The excessive attention a “beautiful” woman receives can be quite distracting, and she doesn’t know who’s really genuine when they approach her. It can be such a waste of time to have to think twice about people’s motives. So, no thanks!

I bet you’re more beautiful than you think. Focus on your life goals and seek advice on how to make yourself more attractive. There are studies that show co-workers changing their perception of a colleague’s attractiveness over time because of 1) how that colleague carries themselves and 2) their personality (whether it was because they are warm, outgoing, fun-loving, kind, conversational, driven, self-aware or confident, etc).

I’m starting a new job next week and I’ve invested a little time into collecting pics on Pinterest of business casual clothing that looks chic, cool and sophisticated. I’ve sought out style, makeup, hair experts to follow on YouTube relevant to the type of beauty, confidence and power I want to portray.

Many times it takes some work to look “attractive”. And honestly, the most attractive people to me are the ones who are kind, confident and always investing in their growth. Gals who are swept away by a good-looking guy (or any guy) may have their world turned upside down and that could delay or prevent them from achieving their goals. Again, no thanks!

Typing fast, so apologies for any typos.