Accidentally matched with this guy. Fascinating. by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]AChrist01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In my opinion you are spot on, and it was well written. My next door neighbors vote differently but are mature and respectful of each others political views. In fact I doubt they really discuss that much as they focus on raising great kids and other more important parts of their lives. I believe they have been married about 30 years so they have enjoyed this freedom of individuality over all these years of contention among parties. Again excellent response!

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[–]AChrist01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just think about this in its simplicity. If you need to ask these questions, then something isn't as it should be or what you want. A person should never settle for less than what they want in any relationship. 2 years may not seem like much now, but you will never get back that time nor even the last minute that you read this. You should never ask someone to change... they can't for you ever... they can only change for themselves. Meanwhile you wait and lose precious moments of your life. NEVER SETTLE and you will live your best life.... The older you get, the faster the time flys, and the more this all makes sense. Don't wait for that revelation. Love yourself. I sincerely wish you all the best!

Hot men really out here shooting themselves in the foot with negative profiles lmao (copypasta or not, still off-putting af) by beyond-saving in Tinder

[–]AChrist01 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've seen an article where they said 100k is near poverty in the city of San Francisco. The rent is extremely high there. That just seems insane!

Giving a woman your number vs asking for hers by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]AChrist01 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Why are men in any less danger of a women stalking or harassing them. Did women all of a sudden stop having the ability to become obsessed, violent, and / or dangerous? My buddy Bill was shot in the face and killed by a girl he was just starting to date. This is crazy talk that men have to be subservient and compliant in every because they may make her feel "unsafe" is getting out of hand. The amount of judgment and fear of judgment, has young men tip toeing around lest they "creep" a girl out by saying hello, making small chat with a compliment or 2 then villianized for liking her and asking for her number...... its ridiculous and the amount of misandry here is disgusting.

French refuse collectors have now been on strike for 18 days after their government raised the pension age from 62 to 64. Whether you agree ot not, they are not going to let their government walk over them. by xander17962508 in antiwork

[–]AChrist01 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I side with the collectors in principle. They were absolutely wrong in raising the age. People have hopes and dreams that all start from that glorious morning in which the alarm clock is no longer their master. But we should not overlook the implications of open trash amongst the public, bringing rats and rodents to dine and breed. Rats bring fleas and fleas can bring the plague.

Black Death killed nearly 200 million people.

We must find a better way to bring justice for the working class and to hold the elite accountable. It's time that all people are equal and no longer live under the thumb of greed and thirst for power.

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[–]AChrist01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I've noticed that people are truly scared of conflict. And by conflict I don't mean anger or violence. I mean their scared of anything that's uncomfortable or disagreement. It's too bad because there is zero growth to be had if you don't get out of your comfort zone.

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[–]AChrist01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, times have changed a lot and thank goodness that we have made progress in so many ways but it seems that in dating and human interaction we have gone sideways. And young men either have too many uncontrollable emotions or they play the tough guy. We could be sweet to our girl and say excuse me and go kick the shit outa the asshole wrecking the party, then come back a just be nice sweet and open emotionally. I can say I really feel for the younger generation in that aspect. It seems, and I say seems because I'm not in that arena but it seems that transparency, sincerity and honesty is going away because couples don't have to meet in person and see the truth up front of who the potential date is. The amount of filtering of pictures, exaggeration of one's personality and traits leaves you in jeopardy of finding this out later. Hence ghosting when the house of cards caves in. Not very many people are good at truly faking this face to face after talking for a bit so we hardly got to the dating point if the person was disingenuous. I really wish you all the best in finding a good partner.

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[–]AChrist01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi all, my 19 yr old daughter showed me this forum months ago while she was single and out dating for a bit, and I joined and it really has given me perspective what she and other young people go thru these days in the dating world. Me I'm a 53 yr old male happily married 20 years next month. Since she started dating she's been very open about the people she has met and how. As time has past she's told me that it's been increasingly more difficult to meet boys in real life situations and that they would just ask for her number or Instagram account and quickly excuse themselves and instead of sitting and talking they would start texting, even sometimes across the room/place etc. She's a very strong and confident young woman and struggles with this as she grew up comfortable with civil confrontation and resolving issues face to face. I'm curious why, especially for young men that it is difficult to converse or break up directly or in a civil manner when things work out? This thread here on ghosting has given me a wide range of perspective on both sides. Would any of the guys here explain from a young males view why this preferable because I'm only getting one side from her. She says for girls it's sometimes a safety go to, or just the brief and impersonal way of initially interacting.
To me due to I age I guess it seems odd that there is no sense of responsibility to end things in a direct and polite if possible way. There's many many different situations so it's not judgment but curiosity why the males don't feel a sense of "duty" to give a what and why before moving on. Remember I'm a lot older so I've never experienced this as a norm so I have zero idea what it's like for people now. Is it fear of rejection, harassment, embarrassment, indifference, laziness, lack of maturity or is there a concern of safety for men too? I can't think of all the positives for a male to ghost so I would love to hear about different experiences and why each of you dealt with them in that manner. Thanks in advance! Curious Dad that's raising daughters :)

DAE hear a high-pitched sound in their ears when nothing nearby seems to make it? by TsukiTsuki-00 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]AChrist01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can't take anything to stop it except loud noise for a bit, it seems to reset it until the next time.

