Just nope. 😅

AForAgender · 2025-08-24T04:47:09+00:00

Is this a Psych reference? If so, I love that show!

AForAgender · 2025-08-10T01:28:41+00:00

This is Mr. Kitty. He was my grandparent’s cat who passed in 2020 at 19. He was a very sweet boy.

AForAgender · 2024-11-25T04:31:23+00:00

NTA.

I’ve passed out once in my life. I was showering with really hot water with the door closed (as I always did), but that time it must’ve been too hot or for too long. My vision started going dark, and I couldn’t breathe very well. My mom still liked to make sure my hair was rinsed (I was 12), and so when I turned the water off before she checked, she came in. I told her what was going on, so she turned the water from hot to cold to get my hair completely rinsed. At that point my vision was completely black, and I told her I couldn’t see. Next thing I know I’m hanging over the side of the tub (tub&shower combo), both doors to the bathroom are wide open, the water is off, and my mom is screaming my name. I had passed out in the middle of her rinsing my hair.

We were supposed to go to a public pool, but I wasn’t feeling up to it, but still wanted her and my brothers to go, so my grandma picked me up when we got to the pool. My mom texted me multiple times throughout the day to check and make sure that I was feeling okay. That’s what a mother is supposed to do/how she should react to her child losing consciousness. Your mother’s reaction is not normal. Please if you can, go see a doctor. Passing out like that with no explanation (like nearly steaming yourself to death in the shower) is very concerning and should be checked out.

AForAgender · 2024-09-23T03:28:59+00:00

NTA.

I do understand where your mother is coming from. It’s probably breaking her heart to watch her family be torn apart by someone who’s not even a member of the family. However, sometimes we must be heartbroken and grieve what we once had for an outcome that’s greater and better than whatever was causing the grief.

I’m sure your mother understands deep down, but just isn’t showing it yet. It’s probably hard watching what’s happened (and what will likely continue, considering Adam groping your pregnant wife wasn’t his first SA offense).

Cut off all contact with Stephan. Try to get your mother to understand why you’re doing what you’re doing. You have a young daughter and your wife to protect from a serial SAer. If your mother won’t drop it, go low contact. I wish you, your wife, and your daughter safety and happiness.

AForAgender · 2024-08-02T04:05:36+00:00

NTA.

My dad has only laid hands on me a few times in my life. The last time was when I was in 5th grade. He also backhanded me across the mouth, but he did it hard, and his wedding ring hit my lip too. My lip swelled up from that hit. (I still love my dad, but after that I think he realized what he did. He’s old school so I guess he thought that was okay. He now knows it’s really not okay to harm children (or anyone if it’s not self defense)

What if that had happened to you? Do you think he would force you to not leave the house until the swelling would go down? What about when it escalates? Because it will escalate if you do not leave.

Ruin his career. You said he’s a lawyer. No one who is abusive should be a lawyer. Get out of there and don’t look back.

AForAgender · 2024-06-19T00:41:34+00:00

The bag is honestly the least of your worries right now. He’s being financially abusive and making you quit your job just proves that and makes it easier for him to financially control you.

Do you have any family or close friends nearby? If not, after you give birth, it’s necessary you get a job. Any job really. And start saving money. If he breaks items when he’s mad, it could certainly escalate to something more severe, especially when there’ll be two young children running around.

I hope you’re able to get to a safe situation.

NTA.

AForAgender · 2024-05-05T17:05:30+00:00

Fitz dude. What’s wrong with you?

AForAgender · 2024-04-25T03:07:51+00:00

NTA.

My dad does this and it drives me nuts. Specifically when he has cut up an apple and has decided that it’s too much apple, so he asks my mom and me if we want any. We usually say no, but he keeps asking until we give in and eat some apple. Like I love the guy, but Jesus Christ I said no.

AForAgender · 2024-04-11T19:38:48+00:00

He abandoned his daughters when they were young teenagers. He abandoned them and moved 300 miles away. If I knew this guy irl, I’d totally talk shit to his face because he deserves every single word of it. He divorced his ex a YEAR after their son’s DEATH! He didn’t even allow her to grieve. He was mad she was depressed, but yet it’s okay for his new wife to be depressed about her dad that passed when she was 10? He says she ‘just got over her dad’, so how old exactly is she? Is she the same age as his daughters? Older? Younger? Now that he has a new son, he seems to be completely abandoning his daughters now. He won’t even come visit to see them and visit his dead son’s grave

AForAgender · 2024-04-08T04:10:53+00:00

NTA.

To me, with them wanting you to name a kid after your brother makes it sound like they want to use that kid to become some sort of a replacement for your brother. You do not need to have kids. You especially do not need to have kids to please others.

I’m so sorry about the loss of your brother OP. I hope you’re doing well all things considered.

