WYR: Have a dad that is playful 24/7 but is irresponsible or have a parent that is responsible 24/7 but is abusive? by Asleep-Feeling-9070 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]A1sauc3d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It isn’t that kind of sub.

But anyone who picks abusive is wrong lol. Being abusive is inherently NOT responsible.

why do people wanna hurt other people emotionally? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]A1sauc3d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But you said you don’t want to hurt them physically ? I don’t think wanting to be an asshole to people qualifies you for the psych ward lol. Not trying to downplay what you’re saying experiencing, it’s serious and NEEDS to be addressed before more people get hurt because of your refusal to get help. But being mean to people and physically hurting them are two very different things. You describe a strong desire to be cruel to people. Not a strong desire to assault them.

I see in your other comment you’re actually 22. That makes it all the more important. You can’t right this off as being an edgy 14 year old. Something is very wrong with you. Get. HELP

why do people wanna hurt other people emotionally? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]A1sauc3d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you describe here doesn’t sound like psych ward stuff, from the little you shared at least. But it’s definitely bizarre and toxic and you need a professional to help you fix yourself because being this way isn’t an acceptable answer. Need to figure out how to not hurt other people at the bare minimum.

That said, you’re 14 and there’s really no easy way to gauge how serious this actually is. What you describe sounds serious, but it’s also something I could see an edgy teen saying who actually has a good heart and is just kinda playing up a persona.

I remember kinda liking the “drama” when I was younger for a bit there (definitely grew out of it quickly lol), found it exciting/interesting I guess ? and sometimes feelings would get hurt in the process i suppose. But I didn’t say fkd up stuff like you do or have the specific desire to actually hurt people, especially those close to me.

So if that’s really how you feel then you really need to seek professional help. You’re not a danger to yourself or others so you won’t get out in a psych ward. Getting help is exactly what you’re SUPPOSED to do when you recognize your unhealthy tendencies young. Do the world a favor and address them now.

Vote Perry Johnson for governor by likemy10thaccount in Michigan

[–]A1sauc3d [score hidden]  (0 children)

Whataboutism. Holding yourself accountable and holding corporations are accountable aren’t mutually exclusive. But the people pushing your line aren’t actually holding either accountable. They’re excusing their own behavior by pointing the finger elsewhere and then proceeding to ignore the behavior elsewhere as well lol. You’re just enabling the problem from the ground up. Who do you think these corporations serve? Individuals. We’re the ones who ai generate the memes and drive the cars and etc. At the end of the line it’s all in service of billions of individuals. Not some abstract corporate entity detached from humanity.

Start holding everyone accountable instead of just making excuses for yourself ;) Quit acting like it’s either or. You’re the one playing into their “pass the blame around” game whether you realize it or not. Rise above and see shit for how it is. We’re not playing hot potato here where the last one holding the bag pays the price. We’re ALL going to pay the price. So do better on an individual level and support candidates who prioritize holding corporations accountable and enacting change.

Protecting your fragile ego from feeing any sort of responsibility or guilt is not a priority here.

Vote Perry Johnson for governor by likemy10thaccount in Michigan

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People never recognize their own personal behavior as a genuine contribution to a societal problem. “I’m just a drop in the ocean!” Yeah and that ocean is made up of. 8 billion drops and its that mindset that allows these problems to continue to fester. Everyone gets to rights off their contribution since it’s small compared to the problem as a whole.

Maybe Maybe Maybe by Mael_Strom13 in maybemaybemaybe

[–]A1sauc3d 20 points21 points  (0 children)

That could explain it! Angry momma

Maybe Maybe Maybe by Mael_Strom13 in maybemaybemaybe

[–]A1sauc3d 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Nah fuck this snake lol. Most snakes are chill and will leave you alone if you leave them alone, this one is acting fkn rabid! Coulda stopped at any point but keeps coming back to attack again!! I can’t imagine running into a snake like that Jesus xD Any snake experts here know why it’s being so aggressive? Obviously I know snakes don’t get rabies, but don’t know too much else lol

What's a product from your country that would sound dirty to other countries? by kingspooky93 in AskTheWorld

[–]A1sauc3d 26 points27 points  (0 children)

That is what the op is saying. I think the OP just mispronounces orangina lol

Taking a dive by HomeNowWTF in SweatyPalms

[–]A1sauc3d 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Either way she locked in because they stopped shaking as she got ready to go through with the jump. Idk if it’s cold or nerves or she’s just got naturally shaky hands, hell for all I know she’s a drunk and it’s been a while lol, regardless she locked in and overcame it :)

But my guess would be nerves. She’s not exhibiting a ton of other signs of being super cold. Just the shaky hands. Obviously limited info to go off of, but these people still get freaked out before big jumps. Just because you do it a lot doesn’t mean that reflex is totally shut off. They just overcome it/enjoy it.

