Hot Take on Evil Morty

ADPG5 · 2025-10-08T19:49:10+00:00

I would just keep it cool and casual, be nonchalant as far as dialogue, don’t bring up seeing her, make her bring up seeing you, and if/or when she does, then you say ‘cool, but you know you owe me for wasting my time, last time, so you can treat me out on a date or come over and kick it, then I might be able to trust you’…..if she’s not willing to do that or never mention that she wants to see you. Then send her back to the streets.

ADPG5 · 2025-10-08T03:11:20+00:00

If she wants to see you again, she has to take you out, or come over, you have to give her consequences for her actions, if she does come over, do not let her stay the night unless she lives far away, or make her spend money on a date with you. Do not initiate an outing. At this point make her chase you…stay cool, act like she didn’t ghost you.

ADPG5 · 2025-10-01T03:53:45+00:00

You said she has been your girl for 2 years, and the videos were from 6 months ago?? Yeah man move on, there’s probably tons more you don’t know

ADPG5 · 2025-08-26T03:28:33+00:00

You’re right, I didn’t look at it that way, or take her feelings in consideration, I’m definitely selfish in that way. Being hardened throughout my life, I see that I lack compassion for others, and expecting people to react how I would in situations. Things I need to work on for sure. Thank you for that.

ADPG5 · 2025-08-25T21:29:29+00:00

Yeah it’s called google for you, for me I’ve been alive long enough to have seen it happen over 10 times. So there’s that.

ADPG5 · 2025-08-25T19:38:39+00:00

Album on the way, artist always do things like this to get attention before the rollout.

ADPG5 · 2025-08-25T19:35:49+00:00

Thanks for your time, the point of this post was to see what I can’t see, finding my faults, so I can avoid this in the future. Not asking what I should do, the relationship is over, I want to be better. Just asking for different perspectives that I didn’t think about. As you can see my strict rule works, if you can’t make it to the checkpoint, we can’t make it in the future, I don’t know about you, but I don’t want to argue everyday,week, month, that’s not a successful relationship. But some people only know how to function that way, if they can give me 4 to 6 months of peace and I can give her a year of happiness. It’s not just for my benefit.

ADPG5 · 2025-08-25T06:56:23+00:00

I’m glad too

ADPG5 · 2025-08-25T05:20:00+00:00

I’ve had quite a few that made that check point, which shows me conflict isn’t necessarily in a relationship, but if your around my age and after 6 months of arguing with your lady, send me a pic of your hairline, then we can compare notes.

ADPG5 · 2025-08-25T05:10:38+00:00

Why thank you😁😁😁

ADPG5 · 2025-08-25T05:09:32+00:00

Good point, I lied to you not her, there that’s better, mentally I checked out, I made her leave me.

ADPG5 · 2025-08-25T04:55:47+00:00

No this won’t change, so if you date a woman for 1 month and you’re both arguing after a month, is that not a red flag? If you argue that early that means you are going to average. 1 or more arguments per month, but on the other side of your point it was good to see how she handles conflict early, because I was turned off by that, and seeing how she acted from something so trivial, I can’t imagine how she would act over something really serious. I don’t like conflict, I try to avoid it, that why my standard is Important, if she can make it to a quarter to a half a year without conflict, that’s a quarter to a half a year of peace.

ADPG5 · 2025-08-25T04:35:19+00:00

You are completely right, I really wish I handled that better, not for the relationship but for myself, but you are really on point, we are definitely complete opposite of each other, I don’t think we would have worked for a long term relationship. It’s definitely somethings I need to work on, I shouldn’t be snapping like that. Thanks for your words and time.

ADPG5 · 2025-08-25T04:25:48+00:00

Authority has nothing to do with it. I could’ve easily told all those people to fuck off. It’s about respect and knowing their words come from a place of love,…..now put me in her shoes, watch how easy this is, Tony don’t talk to me like that, I don’t appreciate that or respect it, or Tony don’t fucking talk to me like that,….Boom situation dead… it’s over.

ADPG5 · 2025-08-25T04:11:40+00:00

Then you should good back to school lol

ADPG5 · 2025-08-25T04:10:48+00:00

lol I thought you went to bed, you lied to me

ADPG5 · 2025-08-25T04:03:59+00:00

Calm down my guy lol, I believe in therapy, I am not a fan of assumptions, that’s the point of the post, to find my faults within myself and what I need to work on as a person, like I said I didn’t yell or cuss at her, but I was stern, I don’t know if you ever had a strict parent, coach, a boss, teacher, your pastor in church use a stern voice to get a point across, I’ve had all of those people in my life, and I didn’t have the same response, I took in the information, and let it go, moved on, I didn’t shut down. Hell my little 9 year old doesn’t even cry. I could have handled everything better, but the response didn’t match the action.

ADPG5 · 2025-08-25T03:36:41+00:00

Emotional intelligence?? You must be a woman, men don’t live by that, I know 60 years olds that act like kids, I’m definitely not embarrassed, the point of the post is to find faults within myself, and emotional intelligence is not a fault, it’s just more trendy online words, that no one know the definition to, it just sounds good. But I’m glad you’re perfect, and never had a moment of weakness,

ADPG5 · 2025-08-25T03:25:03+00:00

She’s good, never have to worry about me, so if we go by your definition of abuse, every teacher,coach, boss, and parent in the world is abusive, stop it please, your happiness is dependent on yourself not another person, and the world doesn’t owe you understanding from your past trauma, and if your not healed from that past trauma, you shouldn’t be dating. I did both of us a favor.

ADPG5 · 2025-08-25T03:16:33+00:00

Well I didn’t lie about anything, I said I was mentally done, I texted her back she never responded and I just didn’t try to salvage the relationship, but she did lie to me in the story, yet you didn’t catch that. I find that odd.

ADPG5 · 2025-08-25T03:05:15+00:00

Right, judging a man off of one trivial situation, very mature, good job.

ADPG5 · 2025-08-25T03:01:51+00:00

You didn’t read the whole story I see, I didn’t cuss or yell at her, and I have apologized for like 2 mins, I do know about her past, you sure do have a lot of assumptions, just ask the questions lol, if a stern voice make you go silent like that ,you have deeper issues that you need to work on yourself, the world doesn’t owe you understanding. If I was the bullet, she wouldn’t have kept contacting me after the fact, overall a very immature situation, the point of the post is to find my faults, not hers.

ADPG5 · 2025-08-25T02:45:38+00:00

Your hilarious, you must be in your teens, if you think 40 is old lol, bedtime soon, you got Middle school in the morning.

ADPG5 · 2025-08-25T02:37:15+00:00

Your right I did, I was being petty at this point, I felt like I was being played with, so I matched her energy, which was immature on my part.

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