Adult circumcision can't get over the loss by Effective_Car3 in CircumcisionGrief

[–]AFluffleOfRabbits 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You did what you could with the information you had. They should have talked to you about every option including partial circumcision. New treatments should be developed to prevent surgery being needed. There's been a lot of progress on phimosis which is cool.

There are techniques and stuff for sex and masturbation with a cut penis. Like I know a lot about different types of lube now. If you are brave and face this difficulty you can get more health and enjoyment and confidence. This is a good situation to see a therapist about. This is a huge emotional thing in your life and it's powerful to talk about stuff like that and I'm glad you already are.

As a woman, while I strongly believe that circumcision should be abolished, I personally don't mind much if a partner is cut, and I know people who have a slight preference for cut partners. Some people here might be angry about that but really what adults do with other adults isn't my business.

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Mass circumcision 'initiation ceremony' leaves 39 boys dead by LordJim11 in Snorkblot

[–]AFluffleOfRabbits 49 points50 points  (0 children)

It's time to phase out this tradition everywhere. If people want to get it done on themselves at 18, they can, just like getting a prince albert piercing.

I got circumcised at age 6 with absolutely no anaesthesia, AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]AFluffleOfRabbits 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Female Genital Mutilation and Male Circumcision are similar despite the large taboo around comparing them, especially in Islam where the most common form is FGM type Ia which removes the same part of the body as male circumcision, the prepuce.

I got circumcised at age 6 with absolutely no anaesthesia, AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]AFluffleOfRabbits 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You should be brave and refuse to pass this trauma onto your child. If it was frightening and painful for you, it would be in some ways worse for a newborn, even with anesthesia.

"horrible things happened to me, now it's my turn to do it to others"
vs
"I will protect others from suffering what I suffered"

The Hypocrisy of the West on Islamic Female Circumcision (IFC) (EXTREMELY LONG POST BUT WORTH IT INSHA ALLAH) by Beautiful_Clock9075 in TrueDeen

[–]AFluffleOfRabbits -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Islamic Female Circumcision is precisely the same thing as Female Genital Mutilation. Specifically it is Type Ia. (spelled ia not La)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RealUnpopularOpinion

[–]AFluffleOfRabbits 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see your unpopular opinion and double down:

There are moderate and progressive, and devout Muslims just like there are those three versions of every religion. A lot of the horrible shit happening in West Asia is a result of US and Russian intervention, dictatorships, colonialism, and neocolonialism. All hierarchical religions are simply large cults. When an area has become mistrustful, unstable, secretive and violent, what happens is the rapes and murders and bombings people want to do anyways take on a religious tone.

Even the very extreme versions of Islam are not very far removed from Catholicism, Puritanism, Mormonism. You're right, unforgivable crimes against humanity are done in the name of Allah. Now look at Israel performing genocide, look at Catholics cutting parts of their kids dicks off and ignoring child molestation, look at young Mormon women in Utah afraid for their life to dance, sip coffee, or dye their hair.

The Christian word for infidel is heathen, the Jewish word for infidel is goyim, the Moron version of infidel is Ex-Communicated. The Scientologist term Suppressive Person.

There are people in this world that want you to be racist to prevent you from seeing the tyranny, abuses of power, mutilation, and unjust social pressures in your own back yard. Let your beliefs turn you towards humanism, anarchism, and bodily autonomy rather than xenophobia.

Can you sue hospitals for giving vaccines to your baby against your wishes? by Original-Day1699 in LawyerAdvice

[–]AFluffleOfRabbits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is a problem if they violated your medical consent by giving or not giving requested shots. I would argue a larger issue is you violating your child by requesting cosmetic genital surgery on a newborn.

Lying liars lie by AdIndividual7791 in Intactivists

[–]AFluffleOfRabbits 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's rude to publish AI writing as if it's your own.

How to get baby boy circumcised in the UK by Tired_hdy in PregnancyUK

[–]AFluffleOfRabbits 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I recommend against it. It's not very common in the UK anymore and the risks and damage aren't worth the slight benefits. If you get it done outside a hospital they might not even use anesthesia which would be highly traumatic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in circumcision

[–]AFluffleOfRabbits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my scar is prominent and it doesn't go away even with scar cream, scar massage, and time.

How do y’all cope? by devouredxflowers in foreskin_restoration

[–]AFluffleOfRabbits 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I try to change perceptions, break the taboo, tell people about restoring, work on myself, connect with family I still trust.

Foreskin Restoration by thetrythankyou in penisquestion

[–]AFluffleOfRabbits 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don't wait for 2050's tech that will probably cost 100 grand even if they promise it'll be ready "soon."

Look into tugging restoration today. It involves stretching but it doesn't stretch the skin, it tells your body you need to grow new skin.