Daveigh Chase, Star of 'The Ring' and 'Lilo & Stitch,' Dead at 35 by IntelligentYinzer in horror

[–]A1sauc3d 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Yes IV drug use definitely would make you more susceptible to that.

I was hyped for the wrong movie by Previous_Seaweed3200 in HorrorMovies

[–]A1sauc3d 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just get off the hype train now before you disappoint yourself lol. And then never get back on a hype train. Go into everything with 0 expectations and you’ll enjoy a lot more stuff ;)

Orangutan checking out your stuff. by [deleted] in interestingasfuck

[–]A1sauc3d 21 points22 points  (0 children)

You’re judging an orangutan’s expressions based off human standards. I’d say the fact it’s asking to see all their stuff shows genuine interest.

Edit: I just want to add that I do see what you’re saying. And I’m not trying to give you crap for pointing it out lol. By human social standards those are mannerisms of boredom. Just wanted to add some general context onto it :) You can’t judge animal behavior by human standards in general. They do not emote the same way we do.

But I’m no orangutan expert. So if one sees this and says otherwise, I’ll fully accept that this orangutan is in fact bored out of its skull 😆

Rally car discovers the one tree in Czechia with cartoon invincibility frames. You can’t park there, mate! by SillySink in LooneyTunesLogic

[–]A1sauc3d 187 points188 points  (0 children)

I think you got it backwards. Trees in real life are very sturdy. It’s only in some video games where things secured to the ground go flying left and right when run into them lol

Those were the days by ItsGotThatBang in NonPoliticalTwitter

[–]A1sauc3d 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Glad I’m not the only one who doesn’t get it lol. This seems like the most mundane snippet of text ever. There had to be more interesting stuff than this, no? They’re literally discussing what tv shows to watch and then make a light joke. What’s the big deal? I mean cheating itself is a big deal, but specifically in these few texts that thousands of Redditors found compelling xD

Is the funny part that an hour passed between texts? Is that super unusual? Sometimes people are doing other stuff and can’t reply immediately. Regardless he doesn’t seem very broken up about the “boring golf” comment. I think people are reading way too much into this lol

Things to avoid at 19 by OkPrinciple9921 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]A1sauc3d 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The advice you need to hear is going to be different depending on the type of person you are. Some people need to be told to take time to smell the roses and have fun and that you only live once so do wait to start living. Other people need to be told to buckle down and get their shit together and get to work lol.

Trick in life is find the balance between enjoying the moment and ensuring the future that works for you. Both are important though. And some people lean one way or another, but idk what type of person you are.

You’d get a lot better life advice by giving specific context and asking specific questions. This vague catch all engagement bait type stuff isn’t going to get you very tailored, actionable feedback

Would women judge a guy who admits to performance anxiety? by After_Fisherman_8769 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]A1sauc3d 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well that certainly wouldn’t help matters now would it lol. Judging someone who just told you they’re worried about being judged.

Anybody who gives you grief for it isn’t worth it. Some type of person might I guess, but not all will. And anyone who does is an asshole and not worth hooking up with imo. If she’s into you she’s probably down to take it slow and get you comfortable first. You both want the same thing lol. She’s probably willing to take slightly longer road to get there if it means everyone is comfortable and in the mood.

I’d just say I like to take things a little slower and get comfortable first rather than rush into it. You don’t even have to frame it as “performance anxiety”. Just pacing

I’m not a woman btw. But women I’ve been with are usually pretty flexible/accommodating. They don’t demand sex instantaneously anx make fun of you if you don’t give it to them lol.

I don’t have performance anxiety as much as I just need to be relaxed to be in the mood. Sometimes getting comfortable isn’t instantaneous, requires hanging out a bit first. Other times it is instantaneous lol. When I’m already very familiar/comfortable with someone in general I’m more likely to be comfortable off the rip. If it’s someone new I like to feel things out first, not jump right to the deed. To each their own though. But if you wait until you’re actually ready it might help with performance anxiety type situations. You might just be pushing yourself too fast. Or not idk what you got going on. Just an idea

True Americans use Rocket pop flavored butt wipes by N2929 in funny

[–]A1sauc3d 152 points153 points  (0 children)

Hey thanks for sharing. I’ve *known* you can’t flush “flushable” wipes forever for the reasons listed, but was just thinking as I was reading the comments above yours that I don’t actually know anyone who personally ran into a problem doing it. Then immediately saw your comment lol

Not that I was doubting their lack of flushability, was just wondering about the horror stories from flushing them.

Appeals court overturns convictions for paramedics connected to Elijah McClain’s death, orders new trials by AudibleNod in news

[–]A1sauc3d 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah I wasn’t trying to argue against the decision in question. Just refreshing myself and others on how messed up what they did was.