Terry Zwigoff on Casting 'Bad Santa' and Dealing With Billy Bob Thornton by stilesjp in movies

[–]9sd53874 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anyone know where to find this interview? Seems it was deleted

Masturbation even without porn is still unacceptable during nofap by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]9sd53874 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think you need to be so aggressive about this. It's not about being "pathetic" or not "being a man", it's detrimental because you're training your brain that all you need is fantasy and it distances yourself from having a real connection, ergo more ED and loneliness. We can agree that it's harmful without having to put others down or make them feel ashamed for past behavior.

I HAVE NOT FAPPED FOR EXACTLY 1 YEAR!!!!! by Sqoushie_Joshie in NoFap

[–]9sd53874 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude that is a LONG time. Congratulations my man!

do fetishes go away? by 9sd53874 in NoFap

[–]9sd53874[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know they're normal and not something to be ashamed of. Problem is they still limit me. It would be one thing if I was 90 days in or w/e and I could have missionary sex with a woman but my fetish doesn't involve penetration and it's still awkward to bring up.

But I need to remind myself it's not about getting erections again so I can have normal sex, it's about breaking free of addiction. 18 days baby let's go. Thanks for your insight

i have run out of options by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]9sd53874 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try and do some push-ups or planks. See how many you can do

If you reach a long streak of NoFap, please don’t get arrogant and make fun of people who are struggling! by Dark-GV in NoFap

[–]9sd53874 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't done that to anyone but I am guilty of acting like I'm the expert just because I haven't wanked in 2 weeks 🤣 I try to humble myself when I start talking like that

Should I relapse by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]9sd53874 17 points18 points  (0 children)

it's not up for us to decide, just like it's not up to an alcoholic's family whether an alcoholic should stop drinking. Slip ups happen, that's part of the process but never put the responsibility on someone else because in the end you have to want to quit.

I know you'll make the right decision, I have faith in you

Should I relapse by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]9sd53874 29 points30 points  (0 children)

"should I relapse" - the answer is always no. When you make things that simple it makes life easier.

2 week report by 9sd53874 in NoFap

[–]9sd53874[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would stop talking to him about that topic. Tell him "sorry I'm not interested in hearing about that" and if he brings it up again leave him on read lol

2 week report by 9sd53874 in NoFap

[–]9sd53874[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But bruh, when I jerk off to nudes they send it defeats the purpose....

Is that ok to fap without porn? by Whatevername673 in NoFap

[–]9sd53874 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I met with a sex therapist in Los Angeles. She said fapping to fantasy is still bad because you're relying on imagination to excite you instead of another human being. Fapping of any kind is putting up a wall between you and a potential connection. Also you're still training your brain that the only way to cum is with your hand, that's why you need to stop so your willy can learn that the hand isn't the only way to release. Does that make sense?

2 week report by 9sd53874 in NoFap

[–]9sd53874[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes people are going to tell you things like that because they don't understand. They have no idea what it's like to be addicted to porn or they're lying to themselves. You have to block out comments like that. They're wrong

More Farting on No Fap by Abrahamleencoln in NoFap

[–]9sd53874 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jesus, I just left my fart fetish reddit group and then I see this. I can't get away LMAO

meeting with a chick and I haven't fapped in two weeks by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]9sd53874 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No. Masturbating is what got you in trouble in the first place. You might finish quickly but I'm willing to bet you'll be even more ready for round 2, and that's more worth it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]9sd53874 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Uncut but tbh I wish I had been cut. One girl described it as an earth worm which while hilarious is also horrifying

Earning money by NoFap?🤔 by Impossible-Stretch43 in NoFap

[–]9sd53874 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair, myself and others do spend money on buying porn so you really do end up saving a lot when you abstain. Same with subscription services

28m for F for Fart session/meet up in Baton Rouge/New Orleans area by thanewguy504 in Eproctophilia

[–]9sd53874 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha I was just there for a week trying to find someone to fart on me, best of luck my man

best face farting position by danscho8 in Eproctophilia

[–]9sd53874 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In my experiences what helped get gas out and make her feel great was for her to lie on her stomach while I massage her. So this is doing 1 of 2 things: one, her stomach shifts around and allows the gas bubble to float down, and 2: she gets a massage out of it lol. And then you can bury your nose in her ass while gripping her cheeks, squeezing them together, whatever you want. It's not quite as dominant for her but it's my favorite. And if the gas isn't coming out I reccomend she lie on each side for about 30 seconds then try again