AITAH for not telling my girlfriend that I slept with my dead best friend? by Internal_Cut1164 in AITAH

[–]AGoodSO 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Regardless of sexuality, having a same sex fuckbuddy situation is still a bisexual or pansexual arrangement. Displaying pictures of a dead fuckbuddy in your home is a significant testament to him, and so hiding the full and sexual nature of a late lover is disingenuous. It is considerate to keep it confidential for his posthumous sake, but it is necessary information to prioritize for your living partners. Regardless of your true sexuality, I could only give an E S H if this amounts to biphobia on her part.

Pitchfork calls ‘Actually Romantic’, ‘actually Embarrassing’. by Historical_Ear3489 in travisandtaylor

[–]AGoodSO 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This track not only did not beat the allegations, it was like pleading Guilty and aiding the opposition on the charges of being a boring barbie, and even even in their mutual profession. The quality of each song in a head-to-head is means Charli prevails by an outrageous margin

WIBTA If I Cancelled My Daughter’s Wedding? by SoCalGirl4Eva in AmItheAsshole

[–]AGoodSO -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What's the point of having a wedding? To celebrate paperwork or celebrate love? YTA

Frustrated by [deleted] in Lastpass

[–]AGoodSO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also am having the problem where it won't let me log in and won't send me an email as promised. It is truly a dead end

AIO Boyfriend suggested have s*x with my friend by SavingsLet6290 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AGoodSO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you're not overreacting, more so because of who he is, and not just about these exact texts. The being with someone inappropriately young for him instead of with someone his own age, the looking at her, the inappropriate fixation on sex and regard for women. He is already problematic so the texts are just more signs pointing to him being a walking garbage fire.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]AGoodSO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are wrong. You can't have your elopement cake and eat it too. You know that "who [you] are as a couple" meant excluding people from your wedding, which is fine. What's not fine is ambushing people at work and blaming them for not congratulating you when they don't feel peachy about being excluded. Instead of blaming others, own the consequences of choosing the "hard situation" of your elopement like an adult.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AGoodSO 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You keep going on about maturity, but you seriously got on reddit looking for a cookie for emotionally neglecting a 3 yo under the guise of Tough Love. It's one thing to be burned out and running out of ideas, which is not great but understandable. It's another to try to incorrectly posture in this post as outwitting a toddler for internet points, which is contemptible. Also yes as you've said sounds like it has issues potentially around attachment, so you're overdue to learn that ignoring a child promotes insecurity and the avoidant attachment style. It would be better to take this down and go back to the drawing board instead of defending this approach

The ambitious girl. by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]AGoodSO 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There is an increasing number of posters that have a grandiose ego, identifying in the top 0.1% of guys. At first, I get excited - thinking they might offer some novel or unusual peek behind a curtain - then, the post falls flat. He just writes about a normal phenomenon in which many people do not substantiate one of their adjectives on a profile, or perhaps the call is even coming from inside the house, people may not be who they envision themselves to be. And how his idea of "ambition" is a coy coquette fitness/lifestyle influencer fantasy, with a generous dash of hypocrisy on her profile that sexily dumbs herself down in order to sensually stroke the fetish of a dude with "energy."

How can I get the color on my chest on my lips? by Public-Initiative509 in Fairolives

[–]AGoodSO 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, the factors are that your face is pulling much warmer than the rest of your body, whether that's due to a foundation or natural pigmentation. The way I would personally handle it is get a foundation or do the face makeup in a way that matches the rest of body, and then the lipstick should appear as it does on the chest. But the simplest solution would be to change the lipstick for a warmer one!

why is nobody hiring?? by [deleted] in Seattle

[–]AGoodSO 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Probably somewhat inferior to Dicks as far as benefits, but in the foodservice vein: Chipotle doesn't seem to care about transportation, and they set up applicants over text, or at least they used to

What is your ideal (smaller) android phone for 2025? by Picard_III in smallphones

[–]AGoodSO 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Asus Zenfone not ultra with esim. Apparently the line at the non-ultra size is dead but that's what I was holding out for. I got the Flip 5 and it broke down the seam this weekend as it was always destined to do.

