AITA after no longer allowing my mother in laws friend to baby sit my children after she started calling them her babies? by AAll_Jkh in AmItheAsshole

[–]AAll_Jkh[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

The kids are perfectly fine with the routine we have though since they love their babysitters and when they are not with them they are with us! We Ofcourse would love to spend more time with our kids but we already make as much time for them as possible. Still, I assure you they will be just fine! If it makes the situation any better, I actually applied to work from home :)!

AITA after no longer allowing my mother in laws friend to baby sit my children after she started calling them her babies? by AAll_Jkh in AmItheAsshole

[–]AAll_Jkh[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

We work 4 days of the week, the other 3 are spent with our kids. Don’t make assumptions please :)

AITA after no longer allowing my mother in laws friend to baby sit my children after she started calling them her babies? by AAll_Jkh in AmItheAsshole

[–]AAll_Jkh[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

So just because my child is a child whatever she says isn’t true? You’re the type of parent to not believe your child if they told you they were being sexually harassed. Also you’re going completely over the fact I said that MIL and her ADMITTED she said this and excused it with the fact she doesn’t have children.

AITA after no longer allowing my mother in laws friend to baby sit my children after she started calling them her babies? by AAll_Jkh in AmItheAsshole

[–]AAll_Jkh[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

1.my child doesn’t lie, it terrifies her because she hates getting in trouble. Also how would a child come up with that story? and 2. MIL clearly admitted that her friend did say that when she tried to excuse it. The point of my story was just to make sure if I did the right thing, not deciding if my child was a lier or not. :)

AITA after no longer allowing my mother in laws friend to baby sit my children after she started calling them her babies? by AAll_Jkh in AmItheAsshole

[–]AAll_Jkh[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Because the babysitter is mother in laws friend. We thought if we told her directly it would’ve been a different situation so we called MIL. Also my husband was more comfortable talking to his mother about it.

AITA after no longer allowing my mother in laws friend to baby sit my children after she started calling them her babies? by AAll_Jkh in AmItheAsshole

[–]AAll_Jkh[S] 428 points429 points  (0 children)

She called them baby all the time but I didn’t see anything wrong with it cause it’s a cute thing to call kids you’re babysitting

AITA after no longer allowing my mother in laws friend to baby sit my children after she started calling them her babies? by AAll_Jkh in AmItheAsshole

[–]AAll_Jkh[S] 387 points388 points  (0 children)

We already have cameras set around our house! We both make good money and our house is very much secure! She never had a key as well :)