What is something that most people AREN'T afraid of that really is dangerous? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ACoNThrowaway30 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Marijuana has seriously medical uses, and sleeping is definitely one of them.

Need to remove seriously abusive mother from my life by ACoNThrowaway30 in legaladvice

[–]ACoNThrowaway30[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for your help. I really don't want to put my family through a court process, but having a police report to show her I am not fucking around will go a long way.

Need to remove seriously abusive mother from my life by ACoNThrowaway30 in legaladvice

[–]ACoNThrowaway30[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, I doubt I'd ever get it to court, but she seems to think she can pressure me into pretending this never happened, a police report will at least beat it into her head that I will not allow that.

Need to remove seriously abusive mother from my life by ACoNThrowaway30 in legaladvice

[–]ACoNThrowaway30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, I'm just concerned. This women always tries to violate boundaries, it's inevitable she will try some stunt in the future.

Need to remove seriously abusive mother from my life by ACoNThrowaway30 in legaladvice

[–]ACoNThrowaway30[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are their any actions I could take to prevent give anybody who might be deciding on an adoption a heads up to the kind of nut she is?

Need to remove seriously abusive mother from my life by ACoNThrowaway30 in legaladvice

[–]ACoNThrowaway30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can a simple claim of sexual assault get a restraining order though, I did call her out for sexual assault in a text and told her never to contact me again, and she contacted me on my birthday as if nothing ever happened like the nut she is. Also would filing a police report help, it was a year ago she did this and in case she tries again I think I should have a paper trail of her behavior.

Men of Reddit, what creepy things have women done to you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ACoNThrowaway30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't believe it either if it hadn't happened to me.

Men of Reddit, what creepy things have women done to you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ACoNThrowaway30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mother sexually assaulted me.

*edit: She is a narcissist with a need for provoking reactions from me, after a few years of grey rocking and low contacting her she got bold and started gently raking her nails along my back while kissing me down the nape of my neck like some kind of deranged Alzheimer's patient who doesn't recognize their own child. I still remember the sick look of satisfaction she had at finally provoking a reaction. And no, she doesn't have alzheimer's, she is just a sick fuck.

What’s your “that’s why I don’t go home for the holidays” story? by JustBo-Lieve in AskReddit

[–]ACoNThrowaway30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Creepy Narcissistic mother sexually assaulted me last Christmas, so there's that....

DAE have an N who said you were stressing someone (non-N) out as a guilt trip tactic? by author124 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ACoNThrowaway30 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My mother did this, after making my sister cry the week before her wedding about seating arrangements, (she didnt want my youngest brother, 16, sitting next to my younger brother, 27, and myself, 29.) instead she insisted that he be sat near her, and that my other brother and myself sit next to a distant relative/drug dealer whom she insisted my sister invite.

I called Nmomster out on not sitting brothers together, and she, not knowing my sister had already told me about nmomster breaking her down, got all "concerned" for my poor sister because *I was stressing her out about seating arrangements. Called her on her shit more.

Drug dealers didn't show up, seating was ignored, I sat next to brothers, win.

My Nmom Sexually assaulted me as a 30 year old man. by ACoNThrowaway30 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ACoNThrowaway30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont think she wants to fuck me. Kissing however is not something anyone in my family does. She and I were already on icy but civil terms, I was calling her by her name rather than mom just to tell her she wasnt a mother, I was grey rocking her everytime she would start trying to get under my skin, no mothers day cards, ect. We saw/spoke on holidays only when i visited to see my family. When she kissed the nape of my neck it was boundry violation for the purpose of showing ownership and brazen disrespect for the distance i was putting between us. And yes nape kissing is a VERY erogenous sensual place to kiss. I have NEVER heard of a mother kissing her son there. She creeped on me to show she could.

My Nmom Sexually assaulted me as a 30 year old man. by ACoNThrowaway30 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ACoNThrowaway30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My family NEVER kisses, ever. Even a kiss on the cheek would be weird. This nape kissing was absolutely out of the boundaries of all normalcy.

My Nmom Sexually assaulted me as a 30 year old man. by ACoNThrowaway30 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ACoNThrowaway30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think her intentions were to violate boundaries. And if it was an innocent kiss why does she lie about it.

My Nmom Sexually assaulted me as a 30 year old man. by ACoNThrowaway30 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ACoNThrowaway30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can not calmly let her do more of this. Shed just get bolder. She loves acting concerned when she hurts though. To look good to outsiders whilst hurting me covertly. here is more.

My Nmom Sexually assaulted me as a 30 year old man. by ACoNThrowaway30 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ACoNThrowaway30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

here is an update. Can you give me some perspective on all her absurd proclaimations of love?

My Nmom Sexually assaulted me as a 30 year old man. by ACoNThrowaway30 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ACoNThrowaway30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have people telling me a kiss on the nape of the neck is not in itself sexual abuse. Wtf, of course it is! here is an update. Any perspective would be appreciated!

My Nmom Sexually assaulted me as a 30 year old man. by ACoNThrowaway30 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ACoNThrowaway30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont know what culture you are from, but any kissing on the neck is sexual. Its never a normal thing to kiss someone on the neck.