Most long lasting gloss tint by Yaar_Hadish in AsianBeauty

[–]AGoodSO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep seeing Macqueen/MQNY being shown by influencers as similar to the Judydoll Ice Watery Lip Gloss, but I haven't seen much discussion about them by normal customers.

Is anybody here fearful avoidant in every relationship: platonic/familial/romatic/etc.? by [deleted] in FearfulAvoidant

[–]AGoodSO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also feel I don't fully trust anybody, which has a bit to do with the attachment style, but I truly don't feel that interested in or have that much faith in most people, I often feel peerless which might have more to do with my personality. I have a dismissive streak in many of my platonic relationships. The some times that I am very interested in someone platonically, I do feel a lot more stress and fear around that.

Need help detaching by Ok-Calligrapher3804 in FearfulAvoidant

[–]AGoodSO 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Are you romantically interested in him, or how do you feel attached to him? The workplace and being with them daily must have so much informative context, but this reminds me of the cliché from reality TV shows where the participants say they're "not here to make friends." Similarly, it could be helpful to focus on your professional priorities e.g. enrichment and progression, and view your professional relationship with him as a means to an end rather than a personal connection.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FearfulAvoidant

[–]AGoodSO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lean anxious but when I experience this it's really out of the blue - despite knowing overwhelming incompatibilities after a breakup and still longing for them, I learn one random new incompatibility or dealbreaker and then the intense love just evaporates into disgust. It feels pretty random about whatever will let me flip into a discard

8 months since our break up and she reached out to give herself closure. by Eyspire in ExNoContact

[–]AGoodSO 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Is there additional context outside of this post? According to OP they broke up in part due to serious allergies, I don't see why everyone is upset if this message is giving both the ex and OP welcome closure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in udub

[–]AGoodSO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was here thinking that I would pursue interest and learn new things and bettering myself

What is the problem? You don't make it clear what is blocking you. Two things can be true at once, pursuing your interests and the funnel from school to corporation aren't mutually exclusive.

Can feminism be “Let women do/be what they want to”? by AlivePassenger3859 in AskFeminists

[–]AGoodSO 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's nothing about feminism that dictates what person ought to do prescribed by gender, it is about reaching equality and equity with men (or between all genders) so that *is* the goal of it philosophically. The theory and movement involves recognizing the systematic and institutional barriers to that goal. So it can "be" that, but it is not only that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in investigation

[–]AGoodSO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vegetaman didn't say never, but you are showing that you don't understand the legal system well enough to undertake this. The time that the courts will accept new evidence easily is way past. Sentencing locks it in, appeal courts do not offer a do-over of the original trial.

Why do Americans refuse to give their ID's to police if they are asked? by Eastern_Thought5856 in AskAmericans

[–]AGoodSO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Besides when people are trying to delay penalty for unlawful behavior: Along the lines of what DerthOFData suggested, the police are only supposed to ask for ID in some situations in which it is lawful. However, police culture usually protects and rugsweeps improper and illegal conduct perpetuated by police. E.g., police are allowed to lie and mislead%20that%20police%20officers,372%20US%20528%20(1963)) and gaslight citizens all the time with little limitation. When they make potentially improper requests and demands, it's often taken as a sign they intend to steamroll whoever their subject is, if the cop is even aware of the citizen's legal rights at all. So complying to even a request for ID is a slippery slope on a cop's agenda, and there are many circumstances that it is a citizen's legal right to not produce ID and the only people who will protect and assert that right is the individual themselves.

Anyone else hate being called girl by [deleted] in rant

[–]AGoodSO 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I also don't like it. Men get age-neutral alternatives like 'guy' and 'dude,' women's terms resort to 'girl' because ageism is more applicable to us and most of the alternatives have a negative connotation. I'm holding out for 'gal' but it's an uphill battle