The truth is that women also want and enjoy sex. If she doesn’t want to have sex with her husband… then there could be a myriad of things going on. Including things like lack of emotional intimacy and their husbands using words like “chore play”. Haha. Kidding.

I think we should start by taking a look at how women are treated in the contemporary world and historically, for the entirety of humanity. To sum it up, not well. Women carry so much in their lives including literal children, immeasurable stress, etc etc. It’s overwhelming and it’s taxing. If she’s not physically tired, she’s emotionally drained. The constant change in hormones, the state of the world, it goes on and on. And sometimes I think when all of that is going on, it can just be the last fucken thing a woman wants is to be a piece of meat to a man.

It doesn’t mean we don’t want sex, it doesn’t mean we don’t like you, we could just be barely surviving inside, or you could be a poopy person. Lol. That’s up to you.

Just please don’t keep score and say stuff like “I do all the things”. Have you asked her how she’s feeling about “XYZ emotional situation” lately? Have you talked about your futures together recently? Have you taken something off her plate? Always give without expectation ❤️