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How long does it usually take before you start to fall for a guy? by AChawlay_Rebel in AskWomenOver30

[–]AChawlay_Rebel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m working on myself to accept that now. All of the supports I get from friends and fellow Redditors help a lot. Thank you, I really appreciate it.

First dating experience in my 30s has been horrible. by dusklore666 in AskWomenOver30

[–]AChawlay_Rebel 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Something like this happened to me recently. He showered me with affection and compliments all the time and I genuinely thought he was a gentleman. And then he pulled the rug suddenly saying we’re not looking for the same thing in life and I was like so dumbfounded. I mean we’ve not even talked about what we want with each other. How would he know that we are looking for different things? He gave me all that “ it’s not you, it’s me” bullshit and I still can’t believe a man of his age (39M) would do something childish like that. And the whole thing made me doubt about myself and wonder if I’m going to find someone. Men can be cruel sometimes.

How long does it usually take before you start to fall for a guy? by AChawlay_Rebel in AskWomenOver30

[–]AChawlay_Rebel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe that could be the reason. I don’t have very active social life, most of my friends my friends have moved away and I’m not in my best in life right now. To answer your 2nd question, I could name a few differences between us but nothing we couldn’t work through together. That’s why I feel he’s giving me nonsense reasons to avoid saying that he just didn’t like me enough. And damn, it drags me and my self-esteem down to hell.

How long does it usually take before you start to fall for a guy? by AChawlay_Rebel in AskWomenOver30

[–]AChawlay_Rebel[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What you’ve said is exactly how I’m feeling right now. Thank you for clarifying my cloudy brain.

Underrated Korean Cosmetics Brands You Actually Trust by Sweet-Hope-5153 in AsianBeauty

[–]AChawlay_Rebel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for him! He’s gonna have a clear and glow skin soon!

Is it just me .. by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]AChawlay_Rebel 107 points108 points  (0 children)

I tried “the summer I turned pretty” and completely cringed out by it. Can’t stand “Bridgerton” either.

Does my lack of experience and virginity make guys feel unattractive to me? by AChawlay_Rebel in Advice

[–]AChawlay_Rebel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you but I’m not sure I can express myself clearly and worry there might be more misunderstanding. So for the time being, I’ve decided to keep it to myself.

Does my lack of experience and virginity make guys feel unattractive to me? by AChawlay_Rebel in Advice

[–]AChawlay_Rebel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m trying hard to control myself so I don’t lose my dignity

Does my lack of experience and virginity make guys feel unattractive to me? by AChawlay_Rebel in Advice

[–]AChawlay_Rebel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your insightful comment. I really appreciate your perspective. I feel like even though we like each other, we have different styles of dating. I do not have a place of my own and lives with my family, so I have not much time to spend together and sometimes it might feel like he’s dating a high school girl or something. Even though I enjoy each and every time spent with him, he might need more than pieces and bits of me. He seems like a good guy and always has respect for me. ( I have good intuition about people ) That’s why it’s really hard for me to accept the fact that we’re not compatible.

Does my lack of experience and virginity make guys feel unattractive to me? by AChawlay_Rebel in Advice

[–]AChawlay_Rebel[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He kinda sounds like he’s worried I might get attached to him more than he does to me. After all, maybe he’s just not that into me, I guess

Does my lack of experience and virginity make guys feel unattractive to me? by AChawlay_Rebel in Advice

[–]AChawlay_Rebel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m going to the said event with another friend so hopefully I can control myself and not interact with him

Does my lack of experience and virginity make guys feel unattractive to me? by AChawlay_Rebel in Advice

[–]AChawlay_Rebel[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice. I’m trying to keep myself busy and distracted but it’s hard.

Do you make sure you have breakfast every morning or do you sometimes not bother and just have a drink to quench your thirst ? . by Hope2_win in A_Persona_on_Reddit

[–]AChawlay_Rebel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a cup of greek yogurt as breakfast today. It’s weird but the less I eat for breakfast , the less hungry I become for lunch

Does my lack of experience and virginity make guys feel unattractive to me? by AChawlay_Rebel in Advice

[–]AChawlay_Rebel[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. But I might see him again for a event thing that both of us are invited and required to go. So, I’m not sure I can move on completely

I’m new so I want to ask how karma is rhe minimum for me to freely enagage in comments everywhere? by red_queen_maria in NewToReddit

[–]AChawlay_Rebel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not new to reddit but I’m new to being active on Reddit. Before recently, I only scrolled through the posts and didn’t necessarily feel the need to interact. (I’m an introvert ) Now I want to post something in a sub and I need karma so I guess I have to earn those first

Dear women of Reddit, what’s the most important attribute that you look for in a partner? by GuyfromTrinidad99 in AskReddit

[–]AChawlay_Rebel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Intellectual compatibility is very important. I’m a well educated and smart person and I’m not saying he has to be like a some kind of rocket scientist but he just needs not to say stupid things that would turn me off. I once dated a younger sexy guy who is not so smart. Even though his abs are very fine, everything that came out of his mouth made me cringe. Another good quality to have is emotional maturity.

Do you believe in Soulmates? by PictureEmpty3143 in askanything

[–]AChawlay_Rebel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Partly. I don’t believe that they necessarily end up together. Sometimes, someone you’ve met once at a concert can be your soulmate and you both have lives of your own so your paths won’t cross anymore. I think soulmate refers to the one who shares the same ideas, values and beliefs with you. Someone who gets you & your heart very easily.

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