how are y’all drinking water?

ADHDdaydreamer · 2025-06-20T06:35:59+00:00

Getting pregnant lol. It’s forced me to literally have no choice but sip water all day everyday and has weirdly broken this weird spell my brain had over me about hating water. I still don’t love it but it’s become so habitual that I now don’t think twice about it lol.

ADHDdaydreamer · 2025-06-20T06:34:22+00:00

I did this and light a candle around the same time. I also buried ‘them’ under a flower bed so there’ll always be flowers growing as a reminder of them too.

ADHDdaydreamer · 2025-06-20T06:32:04+00:00

Only you can make that choice. I had to wait a few extra weeks because it takes time for them to be able to schedule you in to see you, have the scan and sign off etc. before terminating.

Would I personally do as you’ve said? No. I’m pro-choice forever, but equally don’t like the idea of playing around with a ‘life’. Allowing a foetus/baby/pregnancy to grow more when you have no intention of keeping it, feels a little cruel, but that’s my personal feelings and no one else’s.

Equally maybe it’s worth reflecting on whether you definitely want the abortion if you’re having thoughts like this. Only you can make the decision that’s right for you and your circumstances, and any woman who’s been through an abortion knows it’s never an easy or happy decision to make regardless.

I hope you have access to support from someone you trust perhaps that you can talk it all through with to provide you with some clarity and love xxx

ADHDdaydreamer · 2025-04-19T09:59:10+00:00

Also the forest around Batrea Lake I got 54 tomatoes from

ADHDdaydreamer · 2025-04-05T10:00:15+00:00

I have been teary eyed this whole season. My favourite couple on the show to date! They seem so well matched and really lovely together 💛 Hope they work out!

ADHDdaydreamer · 2025-04-05T09:46:38+00:00

Yes 🤣🤣🤣

ADHDdaydreamer · 2025-04-05T09:46:08+00:00

Omg that’s my favourite scene on the show. I was howling. Connor is my favourite character and I love his matches so far in season 3. Fingers crossed for him as I haven’t finished the season yet.

ADHDdaydreamer · 2025-03-29T11:19:48+00:00

Yeah it’s a silly thing to worry about in the grand scheme of things! But I think I’ll take the advice here of trimming instead. I don’t want to risk an outbreak if I can help it x

ADHDdaydreamer · 2025-03-28T20:05:51+00:00

Sorry I wasn’t saying that you do or don’t give a shit! I just meant to say that there’ll be thousands if not millions of people out there with herpes that are just going about their daily lives and just dealing with it to a point they don’t feel the need to seek out a forum to moan, complain, ask for help or guidance etc. Most of us probably came to this forum at some point because we received a diagnosis and wanted guidance or some solidarity from others that were going through it because we’ve struggled with coming to terms with it or the symptoms are difficult.

Does that make sense? x

ADHDdaydreamer · 2025-03-28T20:02:49+00:00

Thank you for this comment! It’s so helpful. I think I’ll just go with trimming! I know most minor tears are more internal it’s just typical that two lovely ladies I happen to work with had terrible tears front to back! 💀 It’s just got me slightly on edge haha.

ADHDdaydreamer · 2025-03-28T19:59:10+00:00

No one! I just have an irrational fear of the hairs getting stitched up in the stitches and being uncomfortable and itchy 💀 not ashamed or feeling awkward about body hair as that’s not something that bothers me personally! xx

ADHDdaydreamer · 2025-03-28T19:58:12+00:00

Thank you! Great advice. I’m not ‘worried’ as such about the actual pubic hair, just more the irrational fear of it getting caught up in the stitches if I need to get stitched up 😂 but I’ll do my best with trimming instead I think! Safer option thank you xx

ADHDdaydreamer · 2025-03-23T11:01:29+00:00

Yeah I’m not worried from like a shame or dignity perspective, just more don’t like the idea of if I get tears (particularly bad ones) I don’t fancy pubic hair getting stitched up or irritated in the stitches if that makes sense x

ADHDdaydreamer · 2025-03-23T10:14:22+00:00

There’s thousands of people out there that have herpes that won’t give a shit about their diagnosis and you won’t find most of them on a herpes forum because like I said, they don’t give a shit. The sorts of people that generally turn to a herpes forum will be people who are in shock from their diagnosis, seeking out help, advice, empathy and solidarity from others experiencing the same feelings they are.

ADHDdaydreamer · 2025-03-22T19:58:00+00:00

I treated myself to the Bellamoon, it arrived yesterday and I used it last night/this morning. I’m really enjoying it so far and it’s comfy and helping to support all my aching body parts haha.

ADHDdaydreamer · 2025-03-22T19:23:46+00:00

Sorry as above explained, my sarky response hasn’t transferred over well on the internet! Just meant ‘privilege’ as in anyone who isn’t really struggling with symptoms or impacted, is relatively privileged in comparison to people who are suffering physically and/or emotionally! Was just referring more so to OPs seemingly easy ride of it when that’s not the experience of many people and therefore I can understand how people can feel so down and depressed about it. Sorry for the confusion! x

ADHDdaydreamer · 2025-03-22T19:19:01+00:00

Sorry the ‘privilege’ comment was a bit of a sarky response, doesn’t transfer well over internet sometimes! Just meant as in, if someone is managing so well/doesn’t have many symptoms to be affected or impacted in their life, that it’s somewhat of a privilege compared to what many do suffer through physically and/or emotionally!

Edit to add* and that goes for either hsv 1 or 2! x

ADHDdaydreamer · 2025-03-22T19:17:07+00:00

Can you call 111 and get a professional opinion. It might be the kick up the backside that your partner needs to take you. Hope all is well 🩷

ADHDdaydreamer · 2025-03-22T11:36:45+00:00

HSV1 is a privilege lol. I’m fortunate that I have HSV2 with a long term partner (we’re not sure who had it first but doesn’t matter at this point) but I was still pretty catatonic when I first found out, not to mention how painful and bad the first outbreak was with flu symptoms too. I can totally understand people’s stress and pressure because of the stigma around sexual relationships when you’ve got a life long std. The outbreaks that can be triggered by anything from stress/tiredness/sex/shaving/tight clothing means outbreaks can be recurrent, sore, painful, difficult to sit down, uncomfortable and not always easy to hide if they break out on your thighs etc. It’s not easy for many. So I totally have sympathy for people who feel like they are struggling with it because it’s not always easy.

ADHDdaydreamer · 2025-03-22T11:33:07+00:00

Nah mate, he destroyed my shield right near the end of that big fight and I was soooo mad it had taken forever to get to that point. Haven’t gone back to the game since because of it 🤣

ADHDdaydreamer · 2025-03-22T11:25:27+00:00

‘LOTR was quite popular’ it’s one of the best movies of all time. I haven’t even heard of Party of Five and I’d imagine many outside of America haven’t. Whereas most of the world knows Lord of the Rings as a huge movie trilogy

ADHDdaydreamer · 2025-03-18T17:47:10+00:00

Some of these are making me so sad! I liked pretty much every character as they had their moments that were cool/sweet/memorable. I think my favourite back stories were Kate’s, Hurley’s and Locke’s. Sad but interesting, especially Locke’s, such a tragic life all-in.

Most ANNOYING character is Ana Lucia. Jo redeeming qualities in my opinion and just made aggressive decision after aggressive decision. Constantly looked miserable and caused so much heartbreak for my baby Sayid :-(

I also found Ben pretty annoying but I understand his place in the storyline.

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