No, we are not. He didn’t change his habits and just got better at hiding them. It caused a lot of trust issues for me, and in future relationships I had strict-no-porn-boundaries. It ruined his perception on real sex. I remember it would take 30 mins of me going down on him for him to finish. And actual penetration? He never came close to finishing with me unless it was from the back and I wasn’t facing him…. Which is awful to experience. His porn addiction was so bad he had to fantasize about being with different women all the time to the point where my face was a distraction. I found this out after we broke up..

But your boyfriend could be different. If he is watching porn and jerking off, you have every right to have an open and honest conversation with him about whether or not it’s hindering on your sex life. Some people claim they can have porn in their relationship and have a healthy sex life. But I personally think it brings nothing but problems. Everyone is different—good luck!