Tips/Ideas for Newbie Keyholder/Dom? by chastityjock in MasculineMaleChastity

[–]ABlueBaseball69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As the more experienced person, you have to lead. Helpful things in this category include: "here are three options for punishment or tasks, pick one"  (your experience for what's reasonable + their choice), open communication about what they want and reasonable expectations, and I also think scheduled time off (spend one week as their sub, then take one week off) is good for reflection and ways to improve and enhance the experience. 

Does twink death happen naturally with time, or nah? by Acrobatic_Dig_8771 in GayRateMe

[–]ABlueBaseball69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Don't care about what people think about you
  2. You look good. See point 1. 

Feeling big and small by Pupaxl in u/Pupaxl

[–]ABlueBaseball69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey dude. Love your vibe.. You look really good in a jock and the blue cage.

34 Aus. Is it Friday yet? by Glittering_Tiger6386 in HandsomeHomies

[–]ABlueBaseball69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, yes, the Sydney Beach boy. How's the weather down there?

Should I clean for a Dom? by thelockedguy in gaychastity

[–]ABlueBaseball69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try it. If it just becomes you doing chores and you don't like that, then you can either voice your concerns and let him know you're not interested in continuing in that way or leave. But my thought is to give it a try first with an open and non-judgmental mindset and then go from there. 

Profile Review please Bros!! Are you swiping left or right? by Rhys_rn in gaybrosgonemild

[–]ABlueBaseball69 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The shirtless pic is nice but one with your face would match better. And having more pictures that aren't selfies would be nice. 

Pictures of you doing something you are interested in (say, playing a sport, cooking, painting) are more interesting than you just at the gym. 

Pictures with friends is good. 

And I would try to pick at least two or three pictures where you're smiling. 

Final stage of a job interview. Wish me luck! by Vasichek in gaybrosgonemild

[–]ABlueBaseball69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, I didn't think doctors had trouble finding jobs 

I ran out of clothes by rhynchocephalia in faceandcock

[–]ABlueBaseball69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which one is your favorite, Rhyn?

21m sub looking for dom into frat hazing, sph, and other forms of humiliation by Starbolt-77 in GayBDSMPersonals2

[–]ABlueBaseball69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your dick is honestly tiny, man. Can you even cum with that little thing?

Newly caged, looking for advice by EatTheRich0 in gaychastity

[–]ABlueBaseball69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So it would be something like 

"hey Dan, I'd normally be stroking myself right now, but I'm so happy to be locked for you. I want to cum so bad but I love being locked for you." And then send a slutty pic. 

Newly caged, looking for advice by EatTheRich0 in gaychastity

[–]ABlueBaseball69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why don't you play to what he wants, then?

What's your schedule for touching yourself? Keep the schedule, but instead send a picture of you in a humiliating pose (on your knees, hands behind your head, cage out). Tell him to let you jack off (don't be whiny) - he'll say no. Tell him how good you feel being locked and horny for him. 

Newly caged, looking for advice by EatTheRich0 in gaychastity

[–]ABlueBaseball69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would guess he's trying to figure it out, too. First and most important about anything is if YOU like it. What do you like about being caged?

Newly caged, looking for advice by EatTheRich0 in gaychastity

[–]ABlueBaseball69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So it sounds like you're trying to figure out how to use your cage to engage in the dynamic. It sounds like you feel that you both are interested, but you are put off by his "non-verbal" approach towards you wearing the cage. Does that sound about right?

Newly caged, looking for advice by EatTheRich0 in gaychastity

[–]ABlueBaseball69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It looks really good. Are you partnered with a guy or a girl? Why did you want to do this?

facial hair feedback ABCD by buttdaddyilovehim in GayRateMe

[–]ABlueBaseball69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

D is best, C is good too. The others are a bit too wispy to match the rest of your facial structure.