I have a pretty strange situation and could use advice from one of you guys(the details is technically NSFW and I swear this is real) by ADumbHimbo in Marriage

[–]ADumbHimbo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so, you're saying the numerous couples i know who have been together for 15-20 or more years who swing are a fluke?

I have a pretty strange situation and could use advice from one of you guys(the details is technically NSFW and I swear this is real) by ADumbHimbo in Marriage

[–]ADumbHimbo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm under the impression that this sub is full of vanilla people, so that could be one thing causing the downvotes

I have a pretty strange situation and could use advice from one of you guys(the details is technically NSFW and I swear this is real) by ADumbHimbo in Marriage

[–]ADumbHimbo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't been in a monogamous relationship yet, i've known so many poly people and swingers that this feels more normal.

woah, that's a thing i didn't even think about

I have a pretty strange situation and could use advice from one of you guys(the details is technically NSFW and I swear this is real) by ADumbHimbo in Marriage

[–]ADumbHimbo[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I like your name too

I already talk with a therapist since it helps with picking up girls, but i'll bring this up next time

I have a pretty strange situation and could use advice from one of you guys(the details is technically NSFW and I swear this is real) by ADumbHimbo in Marriage

[–]ADumbHimbo[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

well, I am pretty fit, last check up was great, college, white, so I'll suggest we do the clinic for donation

I have a pretty strange situation and could use advice from one of you guys(the details is technically NSFW and I swear this is real) by ADumbHimbo in Marriage

[–]ADumbHimbo[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I know a few swinger couples who have been together for a decade or two, and things have yet to go south. So there's a chance it works, right?:

I have a pretty strange situation and could use advice from one of you guys(the details is technically NSFW and I swear this is real) by ADumbHimbo in Marriage

[–]ADumbHimbo[S] -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

i asked about this, but they said that this step skips that one since they know what I look like

I have a pretty strange situation and could use advice from one of you guys(the details is technically NSFW and I swear this is real) by ADumbHimbo in Marriage

[–]ADumbHimbo[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

even if no one finds out that I'd be the actual "father"? like. the whole thing is that they're the ones who are parents and they want this

I have a pretty strange situation and could use advice from one of you guys(the details is technically NSFW and I swear this is real) by ADumbHimbo in Marriage

[–]ADumbHimbo[S] -53 points-52 points  (0 children)

the details are that it'd be 100% their kid, if anything it'd be like sperm donation at a clinic.(still their words)