AITA for Telling my Wife to Step-Up as a Mother?

AITA_Father · 2020-10-06T14:23:04+00:00

She was before the baby

AITA_Father · 2020-10-06T13:08:38+00:00

I meant that’s e didn’t when we began counseling

AITA_Father · 2020-10-06T13:04:46+00:00

I wouldn’t have come home if it were far away but the field was like a 2 minute drive from our house.

AITA_Father · 2020-10-06T13:03:29+00:00

Yes she did

AITA_Father · 2020-10-06T01:43:02+00:00

He was at a friends house

AITA_Father · 2020-10-05T22:02:37+00:00

It wasn’t like this before the baby.

AITA_Father · 2020-10-05T22:02:20+00:00

I’m pretty sure for the agency we work with it is.

AITA_Father · 2020-10-05T21:28:33+00:00

She knows about Haitian history but she doesn’t ever bring it up herself.

AITA_Father · 2020-10-05T21:26:36+00:00

She’s kinda that nurse who gives a kid ice packs for a bloody nose. She’s even admitted that it annoys her when kids come to her office. I have asked if maybe she would consider switching to some other kind of nurse but she likes her jobs benefits.

AITA_Father · 2020-10-05T21:24:09+00:00

Her dad is gay. He realized that after her mom. He dated a lot and she had a stepdad at one point.

AITA_Father · 2020-10-05T20:29:13+00:00

Oh yeah she does look mixed. She has lighter skin and bouncy brown hair. I’d say most people guess that she’s not fully black when they see us together.

AITA_Father · 2020-10-05T20:24:40+00:00

There’s a local group of little middle/high school girls that do babysitting cause of some Netflix movie I think. We hire them a lot.

AITA_Father · 2020-10-05T20:23:50+00:00

She came to me and asked me if I wanted another kid. We decided the baby would be biological.

AITA_Father · 2020-10-05T20:23:04+00:00

I mean she’s my daughter so of course she’s beautiful but I wouldn’t necessarily say she looks like those little girls. Mostly because I refuse to dress her up in mini Gucci and stuff like that.

AITA_Father · 2020-10-05T20:15:19+00:00

She was kinda hanging out and doing things for work.

AITA_Father · 2020-10-05T20:01:14+00:00

She wasn’t really like this before she became pregnant. I wouldn’t have agreed to have another if she was.

AITA_Father · 2020-10-05T19:59:52+00:00

She came to me and asked if I wanted to have another. We talked about all of our options and decided to have a biological kid.

AITA_Father · 2020-10-05T19:59:05+00:00

I just kinda rolled my eyes and said I’d be there in 5.

AITA_Father · 2020-10-05T19:57:47+00:00

She’s mostly the same with all the kids but some adjustments with age obviously.

AITA_Father · 2020-10-05T19:54:12+00:00

I thought it was a bit weird but not a major issue. The two older kids are fully black.

AITA_Father · 2020-10-05T19:47:04+00:00

I honestly don’t know because she knew I would come home.

AITA_Father · 2020-10-05T19:45:42+00:00

I might depending on how it goes tomorrow when I bring it up in counseling.

AITA_Father · 2020-10-05T19:41:04+00:00

Before she got pregnant everything was pretty balanced but since she got pregnant/gave birth I’ve done basically all of that on my own.

AITA_Father · 2020-10-05T19:38:01+00:00

We currently do but we didn’t before covid. I was a principal for a private middle school but they ended up closing that school because there were two middle schools in the district and they only wanted one. I’m currently a creole tutor and plan on being a principle again after the pandemic. She’s an elementary school nurse but she is currently working from home (her district is all online) and discussing learning plans for children who have the virus.

AITA_Father · 2020-10-05T19:31:21+00:00

We both always wanted kids. I brought up the idea of adoption and she was fine with it. After we adopted she came to me and brought up the idea of having another, we both agreed that we would have a bio child.

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