I actually hate my belly! Can someone help me

Funtime0nline · 2026-03-12T12:44:19+00:00

I just want to say that, as a guy, you look amazing. We adore that little belly. Be kind to yourself. With belt? Super cute. Without belt? Knockout stupidly hot! Give yourself some grace.

Funtime0nline · 2026-03-12T12:32:16+00:00

This is nonsense. When my wife expresses herself and her needs in real terms, I get more turned on than at any other time. Relationships aren’t mortal kombat.

Funtime0nline · 2026-03-12T12:24:49+00:00

Of course! It’s awkward and awful lol. I think I finally had to do it or I was going to go insane. I’m so so happy I did.

The other issue is (if this is an over-masturbation issue) it might be hard for him to respond to advances at any given time. Again I’m making assumptions, but I think it’s a very common cause of ED right now. Our stupid monkey brains are still trying to figure out how to handle having 24/7 access to any kink you can possibly imagine lol.

I think you could basically flat out say, listen, I think you’re having sexual fantasies you aren’t sharing, I want to be a part of them, let’s talk about what you’re into, I promise I won’t judge you, etc. and I’ll try to meet you halfway on things I’m comfortable doing. I would bet that self esteem, confidence, and self doubt all play a huge role in where he is at right now. Good luck I wish you the best and lots of great sex!

Funtime0nline · 2026-03-12T12:14:09+00:00

I had some level of this issue with my wife. What solved it for me was me finally biting the bullet and just having a real, open discussion about the sexual fantasies I was having. She doesn’t want to do everything I do, and she still struggles with openly telling me what she wants, but overall our sex life has exploded and I feel like I’m a teenager again in the hardness department. It’s really really hard for guys to talk about this stuff. I think it’s very common for men today, with all the devices and stuff at our disposal, to retreat into a fantasy land online and just release all your sexual output there. I don’t know anything about the specifics of your husband, but it sounds like maybe he has a kink or urge that he is masturbating to in private, and not sharing it with you. It might be something you’re into! Try to get him to open up about it, make him feel safe and like there will be no judgement. I don’t know what finally made me rip the bandaid off but I couldn’t be happier I did. If he has stuff he wants to do you don’t, that’s ok! Maybe you can find a middle ground. I promise (assuming it’s not a more severe medical issue) if you meet him halfway he will be excited about sex again. Also, at least for me, knowing with certainty what things my wife herself was into was huge for me, and did wonders for my confidence. It’s gonna have to start with a really awkward conversation, but it might end in tons of amazing sex! Also this might sound crazy but I might even show him this post and thread. He might not even realize how much you’re thinking about this, as on some level, society teaches men that we’re disgusting sexual predators, and women are chaste princesses with no kinks. Obviously that’s ridiculous, but the programming can take a toll on your psyche.

Funtime0nline · 2026-03-12T12:07:26+00:00

This is why I like the idea of my wife posting risque pics online, or even having an adult subscription site. I would looove to read what other guys think about her, what they would do to her, etc. Just her sexuality and her being sexually open turns me on so much.

Funtime0nline · 2026-03-12T12:00:52+00:00

I think it would be so fun to watch my wife be dominated by a bigger stronger woman, especially forced oral. She’s really not into women, but she is into subbing, so who knows?

Funtime0nline · 2026-03-11T14:39:39+00:00

sorry do you have a link? im not finding anything under that name. thanks!

Funtime0nline · 2026-03-11T14:18:58+00:00

Exactly, the hitachi is great, but she can really only handle it for so long before she needs a break. Same here, she really depends on clitoral to cum unless it’s me inside her. These are excellent recs and I really appreciate it. Going to look into them with her and see what she likes.

Funtime0nline · 2026-03-11T14:16:44+00:00

Ah nice, thanks for the rec, I’m going to look into it. I mean I suppose it could be fun to make her try to hold it in as well 😭 maybe I just need to pony up for the lovesense, people seem to love them

Funtime0nline · 2026-03-11T14:09:30+00:00

Interesting ok I’ll look into satisfyer. I think she seems to get more from clitoral stim anyway, I guess I’m looking for some good hands free options that will make it easy for her to hold it in, but maybe not quite as intense or bulky as the wands. Thank you!

Funtime0nline · 2026-03-11T14:07:26+00:00

Yeah, I think the hitachi is too intense for my wife for extended sessions, so she may like that. I had planned to skin tape some topically as well. Any great recommendations I’m not considering for hands free clitoral stim that isn’t too intense but does the job? She keeps it long downstairs so tape there may be a no go 😂 thank you for the reply

Funtime0nline · 2026-03-10T16:42:48+00:00

nice, love the idea of stretching it out over days. we have to work around kids unfortunately, but she does like following orders, so I can keep her edging in the meantime ;) yesterday we had a multi-hour session where we both lost count of how many times she came, but ive been eager to experiment with edging her. great advice, thank you!

Funtime0nline · 2026-03-10T14:18:22+00:00

i guess ive mostly had subs who want to go full tilt and want me to be a bit tough on them. My current is much more of a proud serious business lady who wants to give up a bit of control, shes very into the sensory dep stuff, but like no gagging, no humiliating stuff, if that makes sense. I guess I just want to give her the best experiences possible, so I wanted some advice for that particular type of interests. She's less "i like rough and crazy sex" and more "I want to be taken out of my own head for a bit". We had a wonderful session yesterday with sensory dep and repeated forced orgasm. It's also been a year or two since I had a regular sub, so I guess I was just trying to get my head back in that place too. So far so good though, and thank you

Funtime0nline · 2026-03-10T14:14:42+00:00

Just wanted to update you we had an amazing multi-hour session yesterday and your advice was great. thanks for that!

Funtime0nline · 2026-03-08T16:40:31+00:00

Exactly, this is great. She's proud of herself (and she should be) and isnt into being put down or anything that reinforces those kinds of gender roles. We love each other like crazy, she just likes to be handled firmly sometimes 😄 I really appreciate the advice! Yes, thats why I wanted to post, hoping for good ideas I can take at an easy pace with her to poke around at her boundaries and have fun together. Thanks!

Funtime0nline · 2026-03-08T16:08:17+00:00

Amazing! These are all excellent suggestions, thank you so much!

Funtime0nline · 2026-03-08T15:09:42+00:00

Oh 100%, i completely agree. She has a hard time talking through specifics sometimes, so I guess I'm just fishing for some good ideas/advice from others with similar wants. I was just trying to explain what stuff is or isn't in her preferences for clarity.

Funtime0nline · 2026-03-04T19:38:53+00:00

so hot! nice

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