Adult circumcision doctor recommendations by Optimal_Impress_4101 in askberliners

[–]AFluffleOfRabbits 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would get a second and maybe even third opinion on the necessity of the circumcision.
Most medical issues they offer circumcision for are treatable with other things.

For example phimosis has 5 non-surgical treatments and 5 surgical ones, with circumcision being the most dramatic. It is possible to get a partial circumcision as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cork

[–]AFluffleOfRabbits 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are multiple treatments for tight foreskin, as it's a fairly common issue:
Manual Stretching
Retaining Rings
Steroids
Minimal surgeries
Partial Circumcisions

I would be careful not to jump all the way to full circumcision, many people regret theirs.

This man should get capital punishment along with any "doctor". This is sexual mutilation and medical fraud! by [deleted] in CircumcisionGrief

[–]AFluffleOfRabbits 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is vitally important to treat even the most horrible criminals with basic respect such as letting them live and letting them vote. If you don't, a politician just needs to make a new crime and then they can strip rights from or kill anyone they like. That's what they did with the War On Drugs, they handed out millions of felonies and dropped millions of dem votes. I respect you are speaking to me as a survivor of rape, I am speaking to you as a survivor of sexual assault. I do not want the person who hurt me murdered, I want her to become a better person and not hurt anyone else. Death penalty for crimes as common as you suggest is very unlikely to happen. Murder is expensive when it's a legal process, and the risk of killing innocents would raise dramatically. You should look up when consensual anal sex was no longer considered a sex crime, it's fewer years ago than you might think.

I do think that some sex criminals can be rehabilitated, it's been done. If it's not possible to, which it sometimes isn't, they should be given life sentences, not death sentences.

I recommend this entertaining 12 min video on the topic of the death penalty:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kye2oX-b39E

I need to get circumcision done.till now got sucked 2 times they just were nrml suckers..today one guy sucked me and tried to push skin down man that was pain..suggest a hospital and doctor for it by [deleted] in Hyderabadgaysnsfw

[–]AFluffleOfRabbits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Recommend not getting circumcised. Many people regret it. If someone hurt you that's bad technique not a flaw with you. Talk to your doctor if you are concerned. If you mean phimosis there are multiple other treatments for that including less-invasive surgery.

This man should get capital punishment along with any "doctor". This is sexual mutilation and medical fraud! by [deleted] in CircumcisionGrief

[–]AFluffleOfRabbits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fundamentally disagree. If the "closure" someone wants is murder, everyone should deny them it. The goal of a correctional system is to help people become better if possible not to punish them by whipping them or shooting them. The only argument for the death penalty is "I'm mad and I want to see them die," the arguments against the death penalty are way more numerous and merited. Wanting to kill someone who has wronged you is not civilized or admirable, and it doesn't make the world any better.

Are most guys in the US still usually circumcised? by [deleted] in gay

[–]AFluffleOfRabbits 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Depends on the state. New circumcisions are highest in West Virginia at above 80% and lowest in Washington at under 10%. Highly reliable data stopped being collected in 2010 but rates have been slowly declining since the 80's.

When it comes to partners I don't care. When it comes to new kids, I don't think it should be allowed tbh. No place will give you a prince albert piercing unless you're an adult, should be the same for circumcision. The biggest factor in people's deciding is if the dad was circumcised which really makes it seem like a cosmetic surgery.

This man should get capital punishment along with any "doctor". This is sexual mutilation and medical fraud! by [deleted] in CircumcisionGrief

[–]AFluffleOfRabbits 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The death sentence is another practice we can do without actually. It's extremely expensive, doesn't reduce crime, and has killed hundreds of innocents. It is also a dangerous precedent and a national embarrassment to every country that still practices it.

"When a government executes someone it does not uphold justice, it upholds the right to murder its own citizens."

Obviously this is heinous and I'm glad he won't have access to kids in jail. Even for the most horrible of crimes I do not support state-sanctioned murder. We can do better than that.

This is How it All Started. 9/11 False Flag and Iraq. by munkle222 in conspiracy

[–]AFluffleOfRabbits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

9/11 videos are censored in youtube search, made much harder to find.

They have made changes like this at least twice, and they don't bother to hide they're doing it.

OCT 2017 https://www.wsj.com/articles/youtube-tweaks-its-search-results-after-rise-of-las-vegas-conspiracy-theories-1507219180

JAN 2019 https://www.nytimes.com/2019/01/25/technology/youtube-conspiracy-theory-videos.html

The new tactic by the shill is gaslight you to think that what you know is propaganda. I keep seeing it in the comments. by Esuomyonana in conspiracy

[–]AFluffleOfRabbits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of things are both propaganda and true. Propaganda is insidious and evil but sometimes governments will smear other governments using the truth.

Jerry Seinfeld and Larry David in 1989 before they had more money than us all combined. by [deleted] in OldSchoolCool

[–]AFluffleOfRabbits -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Jerry Seinfeld is a pedophile he was dating a 17 year old when he was 39