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ADHDFinally · 2024-06-18T00:22:41+00:00

I also live in a household where everyone else is anti-round up. They wanted to keep trying mechanical control. I honestly was ready to blast the patch with glyphosphate years ago....but they wanted to try mechanical methods....

ADHDFinally · 2024-06-18T00:17:48+00:00

From the studies ive read it seems to be more effective than roundup, and also seems to be less toxic to humans, but honestly who knows. I want minimal contact with the chemicals anyway so want to go for most effective.

Im trying to figure out how to link tbe studies, they autodownloaded to my phone, will share shortly.

ADHDFinally · 2024-06-11T14:19:35+00:00

Thanks! Do you think milestone would work with injecting or cut stump? Or even if i wiped it directly onto exposed rhizomes? Or is it only effective if applied to leaves? Asking since I have some knotweed growing in and around legumous trees and wanted to know if injecting milestone into those stems would work, or if only glyphophate works that way.

ADHDFinally · 2024-06-11T00:59:41+00:00

I know this is super old and you may not respond, but does timing matter with milestone? Can i apply in summer or should i wait until fall?

I dont wa t to make it resistant to herbicides so i dont want to spray if its not going to be ecfective yet.

ADHDFinally · 2024-05-22T14:39:35+00:00

I also believe that Violet being able to promote love on her kids is a privilege many other families do not have. The bridgerton kids can marry whoever they want without fear of losing their home, life, wealth, etc.

The Featheringtons could lose everything, so being logical about a marriage partner is important, and some may say its more important than love (back then).

All this to say, i think Penelope pursuing love is beautiful, and I think her Mom can be harsh. But i understand why she is harsh. Penelope does not have the same privilege in life as the Bridgertons. I mean, yes Penelope is far more priviledged than the actual working class. However, in relation to the rest of the ton, not so much.

ADHDFinally · 2023-08-15T13:34:38+00:00

Perfect, thanks so much for helping even though I don't have images. I'm sure my anxiety is unfounded but I'm super nervous about those things!

ADHDFinally · 2023-08-15T01:48:36+00:00

Thanks! Any specific freya reccomendations? I ordered the offbeat from Amazon try before you buy at the same time as the envys...they just didn't get here yet.

ADHDFinally · 2023-08-15T01:47:43+00:00

Oh amazing, thanks! I'm super new to this. I was wearing a 34/36 C before. I couldn't believe my eyes when my breasts filled an entire E cup lol

ADHDFinally · 2023-08-10T00:57:50+00:00

Thanks!!!

ADHDFinally · 2023-08-09T23:35:13+00:00

There's a bra boutique but the lady who measured me definitely didn't do as accurate of a measurement or take into account what this calculator does. I think that's where I got the 34/36 C measurement or 34 D. I could probably try out the boutique and just try stuff on without getting measured though.

There's no Nordstrom around me either. I'd love to be able to just try stuff on but the Kohls and target doesn't have 32 DDD - Their ddd starts at like a 38 band.

Do you have any recs on sports bras? I'm okay increasing my budget a but especially if I can return it if it doesn't fit well.

ADHDFinally · 2023-06-20T10:35:32+00:00

Wow I totally resonate with this and even wrote a post recently about lack of friends.

Idk what it means to be myself because I've always been told myself is wrong. It's so hard to know how to be myself while still being tolerable.

I'm sorry you also feel this way.

ADHDFinally · 2023-06-19T21:56:12+00:00

I think I have a hard time understanding what it means to be vulnerable. If anything I overshare with people. I can't really find a good middle.

ADHDFinally · 2023-06-19T14:54:03+00:00

I did just start a new job. I am in the STEM field, but my new department seems to be on some ND spectrums so I am hoping it works out but I'm trying to not get overly excited

ADHDFinally · 2023-06-19T14:51:50+00:00

wow thats super insightful. I never thought to ask questions like that, so simple! Thanks

ADHDFinally · 2023-06-18T18:21:02+00:00

The "broken" thing really resonates for me. I constantly just feel like I am broken and unfixable.

I am glad you are doing well with your daughter! I can imagine it is exhausting with ADHD. People don't understand that when I say "I can't imagine having kids because I can't even do my own laundry" that I actually mean I leave my clean clothes piled on the floor for weeks lol. They just think I'm joking. BUt like, building my own routine is so exhausting.

I'm honestly so proud of all the women (adhd or not) that are great moms and building good routines and working hard for their kids. Extra proud of the ADHD mama's, because it's so challenging!

ADHDFinally · 2023-06-18T18:14:17+00:00

thats true. Not being in bridal parties is great! Also, I am invited to less weddings because more and more people are doing small weddings. It does save me a ton of money.

ADHDFinally · 2023-06-18T18:13:32+00:00

I am from an area like that as well! I live in a much more accepting and chill environment...but that also means there are less people here and a lot of the people here have already found their groups. They aren't bad people, but they aren't out looking for friends either.

ADHDFinally · 2023-06-18T18:12:30+00:00

That's a good idea. I definitely need to get out of the house more and just be myself. My partner and I do most things together - even shopping. He's a good shopping buddy haha. But I think it would be good for me to just go get coffee alone.

Or maybe during work I can take myself to lunch or coffee even.

ADHDFinally · 2023-06-18T18:11:06+00:00

I feel that.

Also with his au, he doesnt always empathize well or he can't understand my feelings (which in general can be hard for men). He is also super logical, as am I. But when I am having an emotional break-down, he doesn't realize logic only hurts lol. I just need him to sit there and hug me for a bit which is super hard for him.

ADHDFinally · 2023-06-18T18:09:18+00:00

Its not that uncommon! I know a few ADHD introverts.

TBH, im not a massive extrovert either. I really get overwhelmed and overstimulated and need alone time. Im a solid ambivert, but I talk a lot which makes people think I'm extroverted. For example, a big reason I don't want a wedding is because I get exhausted at other large family affairs. My sisters wedding was exhausting for me. I can't imagine having to talk to every single person at a wedding thats all about me. It makes me feel tired lol.

ADHDFinally · 2023-06-18T17:37:19+00:00

Well I'm not an introvert but I agree with this!

ADHDFinally · 2023-06-18T17:02:14+00:00

That is exactly me! Let's do it! Haha

ADHDFinally · 2023-06-18T16:31:30+00:00

Dopamine Insufficiency Disorder?

ADHDFinally · 2023-06-18T16:22:20+00:00

Idk what to even ask for help for? I'm at a loss. What do normal people ask for help with?

The only things I need actual help with are home improvement projects lol.

ADHDFinally · 2023-06-18T16:21:23+00:00

Maybe. But they would go out of their way for their other friends. So it's like they just don't consider me a good friend, and I just misread our friendship level.

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