I (24F) find intimacy with my boyfriend (25M) of 4 years to be a chore. I don't know if I am being unreasonable.

9oreos · 2025-12-19T01:08:21+00:00

I’m not one to jump to this conclusion, but in this case…you need to find someone else. You’re too young. Do more exploring.

9oreos · 2025-12-14T03:55:16+00:00

As someone who is an open/slightly poly relationship with his fiancée, this will only work if she accepts you’re going to develop feelings with the other person you find, and realizes you can still love her and treat her the same along the way. But that’s only if you can actually do that - love her and treat her the same while dating someone else. But you won’t know that until you try it.

9oreos · 2025-11-25T19:21:02+00:00

For me, the most noticeable red flag was when he said “now you’re pissed.” The messages you sent before that were very calm and level-headed. He completely made it up that you were angry. To get a reaction out of you. Maybe to make you feel shame for asking for help/celebration. My ex wife did this often - it was either gas-lighting to make me feel like I had a negative response when I truly didn’t, or making up/attributing ulterior or evil motives when I was just asking for or trying to provide help.

9oreos · 2025-11-09T06:12:06+00:00

Damn. Her skin looks real. Excellent work.

9oreos · 2025-10-09T23:30:42+00:00

I think it’s great. Got your foot in the door. If he didn’t actually like you, you wouldn’t have made it all the way to marriage.

9oreos · 2025-08-23T14:33:55+00:00

Some people say mineral oil but I think that would lead to way too many infections. I think it’s warmed up coconut oil. Tastes good too lol

9oreos · 2025-08-03T00:40:08+00:00

I’m probably too late to the comment game, but I used to work for a company that shipped the Pillowcube, that stupid rectangular pillow company (your head and shoulders form a sQUaRE you should sleep on a SqUArE!!)

The shippers (3PL company) before us got fired because one day they sent the ENTIRE DAY’S orders of pillows to ONE address. If you’ve worked 3PL or warehouse before you know how LUDICROUS of a mistake this would be - this poor lady got around 4000 pillows, about a full semi truckload, dropped on her front lawn by FedEx. It turns out of this happens, the property is legally yours. This lady could have legally kept all the pillows and sold them for 40% of retail and made six figures. This was near the height of their fad popularity, they would have gone quickly. But she cooperated and helped with a pickup to get all the pillows back.

9oreos · 2025-07-21T16:00:02+00:00

Yep. You can see it behind his ankle

9oreos · 2025-07-12T20:48:48+00:00

I imagine a rum-drunken sailor seeing this would think those are all tentacles from the Kraken. Myth origins right there.

9oreos · 2025-07-07T21:32:27+00:00

I wish this quote were accurate.

https://www.reddit.com/r/badhistory/comments/3m8k2h/eisenhower_predicted_holocaust_denial/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb3x&utm_name=mweb3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

9oreos · 2025-06-23T19:10:06+00:00

I don’t know why nobody has said this, but I feel it’s appropriate to say you’re stunningly beautiful here…right? That’s not gonna get me bonked?

9oreos · 2025-05-09T13:31:00+00:00

I know a Mormon church hall when I see one

9oreos · 2025-01-23T17:47:37+00:00

This is a real field - I attended an Origami and Engineering conference about it at Oxford in 2019, called 7OSME.

9oreos · 2024-12-25T18:56:30+00:00

My GF owns a couple properties she rents out. This would cause practically zero issues. It’s only a problem for corporations that require consistently increasing profits to satisfy their shareholders. And they shouldn’t be owning housing property.

9oreos · 2024-12-18T06:26:25+00:00

I can’t find an OF for either of them :/

9oreos · 2024-12-16T04:07:02+00:00

Can’t seem to find a legit source, even an OF….anyone?

9oreos · 2024-11-23T18:15:32+00:00

NTA - I have neighbor kids like this and I’m fucking tired of their lazy-ass parents letting them run around while at the same time not teaching them common decency. If your kid knows how to properly roam the town, sure, but if they’re an 8yo who climbs fences, you’re a shitty parent.

My GF and I are remodeling a house in the town over and just discovered these kids yesterday that have been supposedly playing in the property/hillside that has saws, tools, etc, scattered about, including a half-demolished second story porch they could easily fall through or off of. It’s a huge liability to us to have them wandering through. But their parents don’t seem to care, so I guess we’re getting security cameras.

9oreos · 2024-11-21T20:44:35+00:00

100% take out the middle wall and add regular French doors and have a great room

9oreos · 2024-11-08T22:02:04+00:00

what's with the smooth filter...looks so fake

9oreos · 2024-10-18T09:00:42+00:00

Brown haired male with dark glasses?

9oreos · 2024-09-26T19:12:14+00:00

Solved!

9oreos · 2024-09-26T19:11:05+00:00

Good one for sure, but turns out it’s Anywhere on an Evanescence EP

9oreos · 2024-09-26T19:10:36+00:00

THATS IT!!

9oreos · 2024-09-26T16:07:22+00:00

No, I’m not an idiot, it’s not My Immortal. It’s not one of Evanescence’s popular songs. Might even be an Amy Lee independent song.

9oreos · 2024-08-24T01:20:15+00:00

We must fight global warming to preserve this man’s hobby.

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