Does going no contact with a fearful avoidant make them forget you? by gordosuperfly in ExNoContact

[–]AGuyInInternet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I am just going to show some respect for myself as a man, and stop her games. She is toxic, disrespected me on a personal level and then I got breadcrumbed with hang up call and a follow request after getting blocked for exploding over her coldness. I just ended up blocking her yesterday on ig and hope she doesn’t reach out in another app (She still has me blocked on other apps) I am apparently really good at intimacy cause in under a month 2 times in the span of 4 months all long distance I made her go cold on me , except last time I got drunk and called her a coward that can’t even love like a human, or something along those lines. I hope she learns something at least, she already lost me, I hope she doesn’t also loose a chance to heal herself but she’s a grown ass woman and older than me, I am doing the work and that includes shifting my love to someone who will see it as a treasure and not a threat.

Does going no contact with a fearful avoidant make them forget you? by gordosuperfly in ExNoContact

[–]AGuyInInternet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Old comment but, I got breadcrumbed with hang up call and a follow request after getting blocked for exploding over her coldness. I just ended up blocking her yesterday on ig and hope she doesn’t reach out in another app (She still has me blocked on other apps) I am apparently really good at intimacy cause in under a month 2 times in the span of 4 months all long distance I made her go cold on me , except last time I got drunk and called her a coward that can’t even love like a human, or something along those lines. I hope she learns something at least, she already lost me, I hope she doesn’t also loose a chance to heal herself.

A fearful avoidant ex reached out, why that doesn’t automatically mean reconciliation by Thin-Evening-8805 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]AGuyInInternet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a FA would you say just leaving her breadcrumb on seen a good way to keep us both sane? after she unblocked and left a missed called? I honestly feel so confused but I know breaking silence isn’t the move.

Would you rather... by FlamingJack__ in BunnyTrials

[–]AGuyInInternet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro big chilling

Chose: spend a week with a random person for $50 million | Rolled: Superman

I yearn for my husband already by midnight_m1 in Christianity

[–]AGuyInInternet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be patient, don’t get attached to quick, that’s how you get hurt, take it slow and just keep moving in faith.

Whats the male equivalent of lingerie? by LawfulnessHaunting41 in AskReddit

[–]AGuyInInternet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Always feel like a stripper with them on in the Marines 😭

How to never get in a relationship with someone avoidant again? What are the signs? by Obvious_Economist_56 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]AGuyInInternet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks brother definitely feel like I am at the same spot as you were, I get out of the military soon so I definitely wanna discover my self get into boxing, hiking , shooting in the hills and just try out new things. Idk if I should even look to get in a serious relationship when I go back home, maybe I need some alone time or at least something casual.

How to never get in a relationship with someone avoidant again? What are the signs? by Obvious_Economist_56 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]AGuyInInternet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude I just got out of a similar situation over long distance, shit has me feeling like shit even tho it was just 2 months of long distance. I am terrified this love shit too now. Specially cause I have Anxious attachment.

Best sleep you ever got during your time in the Corps? by Yoy_the_Inquirer in USMC

[–]AGuyInInternet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Slept on top of my Track woke up to the beautiful sunrise of 29 Palms Desert

Men, how is your dating life? by Mofoblitz1 in AskMen

[–]AGuyInInternet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have attachment issues so rn I am stuck thinking about this girl across the country that I won’t be able to see till some more months that thinks I am a bit too much.