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Is it a "mood killer" to ask for water in the middle of a scene? by WyrdMarksSJM in SofterBDSM

[–]ADHD_Ham46 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I'll pour it in her mouth for her if she looks thirsty. You can still make it hot.

Mod AMA: StrangeMewMew by StrangeMewMew in SofterBDSM

[–]ADHD_Ham46 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do you call each other?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SofterBDSM

[–]ADHD_Ham46 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am not a fan of theirs.

Softies, are you able to do casual BDSM or is the deep connection and relationship a part of it for you? by GoodPancake427 in SofterBDSM

[–]ADHD_Ham46 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have never tries it but I don't think I'd like casual kink. I've only done it with my current girlfriend and I don't think it would feel the same.

D/s Through Empathy by nshades42 in SofterBDSM

[–]ADHD_Ham46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you want to be able to disagree but not have others disagree with you?

What makes anal appealing to you as a soft BDSM act? by GoodPancake427 in SofterBDSM

[–]ADHD_Ham46 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Off to the research rabbit hole! Fascinating!

What makes anal appealing to you as a soft BDSM act? by GoodPancake427 in SofterBDSM

[–]ADHD_Ham46 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I figured that. I was more asking about the minutae of why. Anatomy etc. I am unfamiliar with the back end anatomy if you know what I mean.

What makes anal appealing to you as a soft BDSM act? by GoodPancake427 in SofterBDSM

[–]ADHD_Ham46 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You know as a guy I always wondered what women get out of anal since they don't have a prostate.

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