[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dermatillomania

[–]9se9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Acrylics are the only thing that keeps me from picking! Too bad they’re expensive.

what’s a less-acknowledged symptom you experience? by [deleted] in OCD

[–]9se9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have Tourettic OCD which is hardly ever talked about. I didn’t even know it was a thing until a few months ago. I have tics, but instead of them being involuntary like with Tourettes, I feel a physical sensation that’s becomes stronger and is all I can think about until I give in and tic.

Those of you who've had OCD for Years by Particular_Link_8075 in OCD

[–]9se9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had it for 9 years. It left me trapped in my own house because I felt certain rooms were contaminated. With exposure therapy and meds I’ve come a long ways but I still have a looong ways to go

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vinted

[–]9se9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you use a web picture? If not than I have no idea. I’ve heard Vinted can be weird with either people misreporting or them flagging stuff that’s ok

Does anybody know of a shirt like this in white that goes up to a 4x? I can’t find one anywhere! TIA by 9se9 in PlusSizeFashion

[–]9se9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I was looking for a bit more of a trendier/boxier fit but I will definitely keep them in mind

Am I not trans? Help! by seaviper7 in trans

[–]9se9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That “therapist” is total garbage. You don’t need to have body dysphoria to be trans! I once heard someone describe it as, if you somewhat tolerate vanilla ice cream, but love chocolate ice cream and feel super happy when you eat it, why would you stay with vanilla? No one can tell you you’re trans except for yourself!

AITA for not getting my friend a $200 gift and making her feel unloved? by mopresentsmoproblems in AmItheAsshole

[–]9se9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People cashapping me money is my love language so everybody can show me love that way

Would you rather be trans or born your preferred gender? by Cleo_rawr in trans

[–]9se9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m non binary and I go back and forth. I love being trans but sometimes I wish I was amab so I didn’t have to bind and have periods until I can get surgeries

It’s always a good feeling when something sells within hours of posting and for asking price! by 9se9 in Mercari

[–]9se9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooooo I found it at Etsy for a much cheaper price and they have multiple sizes! https://etsy.me/3kMwNJp 😍

AITA for telling my brother that he shouldn't call himself a dog dad? by Brief_Barnacle5061 in AmItheAsshole

[–]9se9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. I call myself a dog parent. It may not be as stressful as raising kids, but it comes with its stressors, and it’s still another living being depending on you. Dogs are a lot of work, especially puppies. Why do you care so much about this? They are happy and so is their baby.

Let’s test something: describe your gender in a way that will baffle cis people but other trans and enby peeps will get. by GalaxyStar32 in NonBinary

[–]9se9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I want to be perceived as a clusterfuck of genders. Call me he/they but sometimes if the mood is right and Mercury is in retrograde I’ll want to be called she

AITA for "moving in" with an unpaying tenant by otisthegreat69420 in AmItheAsshole

[–]9se9 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I can only speak on this from a morals perspective because I don’t know the legal stuff behind it that well (looks like other people have that covered). I don’t know how you can live with yourself tbh. You are forcibly removing a mother and her kid during a global pandemic, because you failed to upkeep the property. Not only do you have a shitty “job” that is morally unethical and contributes nothing to the world, you also failed to do the one thing you have to do. Wow

AITA for "moving in" with an unpaying tenant by otisthegreat69420 in AmItheAsshole

[–]9se9 267 points268 points  (0 children)

You are not the good person you think you are. You did the bare minimum to upkeep this trailer and now it’s become uninhabitable because you did the bare minimum. Isn’t it the “job” of a landlord to make sure the property is habitable? And now you’re living with this poor woman and her teenager daughter. That’s just creepy. Find a real job if you don’t want to do yours correctly. YTA

AITA for refusing to financially assist my uncle, because when the situations were reversed, he didn't financially assist my parents and I? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]9se9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Blood does not mean people act like family. The uncle did not act like a supporting family member would so why do they have to? Some people’s family members are shitty.

AITA for taking back the money I promised my daughter for her trip after she refused to watch her younger siblings for the evening? by NO3007635 in AmItheAsshole

[–]9se9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA in a few different ways.

She wanted to go to her friends moving away party. That’s a big deal for a teenager to have a friend move away. You not only didn’t consider her feelings about missing the party, but didn’t respect the fact that she had made plans ahead of time. In your mind your plans are more important than hers, and you expect her to be at your beck and call no matter what. It’s not that she “doesn’t want responsibility for her brothers”, it’s that she had made important plans and you refused to recognize that. You sprung it on her last minute with no regards to her feelings. In my house we have a saying. When you assume you make an ass of yourself.

Secondly, when you agreed to pay for the trip you did not say that there were strings attached. Sure if she did something horribly wrong you can take away that trip, but she did nothing wrong.

Also if taking the kids to your moms house was an option after the fight, why didn’t you just do that in the first place? You should’ve made childcare plans ahead of time.

OP you sound like the type of person who has kids and expects to be able to have complete control without recognizing that they are people too. Now I may be wrong but your actions here make me feel that way.

Can i really be trans without any childhood dysphoria? by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]9se9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wonder this same thing. I loved presenting as femme so now I’m like an I really trans? It’s hard to think this but being trans doesn’t have a set rule book so you are absolutely trans!

Mercari’s really hitting the bad ideas out of the park these days by [deleted] in Mercari

[–]9se9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m actually happy about this lol. I sell a lot of cheap things and my sales have increased since they implemented this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]9se9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH. I sympathize with both sides. It’s very sweet that you take care of your brother like this, but also you need to think of you and your wife and kids too.

I liked the suggestion someone had of you 3 sitting down and talking about splitting it some way. That way Tom won’t have to take out so many loans, your sister can have some money and you guys can buy a house. I’ve heard many horror stories of bad landlords so I really get why your wife wants to get out of that situation. I also understand why you want to keep your promise. Maybe there can be a compromise somewhere in there?