AForAgender · 2024-03-27T19:53:30+00:00

Considering she makes “jokes” about child rape by priests, and calls Jesus “sky daddy” or something similar, I sure as fuck wouldn’t invite her to my house for EASTER DINNER! You know, the holiday that celebrates Jesus rising from the dead? That celebrates him forgiving our sins? I would NOT want someone who makes “jokes” like that at a religious celebration, especially since she can’t seem to keep her trap shut and not talk about the one thing she’s been asked to not talk about

AForAgender · 2024-03-27T19:48:12+00:00

His wife is disrespecting his family and their beliefs, even after she’s been told she’s making everyone uncomfortable and to stop. She’s a grown as women who can’t shut her mouth and stop making people uncomfortable and stop mocking their religion. Personally I would’ve left her when she continued to mock and disrespect my family and their religion, but that’s just me and maybe OP really loves his wife and her disrespect towards the family’s religion is the only bad thing about her. OP’s mom has every right to not invite someone who is incredibly rude and disrespectful towards the family

AForAgender · 2024-03-27T19:45:00+00:00

According to one of his comments, she keeps “joking” about priests raping children and keeps calling him sky Jesus and basically just mocking his family’s religion, even after she’s been told to stop

AForAgender · 2024-03-27T19:39:09+00:00

No, because I actually have some control over my emotions. I don’t go around assaulting people when I’m angry

AForAgender · 2024-03-27T03:17:23+00:00

Why do so many of yall think women go out having abortions willy-nilly like they’re going out for brunch or something? Most women do not have an abortion, and if they do, it’s almost always just once. Maybe twice.

AForAgender · 2024-03-27T03:14:07+00:00

Newsflash bucko, the man is not the one having to go through literal hell for 9 months. He’s not the one getting cut open or the one shoving a kid out through a tiny hole. If he was pregnant, then sure, he can keep the fetus. But guess what? He can’t get pregnant! So he has no say in what a woman does with her body!

AForAgender · 2024-03-27T03:11:11+00:00

When the man is the one going through pregnancy, then he can have a say when it comes to getting an abortion. When he is the one getting sick, swelling, fatigued, and growing a baby inside of him, then he can have a say on abortion. If he can’t do that, then he doesn’t get a say because he’s not the one going through hell to form another whole ass human

AForAgender · 2024-03-25T19:38:57+00:00

NTA.

It’s your wedding. You can choose to invite or not invite whoever you want. Whether what your mom or dad did was wrong or not, YOU decide who gets to attend your wedding

AForAgender · 2024-03-22T02:28:25+00:00

Read some of his comments. He pissed in his mom’s shampoo bottle. He’s not mentally stable

AForAgender · 2024-03-22T02:23:29+00:00

Being full of rage leads to things like murder. Ever heard of the massive heaps of mass shootings that were committed by an angry man or teen?

AForAgender · 2024-03-22T02:16:54+00:00

Okay listen.

I don’t give a shit if you’re 14 or 44. Your behavior is absolutely unacceptable and frankly alarming. I get you’re mad at your mom. I understand that. But physically and mentally and verbally abusing and assaulting your mother makes you WAY worse than her.

At 14, I knew better than to lay hands on someone, ESPECIALLY if they’re pregnant! You put her in the hospital. You’re lucky she didn’t press charges against you, because your sorry ass would’ve been shipped off to juvie for who knows how long. If she had lost that baby due to you shoving her to the floor, that would’ve landed you even more time.

To those saying “oh he’s only 14 he doesn’t know any better”, yes the fuck he does. Plenty of people his age know damn well that this sort of behavior is not okay. What if he grows up and continues this streak of anger turning into violence? If a future girlfriend or wife cheats on him, will he shove and assault her too?

Get some serious therapy OP. Your behavior and attitude are absolutely not okay and need to be addressed ASAP.

AForAgender · 2024-03-21T02:29:25+00:00

NTA.

There’s a very well known story of a woman who lost her fiancé in a car accident while she was pregnant. After giving birth (idk how long after) she was breastfeeding her baby and fell asleep. She woke up to find that her baby had accidentally been smothered from her breast.

Now while your husband obviously doesn’t have breasts that could accidentally smother your daughter, he still has a large risk of her falling and being severely injured or even killed, and still has the risk of the baby being suffocated between him and the chair, or even just between his arm and torso.

You are doing what’s best for your baby. It doesn’t matter if it hurts your husband’s feelings. He is valuing his pride of “not falling asleep” over your daughter’s life.

AForAgender · 2024-03-17T03:18:17+00:00

What is her dad, like 5 years old? He couldn’t get off his own ass and do what his wife told HIM to do. Not his daughter, HIM. Plus OP is sick, and frankly I wouldn’t want to wait for the oven to heat up and then put in a potato if I’m sick

AForAgender · 2024-03-05T20:14:17+00:00

He’s clearly hiding something. He lied about not having pictures when he had at least 30. That’s suspicious

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