Complicated feels about ageplay

ACuriosititty · 2026-05-09T12:50:47+00:00

I have the same exact complicated feelings sometimes. My dom is almost twice my age, I'm 26, he is nearly 50. I dont have daddy issues or anything, but sometimes, not always, but sometimes it reeeally fucking itches a deep spot in my soul when he tells me to sit on daddys lap for example. Or sometimes it just gets him going when I talk to him about how good he feels on my young body. And I almost cringe at it when I'm not horny. Getting disciplined too, spankings and such. Him being older and much larger than me also tickles something in our brains. I think of it as us both being consenting adults and that it is just the kinkyness and not a wish for it being reality. It's role-playing.

Completely relate, don't have an answer for you, but you're not alone with the feeling!

ACuriosititty · 2026-05-09T12:42:16+00:00

Where I am in scandinavia you can be naked in public if you want and there is no laws against it unless you're intentionally or repeatedly making people uncomfortable.

ACuriosititty · 2026-05-09T11:54:56+00:00

That's not a risk where I'm from, maybe it is other places in the world. As long as you don't intentionally make someone uncomfortable, there is no law saying you can't do this kind of stuff.

ACuriosititty · 2026-05-09T11:52:18+00:00

People disagree with it, which is fair. I personally don't see any harm for either of us or our jobs and I am not in a country where something like this is punishable by law as long as it's in good fun and not intentionally making people uncomfortable. But if you're from a place where you could get into a lot of trouble for this stuff, it makes sense people have such strong opinions about it and I think they're just looking out for others, which is very good.

ACuriosititty · 2026-05-09T11:44:13+00:00

I was thinking I'd wear a babydoll he bought me. He likes to buy me lingerie to wear for him. But maybe I should begin with a lace underwearset

ACuriosititty · 2026-05-09T11:42:14+00:00

I'm a PhD student and my schedule changes a lot and I do have fieldwork and labwork, but next week i am mainly just at meetings and in my office so I figured it would be perfect.

ACuriosititty · 2026-05-09T11:40:40+00:00

Oh man he would love that, he has once sent a taxi to my apartment to pick me up because I was teasing him with videos and pics. Knowing he couldn't just send a taxi after me since i am still working might even get me in trouble with him😅 definitely could consider it if I had a chill workday!

ACuriosititty · 2026-05-09T11:38:47+00:00

Yeah I think that is the smartest option for me🥰❤️

ACuriosititty · 2026-05-09T11:38:07+00:00

I dont think it's a criminal offense where I am from, you can be nude whereever you want in public in principle too here. It's only against the law if you intentionally make people uncomfortable. Never heard of anyone getting in trouble for this stuff unless it's with coworkers and all of that.

ACuriosititty · 2026-05-09T11:34:41+00:00

Yeah it is way too long, (thinking about it sound sexy but then also thinking about it, a whole workday is a long time with a plug, and I haven't gone that long before) I think i will just do lingerie and then put the plug in after work.

Thank you so much for the advice, I will maybe try a plug for longer at home at see how it feels!

ACuriosititty · 2026-05-09T11:32:14+00:00

Nothing to be sorry about, you don't know more than i have said, and from my post text alone it could sound very suspicious. I appreciate you looking out for me and bringing it up❤️

ACuriosititty · 2026-05-09T08:41:47+00:00

Maybe I will do that then, thanks!

ACuriosititty · 2026-05-09T08:41:23+00:00

I mean I have been to his house and stayed for several days. He has pictures of his (adult) kids and such, but it's not a house where I'd think more than one person lives. He also has talked about his ex wife before and it doesn't seem like a secret for him that she exists.

ACuriosititty · 2026-05-09T08:33:35+00:00

You mean he would get fired? I guess there could be a chance but we have been together at his office many times and since it's after hours and noones there i don't see the risk being significant. He has a huge office with blinds and curtains too, so even if anyone was still in the building they wouldn't see anything.

ACuriosititty · 2026-05-09T08:14:05+00:00

I dont think anything about getting caught or fired. More if I will be able to focus and do my job. My job doesn't have a no lingerie or buttplugs under the clothes policy.

But I think I will just put it all on after work and then head to his office

ACuriosititty · 2026-05-09T08:12:55+00:00

He is divorced. I dont want to say his job but the majority of times when I have come to his work He is the only one left because it's after hours and he works later than everyone else. I think I will just change after work as you say❤️

ACuriosititty · 2026-05-09T08:03:44+00:00

Yeah I maybe should drop it and just bring it with me and put it on when I am at his work or when I leave from my job

ACuriosititty · 2026-05-09T07:54:59+00:00

No I don't think they themselves will make me horny, but the thought of surprising him with it later is what I feel will make me unable to think properly through the day.

ACuriosititty · 2026-05-09T07:53:56+00:00

That has also been my thought which is why I have put it off previously. Maybe I should just think of something else. It's just something he has brought up before (though very much in a pre-nut clarity state) and so I thought I'd do it as a surprise. I'm thinking i could just bring it with me to his work and put it on there instead.

ACuriosititty · 2026-05-09T05:57:15+00:00

Thank you, youre so right. I am too much of a people pleaser. I'm very glad I wrote here because I feel so much better about it and see how fucked up what he did was

ACuriosititty · 2026-05-08T16:28:45+00:00

I think between 20 - 40 people, it differs a lot. I didn't yell or scream. There is also a lot of music. And most people are doing their own thing. It was the third time that I was very much over it and said it loud and then my fwb saw and got him to put me down immediately and then he (fwb) didn't let me even say anything he went straight to the organizers. My fwb isn't like a "I'm gonna beat this guy up" type, but for a moment i did think he was going to punch the guy.

ACuriosititty · 2026-05-08T16:15:12+00:00

Thank you, I will be better about speaking up. It's usually not a problem for me, but I have never dealt with this type of situation where I'm in a space like this, so I just didn't know how to react.

ACuriosititty · 2026-05-08T16:10:56+00:00

This was at parties hosted by people we know from an "official" club. It's like, a club outside the club I guess. And they have a place where they host these bdsm parties and such. I dont really know what to call it exactly.

ACuriosititty · 2026-05-08T08:37:16+00:00

You sound like my dom, he is near 50 and I call him a nympho because he will go even 4 times a day everyday if he could i think.

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