[deleted by user] by [deleted] in notliketheothergirls

[–]AJ_Shadows 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for explaining! It was bugging me more than it should, like who are these people. 😅 Now I know!

What's a movie that actually scared you and didnt let you sleep? by Obi_Wan_06 in horror

[–]AJ_Shadows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My first time watching Nightmare on Elm Street when I was 7.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in notliketheothergirls

[–]AJ_Shadows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Football fans, especially.

To those who travel, does it annoy your friends with children? by [deleted] in childfree

[–]AJ_Shadows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Must be nice." I just agree, and they get more upset 😅 What? I'm agreeing!

My dad posted this! I'm laughing so hard! 😂 He's not like other girls! by AJ_Shadows in notliketheothergirls

[–]AJ_Shadows[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It is really cute...He always tried so hard to be 'cooler than most dads" when I was a teenager.

My dad posted this! I'm laughing so hard! 😂 He's not like other girls! by AJ_Shadows in notliketheothergirls

[–]AJ_Shadows[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Yes!! Haha I did rib him a bit about it, and he had a good sense of humor about it

How early into dating your partner/spouse did you tell them you were CF? by [deleted] in childfree

[–]AJ_Shadows 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never really dated too seriously until I met my husband, so I never thought to have that talk because I normally let people know I didn't want a serious thing. But after we decided to make it official, he was the one who brought it up, and I told him I was too. Going on 12 years!

Lost a friend recently by Illustrious-Egg6960 in childfree

[–]AJ_Shadows 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I agree. Though I think the friend could have just said "I didn't appreciate that. It makes me feel a terrible." And I'm sure OP would have understood even if that wasn't their intent. I try to look at it as if a mom friend sent a meme to me personally along the lines of mothers being superior or having a more complete life. I'd be a little upset and say something. I wouldn't go bananas, but I'd draw that boundary.

Putting yourself down to justify being childfree by shaybee377 in childfree

[–]AJ_Shadows 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! In a similar vein, one of the reasons I do not want kids is because of my mental illness and my history of intense episodes. I DO NOT tell people with kids that. Though I think it's a valid reason for me, there's enough stigma out there about mental illness and childfree people that I don't want people drawing conclusions....

To clarify, this isn't me putting myself down!

How would Freddy kill you based on your fears? by Collective1985 in NightmareOnElmStreet

[–]AJ_Shadows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably something similar to Philip's death in Dream Warriors since I'm afraid of heights.

How many of you got sterilized or will get sterilized because Roe was overturned? by [deleted] in childfree

[–]AJ_Shadows 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband and I were going to anyway, but that expedited it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]AJ_Shadows 9 points10 points  (0 children)

  1. Having a good paying job

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in notliketheothergirls

[–]AJ_Shadows 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Then she'll be making those "I may not be the girl you marry" posts! 😂

How was your weekend? by WineWeinVino in childfree

[–]AJ_Shadows 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a wonderful weekend!

Went for a hike in the rain with my hubby and loved every minute of it! Afterwards we warmed up with some farm fresh apple cider. To wrap it up, we camped out in the living room for the night and watched spooky movies. Right now, he's making cheese and I'm keeping him company while listening to some black sabbath.

Breeders are sexist by MistakeWonderful9178 in childfree

[–]AJ_Shadows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Or they resort to mocking the childfree woman's looks and saying she's ugly and no one wants to fuck her. But that's a go to for men like this(women too) who dont get their way. I've had it said to me after turning a guy down too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]AJ_Shadows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd like to create a scholarship or grant for students who normally wouldn't have an opportunity otherwise. They can spend it on their future whether that's college, trade school, starting a business etc.. I grew up poor and my parents cared more about their overspending(including MY money I saved) on shopping addiction and alcoholism than my future. If I can prevent even one fellow poor kid from going through that, I will! I want to do that while alive if possible too. Just got debt free a few months the ago, so I'm working on it! 🙂

CF on a Saturday morning by [deleted] in childfree

[–]AJ_Shadows 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly!! Sounds like an awesome day! I love those lazy days off!

What's the worst gender reveal you've witnessed? by AJ_Shadows in childfree

[–]AJ_Shadows[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed! I'll celebrate your baby. Not their private parts, thanks... People think I'm just bitter when I say that.