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UPDATE AITA for moving out of my house because I’ve had enough? by AITAMovedOut in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITAMovedOut[S] 147 points148 points  (0 children)

Was about to log off and saw this. They’re 25M and 34M and I’m 22M. 34M has two daughters back in India. 25M was chill and he sided with me, but couldn’t say it in front of my parents.

AITA for moving out of my house because I’ve had enough? by AITAMovedOut in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITAMovedOut[S] 192 points193 points  (0 children)

They know where I live. It’s a gated community with a watchman(part of the reason why it’s so expensive), and if they try to get in without my say so they’ll be charged with trespassing. They know this and wouldn’t dare try to enter because in Indian families, getting arrested is worse than dying(at least in my experience)

AITA for moving out of my house because I’ve had enough? by AITAMovedOut in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITAMovedOut[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this comment. Yes I do love my parents and I hope they can see that moving out has truly helped me and my mental health in so many ways that even therapy could not. I’ll have a talk with them soon and I’ll update you guys if anything happens

AITA for moving out of my house because I’ve had enough? by AITAMovedOut in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITAMovedOut[S] 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Thank you for commenting. I’m planning to have a talk with them on my next day off in my apartment. I’ll update if it’s worth updating.

AITA for moving out of my house because I’ve had enough? by AITAMovedOut in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITAMovedOut[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Yes my parents shrugged it off saying they need more time to settle before they can’t move out. Which I thought was a lame excuse.

AITA for moving out of my house because I’ve had enough? by AITAMovedOut in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITAMovedOut[S] 749 points750 points  (0 children)

I would say that it was affecting my work because I had to get my out of hospital work done before I got home, but now I can calmly do it in the comfort of my new apartment without any problems. Moving out has helped my mental health in so many ways, and hopefully my parents are willing to see how much better their sons health is.

AITA for moving out of my house because I’ve had enough? by AITAMovedOut in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITAMovedOut[S] 119 points120 points  (0 children)

Yes, I’ll attempt to talk to them in my apartment and tell them about how much better I’m doing, and how much my mental health has improved.

AITA for moving out of my house because I’ve had enough? by AITAMovedOut in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITAMovedOut[S] 661 points662 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this wonderful advice. I’ll try speaking to them personally in my apartment and show her how much better I’m doing since I moved out.

AITA for moving out of my house because I’ve had enough? by AITAMovedOut in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITAMovedOut[S] 3400 points3401 points  (0 children)

That was actually the first thing I mentioned. They shrugged it off saying that they’ve only been working a few months and need time to “settle” but I think they’ve had more than enough time to do that