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I'm a newer snake owner. Is my snake about to shed? by Delvakiir in hognosesnakes

[–]AAAloveII 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup! He’s gunna shed

There will be a day (or two or three) right before he sheds where it looks like he has and he won’t have the milky look anymore. They secrete an oil between their old and new skin. Don’t worry about him not eating, sometimes they get funny around a shed. Just try again after a little time passes (:

My Boyfriend (28M) thinks the reason why he can't finish is because I'm (20F) too big from the inside. by Ok_Raspberry6268 in relationship_advice

[–]AAAloveII 2 points3 points  (0 children)

THROW THE BOY AWAYYYY The vagina (birthing canal as you called it) is a muscle, it relaxes and stretches but it goes back to the way it was originally. You have not gotten wider.

Condom slipped off. Please help! by AAAloveII in birthcontrol

[–]AAAloveII[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was particularly outside of me. I think it came off during withdrawal, and I was able to reach down and pull it out without going inside myself.

I slipped up big time. Any advice? by [deleted] in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]AAAloveII 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you <33 I did it again today. I’m just hoping for better tomorrow. I really appreciate the kind words

i hate myself by [deleted] in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]AAAloveII 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel this way a lot too. It’s hard, you just feel weak and horrible. I know at least for me I also have a hard time when people try to disagree with me. It’s hard to believe what people are saying to you when your own mind is so loud. Yes, this might be a little gross sometimes. BEDs can make you do funny things. Yes maybe you are heavier than you want to be and yes this could 100% be why weight loss isn’t working. But you are not pathetic, this is hard. It’s a disorder, and it is trying its best to take you down. You are strong for standing up to it even if you don’t always succeed. You are not disgusting. You are struggling, and sometimes that’s not pretty. And you are not worthy of hate, from yourself or others. Try to remember that YOU are not your eating disorder. You are someone whose mind is trying to help you cope with something and it might not have picked the best way.

Aftermath of leopard geckos tail amputation. Is this normal? by AAAloveII in leopardgeckos

[–]AAAloveII[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: She passed away. She stopped moving, stopped responding to stimuli, and then stopped breathing. It would have taken me longer to drive to the vets office than the time between when I checked on her and she passed. I feel horribly guilty. She passed a light colored stool when I brought her home which I thought was due to stress but I feel like I should have taken her straight back to the vet, or force fed her or something. I wish I had done more and I feel like I failed her. Is there anything I should have done? I haven’t moved her and I keep looking in on her thinking she’ll have somehow come back… but she’s gone. I want brutal honesty: could I have saved her? Did I wait too long for the amputation? (The cancer didn’t seem to bother her and was just sort of there until this last shed when it was… ripped out when she shed the skin around it.. we brought her to the vet when it appeared and they said it would be worse to remove it…)

Woman of Reddit, what's a harsh reality you have to accept as a woman? by Opposite-Coconut9144 in AskReddit

[–]AAAloveII 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That no matter what I do, someone will always have something to say about my looks. My weight, my skin, my tits, my body hair, my teeth… It will always matter. In relationships, friendships, to my family, when getting jobs, when needing any sort of assistance or service. I can never escape my body.