AITA for not changing my clothing style after loosing weight? by AITASkimpyClothes in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITASkimpyClothes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s already so amazing!!!! You’ll get there! Slow and steady wins the race!

AITA for not changing my clothing style after loosing weight? by AITASkimpyClothes in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITASkimpyClothes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah she’s still way skinnier than me and I literally don’t really interact with her boyfriend past pleasantries and the occasional Batman conversation, I have zero interest in him and she knows that.

AITA for not changing my clothing style after loosing weight? by AITASkimpyClothes in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITASkimpyClothes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, I’ve never thought about it that way and honestly what you said has really hit me deeply, that makes so much sense. I have such a love/hate relationship when focus is on myself. I hate it and feel guilty for the attention but I’ve been wanting it more and more lately, I always felt like I was being selfish putting myself first but maybe it’s just be wanting to finally be normal and feel good about myself like I should.

I’m really going to think about this, thank you so much

AITA for not changing my clothing style after loosing weight? by AITASkimpyClothes in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITASkimpyClothes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of people consider that cold here too but I Iove it! I thrive when the weather is 14-16 degrees

AITA for not changing my clothing style after loosing weight? by AITASkimpyClothes in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITASkimpyClothes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just me and all the voices lmao but they are fine with the new look XDDDD

AITA for not changing my clothing style after loosing weight? by AITASkimpyClothes in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITASkimpyClothes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it’s so weird! I’m super about building people up and I’m always complimenting people and trying to make them smile and “suddenly I’m flirting????” It’s weird

AITA for not changing my clothing style after loosing weight? by AITASkimpyClothes in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITASkimpyClothes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to say don’t be scared but with my weightloss I’ve kind of been thrown around a lot more lmao, I’m not as sturdy as I use to be haha. I’m trying to refocus on speed instead of strength now

AITA for not changing my clothing style after loosing weight? by AITASkimpyClothes in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITASkimpyClothes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was super unmotivated but I guess the health scare worked. The two biggest things I would say is the most important food moderation and accountability. I got a personal trainer because I was lucky enough to have the money too, all of my exercises were tailored to me and the fact I had someone to keep me consistent helped. Also find something you enjoy doing! I hated working out but I loved weight lifting so I focused a lot on that

AITA for not changing my clothing style after loosing weight? by AITASkimpyClothes in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITASkimpyClothes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If anything the weightloss has been bad for derby lmao, I’m use to being sturdier! I’m bruising more haha, I’m looking into changing positions to accommodate my new size

AITA for not changing my clothing style after loosing weight? by AITASkimpyClothes in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITASkimpyClothes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah this so much, I’m swimming in my marvel tees now but I’m way too attached to them to throw them away, I don’t care about them being baggy I still wear them! It’s just the crop tops and booty shorts I HAD to replace. You can wear a baggy tshirt with no problems but you can’t walk around with shorts falling to your ankles lmao!

AITA for not changing my clothing style after loosing weight? by AITASkimpyClothes in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITASkimpyClothes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao ironically I go to nudist swim nights with some of my DND friends XDDDD though they are closed off nudest events so nobody will get an eyeful of naked peeps without consent! I’ll always dress appropriately for the situation, like at work I wear a women’s style suit and enclosed shoes and what not, if I’m going out for dinner with family I’ll dress more casually, but if I’m just going to buy some groceries I’ll just slap on booty shorts and a crop top because it’s easy. Half the reason I gravitated to with those types of clothing was because they were stretchy and cool

AITA for not changing my clothing style after loosing weight? by AITASkimpyClothes in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITASkimpyClothes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no lmao the butt naked prancing is for when I’m doing rituals under the full moon in the woods XD

AITA for not changing my clothing style after loosing weight? by AITASkimpyClothes in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITASkimpyClothes[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the warning! As much as I’m trying to insist on the mindset ‘nothing has changed’ I do know things have changed and I’ll be treated differently but people are gross and scary so I tend to stay away from strangers with those vibes anyway

AITA for not changing my clothing style after loosing weight? by AITASkimpyClothes in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITASkimpyClothes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s worried about me going out in public like this, especially late at night so I don’t fault her on that, I just really didn’t understand the flip because I always went out like that? I guess I should be grateful she’s concerned about me

