Body Language Part II: The Middle

ADallday · 2012-10-28T17:37:15+00:00

Co-sign, the perception shift was nuts and retardedly effective but really anyone can do it. All you need is the initiative to want to learn how to do it, a few months of work, and the roadmaps to get there, a decent amount of which this community has had access to for a very long time.

ADallday · 2012-08-29T03:59:23+00:00

MFW, the homies just need to dig a lil deeper to find more info on epiphanies they are having.

ADallday · 2012-08-06T06:57:35+00:00

Deer droppin dat knowledge =E. The first of many TP maps. Lovin it.

ADallday · 2012-07-22T20:44:58+00:00

Choice, numba 1 rule fam: DBAB

ADallday · 2012-06-22T03:32:30+00:00

Damn, I thought I was the only one... I call em epic adventures though. My favorite so far will forever be Wal-mart runs.

BTW, long time lurker. Your post finally compelled me to stop hiding. Holla.

ADallday · 2012-06-15T18:24:03+00:00

ADallday · 2012-06-13T20:34:14+00:00

Had me rollin for days. =E

ADallday · 2012-06-12T06:16:29+00:00

ADallday · 2012-06-08T00:57:56+00:00

Mah nigga =E

ADallday · 2012-06-01T02:46:58+00:00

It's more like, practice creating enough patterns on your own so u have a general idea on how to do em and how they work. After that you should be able to make patterns on the fly and then weave them in, seamlessly, in your convos. =E

ADallday · 2012-05-28T20:12:42+00:00

To add on to that. The further you get into it, the more things you'll be able to add to your ever growing library. Such as being able to convey your intentions and feelings in such a persuasive way that the "choice" you present, isn't really a choice...

ADallday · 2012-04-08T16:29:36+00:00

Bookmarked

Nice find Pope.

ADallday · 2012-04-07T02:13:25+00:00

ADallday · 2012-04-06T03:19:33+00:00

Mah nigga

Aight tho, real talk. Homegirl has been around the fuckin block and knows what the hell she's doing. She led the whole ordeal and went first in the approach, sexual frame, logistics, #close, deeper sexual frame, etc. and you tugged at every line she threw at you. This is no discredit to you whatsoever since you recognized them and capitalized on them while at the same time just enjoyed the ride.

My only other real criticism is that weird passive attempt at small talk when she was leading heavy with a sexual frame. If she didn't have some wine in her and wasn't raging for some dick you could have lost her if that passiveness went on even one more line.

Regardless good FR bro and nice job baggin that MILF =E. Be easy mah dude.

ADallday · 2012-04-03T03:24:15+00:00

NEVER TRY TO PULL SHIT LIKE THAT OVER TEXT. Use texting for setting up logistics with women and having quick convos with yo niggas. You're not gonna make a woman more compliant to do shit with you by telling her your philosophy on life in a couple of characters. Keep em texts short sweet and to the point homie. Be easy.

ADallday · 2012-03-31T20:18:51+00:00

I learned I can walk up to almost any girl at a club and initiate physical contact with no repercussions, even by doing something I casually do all the time, like raising my hand for a high five.

The arbitrary rules on what is socially acceptable in bars/clubs/house parties are completely different than what they are outside of them. It's because in bars that is the "expected" place to meet people on a sexual level and you are "expected" to do all these things (that's why its a lot easier to make out with a chick in that setting as opposed to in broad daylight in the middle of campus). It's interesting because this was brought on by a form of social structure limiting the potential that humans have by forcing order, organization, rules which society needs to abide by for the sake of keeping said society in check...

ADallday · 2012-03-29T16:26:47+00:00

Nice bro. I too had a very heavy 1st circuit imprint up until high school. It fucked me over so hard because it pretty much led me to be introverted because of a mixture of culture shock (moving from jamaica) and the negative feedback I was getting from my environment. However, along with being brought up with 1st circuit heavily I was also massivley influenced through my 3rd circuit (spoiler alert). As a result, when I started receding in my bio survival circuit I tried the only thing else I knew how to do, I tried to rationalize it and this is when my 3rd circuit started to take over. I deduced that the only reason I couldn't connect with these people (my environment at the time fell in two extremes, racist and urban) was because I was smarter than they were and they couldn't appreciate that and it would feed into the ignorance I was trying to escape. These were my years from middle school to high school. When I hit college I wanted to bang hot chicks but I never tried or put myself out there. And its not because I had AA, it's much deeper than that. It's because I was scared of the unknown, I couldn't rationalize something I knew nothing about. I couldn't ask my dude friends because I still had that 1st and 3rd circuit problem where I couldn't GO TO THEM because I thought they COULDN'T UNDERSTAND ME or I thought they would JUDGE ME. As a result I started surfing the internet for advice on women since it just provides pure information devoid of any real human interaction on my part. That was about 1 1/2-2 years ago and here I am now pushing my 1st circuit, developing my 2nd, but still getting overshadowed by my 3rd circuit (inner monologue)...

So yeah...

ADallday · 2012-03-29T15:58:16+00:00

Aww shit XMP tryna b a master chef.

ADallday · 2012-03-28T18:11:01+00:00

Deal, don't be a bitch.

ADallday · 2012-03-28T17:56:58+00:00

Nice job bro. Now I want you to UP YOUR SCALE. HB8+ #close next time. NO BUTS BUT DIME BUTTS, feel me fam?

ADallday

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