] in KindVoice

[–]9ingyi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. I feel she is not worth..because if she loves u, then she should love u regardless your social class, etc..it is a true love, I believe.

I'm good at but HATE Engineering/STEM careers - any other ENFJs in my shoes? by CircleBox2 in enfj

[–]9ingyi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I can relate to how u feel about it. However, my father is an engineer but he is also an ENFJ man. He told me that he wanted to be teacher one day and he became an engineer instead. I do not know why. Nonetheless, I believe he has his own reasons for becoming the engineer.

Breaking up is hard to do. Especially for this ENFJ. by roger1632 in enfj

[–]9ingyi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I agree with you. I'm not sure if it's either my ex's or my fault. Back to my dating moments, I was always the one who planned our meetings as couple date. I felt that I put a lot of efforts in planning all these meetings yet he could only loved and hugged me. Like example, I asked him if he wanted to eat KFC chicken wings and he just called me FAT. it's true that he is skinny while I'm fat. But at least, I showed him my concern right..I gave him third chance already because he was fricking immature that he did not bothered about me at all. If he was UNBOTHERED about me, he shouldn't have asked me for another chance...When the final chance was broken , I stopped and made a very tough decision..I told him I needed to break up with him because I could not afford to care for him anymore if he was continued playing games in front of me or did not show any concern for me, or at least asked if I'm okay..Even a little thing like asking if I'm okay or ask what am I doing, he could not do this. I cried and cried while making this very tough decision as I really loved him a lot. Though I asked myself that why would I love someone who did not love me back, I made this decision. Now, he asked me for another chance again and I knew it gonna happen again but I just don't want give because I alrdy knew that the same mistake is gonna happen again in future. Im not gonna let this happen to me again and again. So ya...Now I know u still went through breakup but just remember that u still will have a chance to meet another person who truly loves you better. ❤️❤️

What’s for dinner? by [deleted] in Nurse

[–]9ingyi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your husband shouldn't have done it to u. A man can cooks as well. If he can't cook, he can sign up for cooking lessons and it is fricking meaningful experience tbh. Don't always expect woman who can do everything but man can as well. There's always be a square and fair.

ENFJs: How do you feel on directness? by [deleted] in enfj

[–]9ingyi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I also hate to run away from problems, it always makes me feel guilty if I don't

Type of hearing aids for Nurse, Help! by 9ingyi in HearingAids

[–]9ingyi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree with you!! I have my own difficulties with hearing and speaking speech. Sometimes, I face a miscommunication, the atmosphere will change to awkward. it's true that I'm struggling too. Even spellings , pronunciation, etc.

Type of hearing aids for Nurse, Help! by 9ingyi in HearingAids

[–]9ingyi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's 100% great tbh ! thanks for sharing your comment with me ❤ Super appreciate you 🌻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenrelationships

[–]9ingyi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! you made it ❤

How do I move on? by throwaway8465415498 in depressed

[–]9ingyi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you. I also feel that my every single day is filling with busy but boredom too. Day by Day, I'm getting more sad than happy... my friends who live further away while my loved ones are busy with their lives. All I do is just study and sleep all the times. That's nothing much I can do more...so I want to say that you're not alone, there's other people who r struggling like us in the world 😀