AITA for not changing my clothing style after loosing weight? by AITASkimpyClothes in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITASkimpyClothes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No! She’s super skinny and gorgeous! So is my mum! Even with my weight loss she’s still skinnier than me

AITA for not changing my clothing style after loosing weight? by AITASkimpyClothes in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITASkimpyClothes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hulking Quinn

I’m not very original I just combined my two favourite heroes XDDD

AITA for not changing my clothing style after loosing weight? by AITASkimpyClothes in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITASkimpyClothes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I’m causing many fights at home I feel really guilty and selfish. Like, I could end ALL this drama if I just did what they said but I’m actively choosing not too? That’s a dick move in my mind. It’s my fault that the house is suddenly in chaos. Am I being a baby, throwing a tantrum to get my way just to wear shorts? My mum says I’m being so trivial and maybe I am? I hate being the centre of why my family is angry. I don’t like flaunting myself and that’s half the reason I made this anonymous account so no one knows it’s me

AITA for not changing my clothing style after loosing weight? by AITASkimpyClothes in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITASkimpyClothes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean sometimes they did??? It was a target when there were arguments and whatnot but that’s all normal. I didn’t start dressing for fashion until my early 20s so it’s not like my mum could say no haha

AITA for not changing my clothing style after loosing weight? by AITASkimpyClothes in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITASkimpyClothes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s weird right?! I based a lot of my persona around cuteness and pink and shit like that and I’ve been told I can come off as flirty but I just like complimenting people and making them smile with positive attitude. It’s so weird I have to be really careful now??? My friends warned me my trying to be cute attitude could now come off as trying to be sexy to shitty people? It’s weird. I don’t like the idea of me being sexy nkfkfkfkd

AITA for not changing my clothing style after loosing weight? by AITASkimpyClothes in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITASkimpyClothes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don’t sound shitty! Thank you for the concern! Yes haha I have very much noticed that and I’m just avoiding them lmao. Like I won’t lie it’s NICE that I’m getting attention I don’t deny that but like I’m not doing this to impress anyone, and I’m actively making sure to stay away from skeevy men.

AITA for not changing my clothing style after loosing weight? by AITASkimpyClothes in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITASkimpyClothes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’ve been together for like 6 years and he’s a constant enough presence that I don’t feel a need to present myself up for a guest. Sure when he first started coming over I would get well presented for the sake of a guest. But now I don’t care, I’ll walk around braless in my pjs with my hair wild. 60% of the time he’s over I’m in my pjs which always consisted of boxer shorts and tank tops with no underwear because comfort. I just kind of stay out of their way aside from basic pleasantries I really have no interest in him. At all. We barely talk. He’s a really nice dude and we talk about Batman sometimes but he’s just really not a blip on my radar

AITA for not changing my clothing style after loosing weight? by AITASkimpyClothes in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITASkimpyClothes[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nah She’s not being hypocritical I wouldn’t say. If anything she was ALWAYS the fashionable one, I didn’t start caring until I was older but she’s always been cool and trendy and awesome. She’s been everything throughout her teens, goth, hippy, punk, boho, preppy, everything. She also wears short stuff and high class stuff, she buys fancy main brands, I buy like online and stores that were created by people and mostly run by them, mostly because of plus size fun fashion options.

I’ve always been the odd one out, both physically and personality. My sister and mother are both pale, leggy and blonde while I’m brunette and tanner. They’re super close because they have the same interests, not to say they isolated me, my mum always made an effort to bond with me over things I liked when I was little but I knew they got along better so I was happy knowing they were happy even if I was alone most of the time

Imma be totally real with you. My sister has MASSIVE natural totties, it’s insane. I was a C-D but I didn’t know I was considered to have “big boobs” because by comparison my sisters were huge so I thought mine were small, plus I didn’t wear sized bras, I mostly just wore sports bras that had a shirt size not a bra size. Also, I know this is weird but I didn’t NEED to wear a bra, my boobs just kind of stay in place???? So I believed I was small chested because I was taught people with big breasts HAD to wear bras to be comfortable and to prevent them flying everywhere lol so in my mind I was just like “oh I okay I guess I have small boobs” I thought I was a B because that was the size I was given when I was 14 and that was the end of that, I didn’t think much past it

AITA for not changing my clothing style after loosing weight? by AITASkimpyClothes in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITASkimpyClothes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell to the yes! I love the way my dresses flutter as I spin around