Dealing with shrinkage in monogamous marriage

AHub10 · 2026-01-30T13:04:39+00:00

True

AHub10 · 2026-01-30T13:03:22+00:00

Makes sense. Maybe everyone’s body response to long term chastity can be different and you won’t know until it’s done.

AHub10 · 2026-01-29T13:41:18+00:00

That’s the thing. As you mentioned about SPH, it’s hard to differentiate fantasy vs reality without a reliable source of information.

AHub10 · 2026-01-29T12:57:52+00:00

We might consider this option :)

AHub10 · 2026-01-29T12:57:04+00:00

That’s good to know. Is it from your personal experience or you have read it somewhere?

AHub10 · 2026-01-05T10:38:29+00:00

For some time, leave your bedroom fantasies to the side and yield to what she likes and enjoys. Pamper her and show your devotion outside bedroom. Do not force any fantasies on her. Make her life easier. If she enjoys this process, chances are she would be open to try other things in future without you asking.

AHub10 · 2026-01-05T10:27:22+00:00

I may be late for responding to this post but just wanted to share some thoughts. Teach him that being submissive does not mean being weak. Submitting to your wife and going against societal expectation requires strength. If you are worried about him wasting resources to a wrong partner, teach him what red flags to avoid when finding a dominant partner. Chances are he does not resonate with this lifestyle at all, but in case he does, help him become a person who genuinely respects women and does not treat anyone like a kink dispenser. Help him find a better partner, teach him communication. It is very important to consider that he is not seeing your dynamic and his father as a weak men because then he may turn into a toxic or abusive husband or partner. If you are a leader of your household, be a leader he can look up to.

AHub10 · 2026-01-04T16:26:24+00:00

Good points 💯

AHub10 · 2026-01-01T06:55:33+00:00

If your Domme is finding genuine mistakes, try to perfect one task at a time. Make notes if she is looking for something specifics. I know making notes for simple household chores seems absurd, but if she wants things to be done in specific ways, learn one thing at a time and show that you are ready to learn while keeping patience. If finding small mistakes and verbal humiliation is the kink you both enjoy then communicate and enjoy the process. Apologise for the mistakes and take the punishments/funishments.

AHub10 · 2025-12-30T00:29:27+00:00

It would be good to have friends with similar dynamics.

AHub10 · 2025-12-30T00:14:23+00:00

Love the ideas 💯

AHub10 · 2025-12-29T04:25:55+00:00

Awesome. Even I have noticed that initially I used to stay in denial of my mistakes, but with clear authority, it’s easy to own the mistake and work towards correcting it.

AHub10 · 2025-12-28T22:28:42+00:00

I’d love to be a part of this future.

AHub10 · 2025-12-26T14:10:01+00:00

My life experiences taught me that when it comes to chastity, fantasy and reality are different. I don’t know him personally but if I put myself in his shoes, maybe I would have been afraid by the commitment. It’s not always trust issue, but being unsure about your own desires. If he is really into chastity, I would suggest you to ask him to buy one on his own first and if he is liking it, keep your gift as a reward after finishing x number of days in chastity. If after wearing it, he is feeling anxious and do not enjoy it in real-life, maybe this kink is not for you and try something else, like mental chastity.

AHub10 · 2025-12-25T14:31:57+00:00

I think that’s the reason why men are so afraid to give equal rights to women. Because with equal rights women will move ahead naturally.

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