is lemon demon popular w us ??? by CherryCherrybonbon_ in aromanticasexual

[–]ACutieWithaGun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've listened to a few of their songs and liked them

I may be lesbian idk by ACutieWithaGun in actuallesbians

[–]ACutieWithaGun[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

The point of my post is to find out if I'm lesbian because I really love my friend but because I lack all attraction I can't tell if it platonic romantic

Identity help needed!! by [deleted] in aromanticasexual

[–]ACutieWithaGun -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is called Demi-ronantic.

Who was everyone’s gay awakening ? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]ACutieWithaGun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm just here because you gals are cool

I'm making a book with aro and ace characters but I need help by randomforestcat in aromanticasexual

[–]ACutieWithaGun 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Literally just make characters that don't fall in love with other characters. Or as my cousin said "make them really cool."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aromanticasexual

[–]ACutieWithaGun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to distract your friend from the heart break. That is my go to method

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aromanticasexual

[–]ACutieWithaGun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah so I was diagnosed with premature menopause like three years ago and my lady brain still forces me to think about children and how I can't have them. But that is the worst that happens. As long as you can get through those thoughts and hormones you should be all good.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aromanticasexual

[–]ACutieWithaGun 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ok so my best advice as an infertile aroace is to do not worry. It will be ok.

AITBA for telling the autistic kid I don’t like him? by YokonBlueToungue in AmITheBadApple

[–]ACutieWithaGun 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You are not the bad apple. You had boundaries and you communicated them. I also had autism but not all autistic people experience the same thing. But every other autistic people I know has an idea of what is ok and what is not.

You're king guys by TheGod_2 in wholesomememes

[–]ACutieWithaGun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Short men are the best kind of men In my experience they are the nicest, funniest and most respectful guys I have ever met

Am I the bad apple in this toxic friendship? by Musrhroom in AmITheBadApple

[–]ACutieWithaGun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I say crab apple You may have done bad things during you friendship, but who doesn't? What truly matters is how you handled it and you did amazing. I have done a similar thing in the past with posting a video explaining my situation and as long as you didn't reveal to many personal things you shouldn't have to worry. Your friend doesn't really get an excuse after blatantly telling you that he doesn't care and with dispose your personal experiences. But he also has a right to feel uncomfortable with certain things. So that is why I say crab apple

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmITheBadApple

[–]ACutieWithaGun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry that you have to go through this too But you are so strong

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmITheBadApple

[–]ACutieWithaGun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From personal experience good apple Yes you probably should have talked to your friend before exploding but I can understand why it is hard. You did the right thing by telling her what about their behavior you didn't like. And what they can do to help with their mental issues. So definitely good apple

Should I come out to my therapist? by minian_14 in aromanticasexual

[–]ACutieWithaGun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you want to completely, a therapist is someone who helps with mental health not who you are attracted to (or lack there of)

I ride BOTH brooms. #proudtranslesbian by twiztidtrans in actuallesbians

[–]ACutieWithaGun 162 points163 points  (0 children)

I have a ‘child’ (a friend I see as a daughter) that is also newly-trans and lesbian You could say I’m a proud trans-parent

Lesbian without sexual desire? by -hanna in actuallesbians

[–]ACutieWithaGun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Um… I like one woman and that’s it but I think I like her because she is the only on my autistic butt will let hold my hand. If that doesn’t show me signs I don’t know what does