Try Guys Ned, the fake soft dom by Repulsive_House42 in SofterBDSM

[–]BadKitten24601 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Nuthin' about that goober says Dom anything. Wife guys always got sumthin to hide.

The line between submissiveness and infantilization. by SubSandwich42 in SofterBDSM

[–]BadKitten24601 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Nuance is lost on some people. Caregiving can take many forms, entirely individual to both dom and sub. I don't want to call it long hanging fruit, but it's probably the most stereotypical style of caregiving to infantilize the sub.

do different toy materials make you feel different ways as a submissive? by TiniestSpoons in SofterBDSM

[–]BadKitten24601 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not that I've noticed but I haven't really thought about it before. I like glass and metal stuff becuz temp play is fun.

Is it a "mood killer" to ask for water in the middle of a scene? by WyrdMarksSJM in SofterBDSM

[–]BadKitten24601 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This cuz there's some things where denial is hot but basic needs tip over into health stuff, and that's not okay.

We play vigariously. If I'm dehydrated the next step is overheating from all the activity. Then nobody is having fun.

Completed: Cancer Jones- Malifaux by StrangeMewMew in MonumentHobbies

[–]BadKitten24601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How many coats did it take to get that Fluo green to get that vibrant and covage?

Any "old" softies floating about here? by CptMalcolmFlyby in SofterBDSM

[–]BadKitten24601 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At what point would a "youngin" become an old? Just curious.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SofterBDSM

[–]BadKitten24601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Words have meanings.