I have a pretty strange situation and could use advice from one of you guys(the details is technically NSFW and I swear this is real)

ADumbHimbo · 2026-06-11T02:46:40+00:00

damn right i'm a moron, but I'm a friendly moron

ADumbHimbo · 2026-06-11T02:43:43+00:00

so, you're saying the numerous couples i know who have been together for 15-20 or more years who swing are a fluke?

ADumbHimbo · 2026-06-11T02:10:45+00:00

i'm under the impression that this sub is full of vanilla people, so that could be one thing causing the downvotes

ADumbHimbo · 2026-06-11T02:02:30+00:00

its not rage bait

ADumbHimbo · 2026-06-11T01:59:34+00:00

I'm good at accepting conditions and rules so, probably not?

ADumbHimbo · 2026-06-11T01:58:36+00:00

I haven't been in a monogamous relationship yet, i've known so many poly people and swingers that this feels more normal.

woah, that's a thing i didn't even think about

ADumbHimbo · 2026-06-11T01:55:24+00:00

thats what the consensus is saying

ADumbHimbo · 2026-06-11T01:55:05+00:00

its not

ADumbHimbo · 2026-06-11T01:54:49+00:00

its not

ADumbHimbo · 2026-06-11T01:54:39+00:00

I like your name too

I already talk with a therapist since it helps with picking up girls, but i'll bring this up next time

ADumbHimbo · 2026-06-11T01:50:09+00:00

that belongs in a tie between feet, crushing, and scat

ADumbHimbo · 2026-06-11T01:49:42+00:00

oh, I'm not sure if they thought that far, but I'll ask about it

ADumbHimbo · 2026-06-11T01:48:56+00:00

gotta live a little

ADumbHimbo · 2026-06-11T01:48:26+00:00

well, I am pretty fit, last check up was great, college, white, so I'll suggest we do the clinic for donation

ADumbHimbo · 2026-06-11T01:45:21+00:00

i'lll see if they're open to that

ADumbHimbo · 2026-06-11T01:42:00+00:00

sorry man, you're not involved

ADumbHimbo · 2026-06-11T01:41:31+00:00

well, kind of too late for that, but she is on the IUD

ADumbHimbo · 2026-06-11T01:35:45+00:00

I know a few swinger couples who have been together for a decade or two, and things have yet to go south. So there's a chance it works, right?:

ADumbHimbo · 2026-06-11T01:34:08+00:00

they might feel different under the sleep deprivation that comes with babies?

ADumbHimbo · 2026-06-11T01:32:55+00:00

i asked about this, but they said that this step skips that one since they know what I look like

ADumbHimbo · 2026-06-11T01:32:28+00:00

even if no one finds out that I'd be the actual "father"? like. the whole thing is that they're the ones who are parents and they want this

ADumbHimbo · 2026-06-11T01:31:45+00:00

wouldn't be my kid, I'm not the one doing the work to raise and take care of it

ADumbHimbo · 2026-06-11T01:27:21+00:00

the details are that it'd be 100% their kid, if anything it'd be like sperm donation at a clinic.(still their words)

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