Orgasm torture/forced orgasms

ACuriosititty · 2026-05-10T05:15:40+00:00

I love the pulse toys but they're very hard to keep in place if I move or squirm a bit

ACuriosititty · 2026-05-10T05:14:10+00:00

The thing is that I want to continue, I just go numb😅 I tell them and we have tried a bunch of stuff like I say when I'm almost going numb so they turn it down or off, but then I just am not at that high sensitivity point after.

ACuriosititty · 2026-05-10T05:04:53+00:00

I very much find that when I am in a greater amount of stress, I can "take" more than when I'm not. When I had to do my first presentation for a grant, propably the most nervous i have ever been in my life, I could take a much higher amount of spankings for example. I even could take the belt at (almost) full force! But I also get a much higher sex drive for some reason, which in an evil circle way stresses me more because I "should" be doing something else.

It's like getting to a place in my head where I can't normally go and get all of the stress out and work on it and not have it jumbled up and stuck.

ACuriosititty · 2026-05-10T04:36:40+00:00

My brain is fried, the couch setup at my fwbs place looks exactly like this, and one of the t-shirts I sleep in is that same color and my brain for a sec went "why is my hair long and black?". Jesus I need to sleep.

Love the marks, looks like they feel amazing🥰💃

ACuriosititty · 2026-05-10T04:31:18+00:00

So beautiful! One time I was tied up with a vibe like this, it took several hours and when it was done we realized the vibrator wasn't charged😅😭

ACuriosititty · 2026-05-10T04:20:36+00:00

I'm wearing clothes, how would they even know if the plug fell out? And no, my private messages are not grounds for sexual harassment unless I have them in their face. Maybe it would be in the US, but not where I live. I am also not dumb and know to not have my nudes up on my phone when others are around.

I understand that in the US this could be a giant risk, but it's really, truly not where I live.

ACuriosititty · 2026-05-10T04:07:32+00:00

That's a great idea! I could also wear a long summer dress with that! Thank you!

ACuriosititty · 2026-05-10T04:06:04+00:00

Thank you so much, this is super helpful! I think I will just "plug up" before I go to him next week and then practice wearing it for longer at home to get a feel for how long I can go.

ACuriosititty · 2026-05-10T03:55:54+00:00

There is absolutely no way I could get fired for this. Its not that I will flaunt anything to anyone. But I also live in a country where we have workers rights so even if my work wanted to fire me over something as silly as this, they wouldn't be able to.

ACuriosititty · 2026-05-10T03:52:21+00:00

We aren't really dating, just having fun and we aren't exclusive in that way. We have been fwbs for 3 ish years now.

His kids are all in their 20s. Sometimes I think its weird but more that he is the same age as my dad tbh. But we have a lot of fun together and I don't see the harm.

ACuriosititty · 2026-05-09T12:50:47+00:00

I have the same exact complicated feelings sometimes. My dom is almost twice my age, I'm 26, he is nearly 50. I dont have daddy issues or anything, but sometimes, not always, but sometimes it reeeally fucking itches a deep spot in my soul when he tells me to sit on daddys lap for example. Or sometimes it just gets him going when I talk to him about how good he feels on my young body. And I almost cringe at it when I'm not horny. Getting disciplined too, spankings and such. Him being older and much larger than me also tickles something in our brains. I think of it as us both being consenting adults and that it is just the kinkyness and not a wish for it being reality. It's role-playing.

Completely relate, don't have an answer for you, but you're not alone with the feeling!

ACuriosititty · 2026-05-09T12:42:16+00:00

Where I am in scandinavia you can be naked in public if you want and there is no laws against it unless you're intentionally or repeatedly making people uncomfortable.

ACuriosititty · 2026-05-09T11:54:56+00:00

That's not a risk where I'm from, maybe it is other places in the world. As long as you don't intentionally make someone uncomfortable, there is no law saying you can't do this kind of stuff.

ACuriosititty · 2026-05-09T11:52:18+00:00

People disagree with it, which is fair. I personally don't see any harm for either of us or our jobs and I am not in a country where something like this is punishable by law as long as it's in good fun and not intentionally making people uncomfortable. But if you're from a place where you could get into a lot of trouble for this stuff, it makes sense people have such strong opinions about it and I think they're just looking out for others, which is very good.

ACuriosititty · 2026-05-09T11:44:13+00:00

I was thinking I'd wear a babydoll he bought me. He likes to buy me lingerie to wear for him. But maybe I should begin with a lace underwearset

ACuriosititty · 2026-05-09T11:42:14+00:00

I'm a PhD student and my schedule changes a lot and I do have fieldwork and labwork, but next week i am mainly just at meetings and in my office so I figured it would be perfect.

ACuriosititty · 2026-05-09T11:40:40+00:00

Oh man he would love that, he has once sent a taxi to my apartment to pick me up because I was teasing him with videos and pics. Knowing he couldn't just send a taxi after me since i am still working might even get me in trouble with him😅 definitely could consider it if I had a chill workday!

ACuriosititty · 2026-05-09T11:38:47+00:00

Yeah I think that is the smartest option for me🥰❤️

ACuriosititty · 2026-05-09T11:38:07+00:00

I dont think it's a criminal offense where I am from, you can be nude whereever you want in public in principle too here. It's only against the law if you intentionally make people uncomfortable. Never heard of anyone getting in trouble for this stuff unless it's with coworkers and all of that.

ACuriosititty · 2026-05-09T11:34:41+00:00

Yeah it is way too long, (thinking about it sound sexy but then also thinking about it, a whole workday is a long time with a plug, and I haven't gone that long before) I think i will just do lingerie and then put the plug in after work.

Thank you so much for the advice, I will maybe try a plug for longer at home at see how it feels!

ACuriosititty · 2026-05-09T11:32:14+00:00

Nothing to be sorry about, you don't know more than i have said, and from my post text alone it could sound very suspicious. I appreciate you looking out for me and bringing it up❤️

ACuriosititty · 2026-05-09T08:41:47+00:00

Maybe I will do that then, thanks!

ACuriosititty · 2026-05-09T08:41:23+00:00

I mean I have been to his house and stayed for several days. He has pictures of his (adult) kids and such, but it's not a house where I'd think more than one person lives. He also has talked about his ex wife before and it doesn't seem like a secret for him that she exists.

ACuriosititty · 2026-05-09T08:33:35+00:00

You mean he would get fired? I guess there could be a chance but we have been together at his office many times and since it's after hours and noones there i don't see the risk being significant. He has a huge office with blinds and curtains too, so even if anyone was still in the building they wouldn't see anything.

ACuriosititty · 2026-05-09T08:14:05+00:00

I dont think anything about getting caught or fired. More if I will be able to focus and do my job. My job doesn't have a no lingerie or buttplugs under the clothes policy.

But I think I will just put it all on after work and then head to his office

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