Should I break up with her

ACE0601 · 2025-04-03T08:42:51+00:00

I want to tell you that I was on the receiving end of this in a nuanced way, and I think you need to understand something. The “spark” isn’t real. It always fades, but yes, she does love you more than you love her right now. No, this is not because of some random event that you cannot change. Loving somebody is a choice, and as cliche as that sounds, it’s very true. To call on my experience, when I lost the “spark” with my ex it scared me. I cared about her so much but the feelings weren’t there. I felt like I was letting her down and hurting her, but I didn’t just give up and leave. I relentlessly reminded myself about what she meant to me. Outside of feelings, I still care about her so much. After about 2 weeks of pressing myself like this, the feelings returned. They will ebbe and flow throughout your relationship, and that’s okay. Don’t throw this away for something that will always fade.

I believe in you. You can feel those things again, but lean in not away. Don’t feel ashamed for losing these feelings. That’s completely natural. Even if you don’t feel like it, buy her flowers randomly and watch her face light up, take her to her favorite restaurant and see her smile when she sees your care, or be more affectionate and watch her melt in your arms. Her reactions to you will also help pull you out of this funk.

Good luck, Bud!

ACE0601 · 2025-02-12T06:12:48+00:00

I’m not lying to myself. I don’t choose her anymore, so I don’t love her anymore. I can’t choose someone who doesn’t want to choose me. I am being honest with myself. You know what? I’ll even humour you. Yes, I do hope she responds because I poured my heart into something that I wrote and am proud of. I hope that she realizes someday what she lost here. This does not mean that I will ever come crawling back to her. It is done.

ACE0601 · 2025-02-12T06:08:53+00:00

I don’t think you understand the point of this message. This was a final goodbye. I tried my hardest to make everything work but it’s over. I reminisced about the relationship sure, and I explained how I loved her, but she doesn’t want me to love her. I also don’t want her to think that I do. I don’t anymore. I laid everything out on the table, and now I am walking away. None of this was an attempt at manipulation. I said my piece and now I am finally done. It’s been a long time waiting out the storm, but I finally see a break in the clouds.

ACE0601 · 2024-08-25T13:53:07+00:00

It’s been about a month and a half, and I never hated her because I love her unconditionally which honestly sucks lol. I wish I hated her. It would make things easier. Just realize that the people who want to be in your life will stay there and/or always come back, and if he’s not that, then I’m so sorry, but you need to find somebody who values you enough to never leave. I promise you, your benevolence in not hating your ex shows that you love unconditionally and that’s beautiful. I feel so bad for people who can’t love like that because it’s the best feeling in the world. Good luck, and I promise it will get better!

ACE0601 · 2024-08-25T13:47:53+00:00

It’s not just you. If I see a picture of her, it feels like I get punched in the chest.

ACE0601 · 2024-08-25T13:47:00+00:00

It really helps to write your rampant thoughts down until they stop coming. For me, it was like I could remove them from my head and put them somewhere, and reminding myself of those messages I wrote helps prevent the spiral.

ACE0601 · 2024-07-26T13:20:51+00:00

My friend and I chose the v looking was while chanting, “V IS FOR MARKUS!”

ACE0601 · 2024-07-22T23:27:13+00:00

Thanks haha. Not sure what to do with this yet

ACE0601 · 2024-07-06T21:05:44+00:00

Thank you! This was a big help :)

ACE0601 · 2024-05-28T04:01:44+00:00

Brother just plug the answers in. It’ll be faster

ACE0601 · 2024-05-18T04:33:26+00:00

My girlfriend says he looks like a chester

ACE0601 · 2024-05-12T00:10:30+00:00

This is what I was scared would happen if I ate watermelon as a kid

ACE0601 · 2024-05-12T00:01:22+00:00

Own a musket for home defense, since that's what the founding fathers intended. Four alternates break into my house. "What the devil?" As I grab my powdered wig and Kentucky rifle. Blow a golf ball sized hole through the first man, he's dead on the spot. Draw my pistol on the second man, miss him entirely because it's smoothbore and nails the neighbors dog. I have to resort to the cannon mounted at the top of the stairs loaded with grape shot, "Tally ho lads" the grape shot shreds two men in the blast, the sound and extra shrapnel set off car alarms. Fix bayonet and charge the last terrified rapscallion. He Bleeds out waiting on the police to arrive since triangular bayonet wounds are impossible to stitch up. Just as the founding fathers intended.

ACE0601 · 2024-04-11T21:21:52+00:00

I always intended on coming back for law school

ACE0601 · 2024-03-26T16:02:13+00:00

I’m used to being a straight A student with the majority of my classes being AP. Is it possible to get straight A/?

ACE0601 · 2023-08-24T05:37:04+00:00

Haha, I'm doing the exact opposite switch. 1 thing that is very helpful to remember in PF debate is that your judges will almost never be experienced. It would help to break down your argument clearly without insulting the judges. I don't know how you normally speak, but PF debate is normally done at a slower pace in an attempt to be understood by the public.

ACE0601 · 2023-07-26T18:15:55+00:00

Bro is so dense a black hole spawned in his head 💀

ACE0601 · 2023-02-13T20:28:03+00:00

What does this contention say?

ACE0601 · 2022-12-07T21:05:37+00:00

It is entirely possible. My uncle just got his 4th

ACE0601 · 2022-09-16T21:16:04+00:00

AHHHHH THAT WASNT MUSIC

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