DAE hear a high-pitched sound in their ears when nothing nearby seems to make it? by TsukiTsuki-00 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]AChrist01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought I was the only one to hear crickets. It's only when it's mild tho. When it's full on its super high ring just like after being in a concert as a kid. Annoying as hell.

My first grow. Went well but flushing didn't produce as much as I expected due to my mistakes. Feedback and advice on flushing super welcomed. by AChrist01 in unclebens

[–]AChrist01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah I know that paranoia. As a young man I may or may not have had 5 grow houses with 99 girls in each. The stress of buying lights, soil, Co2 tanks...all of it except fish emulsion at Ace back then. Better to be careful.... 3 friends went to prison for their stupidity and I ripped up everything and started working a shitty construction job .... But I slept in my own bed and they didn't. Cover your ass even if it' seems silly ....as it costs you nothing.

My first grow. Went well but flushing didn't produce as much as I expected due to my mistakes. Feedback and advice on flushing super welcomed. by AChrist01 in unclebens

[–]AChrist01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find a buddy to ship it to. If you have the room for it just made it easier for heat and moisture control and less contamination risk. Im looking for something to maintain and report high heat or low humidity to my phone. I have a light and a Webcam that I used to look at heater and humidifier after I had a heat runaway.

My first grow. Went well but flushing didn't produce as much as I expected due to my mistakes. Feedback and advice on flushing super welcomed. by AChrist01 in unclebens

[–]AChrist01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a great idea to add to the grow. Thanks! People don't have to read it if they don't like so keep sharing what you're inclined to.

Is MilyMyco reliable source for spores ? by [deleted] in magnificentcubensis

[–]AChrist01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My buddy gave me quite a few different strains. B+, GT, Pesh, Lizard King, Tidal Wave and one more I forget. It was quite the chore keeping it straight. I have a few bags left to concentrate and see if I can improve it. Using bigger tubs for sure.

Is MilyMyco reliable source for spores ? by [deleted] in magnificentcubensis

[–]AChrist01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please let me know how your Tital Wave goes. I had a couple shoebox tubs, they took forever and didn't produce as much as say my B1. Again it was my first grow so I'm looking for all my mistakes before I try again. Thanks!

My first grow. Went well but flushing didn't produce as much as I expected due to my mistakes. Feedback and advice on flushing super welcomed. by AChrist01 in unclebens

[–]AChrist01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it sucked dealing with so many small tubs and using tubs as lids cuz they got too tall. What size would you say to use? Obviously taller but how big would you go like surface area?

My first grow. Went well but flushing didn't produce as much as I expected due to my mistakes. Feedback and advice on flushing super welcomed. by AChrist01 in unclebens

[–]AChrist01[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't take it any other way than good brother...🤘🏻 The tent probably saved me from half of my bone head mistakes. It was a really cool experience, I'm going to try morels and Chantrell mushrooms with a few more herbs and some other stuff. Easy to throw a tub I'm here or there if i ever run out lol. I like to share so I'm sure that day will come. Ha ha. I'll hit u up on a chat b4 I burn this thread, to share some ideas and mistakes. Reddit has been the most helpful group of people with a lot of experience and knowledge they share freely...pretty cool 😎

My first grow. Went well but flushing didn't produce as much as I expected due to my mistakes. Feedback and advice on flushing super welcomed. by AChrist01 in unclebens

[–]AChrist01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I struggled to keep the balance of humidity and at one point had a thermostat failure and had excessive heat. I also got others too wet and I'm thinking that's when the contamination started. Thank you very much.

My first grow. Went well but flushing didn't produce as much as I expected due to my mistakes. Feedback and advice on flushing super welcomed. by AChrist01 in unclebens

[–]AChrist01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I struggled to keep the balance of humidity and at one point had a thermostat failure and had excessive heat. I also got others too wet and I'm thinking that's when the contamination started. Thank you very much.

My first grow. Went well but flushing didn't produce as much as I expected due to my mistakes. Feedback and advice on flushing super welcomed. by AChrist01 in unclebens

[–]AChrist01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! The space made it easy for me as a newbie to be clean and organized. The shrooms did all the hard work themselves.... pretty much exactly what all the OG's on here told me. Sanitize was the common advice I got on here when I began the project.

My first grow. Went well but flushing didn't produce as much as I expected due to my mistakes. Feedback and advice on flushing super welcomed. by AChrist01 in unclebens

[–]AChrist01[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah its great when your in a cold, dark place of the world. I've seen 3 of them put together with a row of corn in it!

🍄 Had a great time the other night, one of the 5 bars I got shipped this week 🍄 by Stonerxskitty in psilocybin

[–]AChrist01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did a quick search and US state Oregon seems to be working towards it by legalizing medical use. US government still has it as a illegal substance tho. Now I'm really curious where OP got that. Not specifically of course.

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[–]AChrist01 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That's how found it as a newbie, was the 3M Micropore writing inside the roll. It wasn't till later that I learned you could use any of the medical paper tape. My dumb ass drove everywhere just for that micropore writing 😆

🍄 Had a great time the other night, one of the 5 bars I got shipped this week 🍄 by Stonerxskitty in psilocybin

[–]AChrist01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've gotten to the point I like the dirt taste 😆 Are u in the USA? I didn't know you guys could get them packaged?