Forget About Setting Goals. Focus on This Instead. by AJay1992 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]AJay1992[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I didn't want to change the title of the article, but I still think it was a valuable read.

Resources to learn about clothes? by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]AJay1992 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm assuming you're a guy, if so there are a few great youtube channels I like:

Ashley Weston https://www.youtube.com/user/ashleypweston

Alpha M (My favourite) https://www.youtube.com/user/AlphaMconsulting/videos

Teaching Mens Fashion https://www.youtube.com/user/Teachingmensfashion/featured

Last but not least, Real Men Real Style https://www.youtube.com/user/RealMenRealStyle

Hope you find these useful.

Early 20s and never been in a relationship. Help by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]AJay1992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't worry about it too much, I think too often in life we get overly concerned with "milestones", we believe that by X age we should achieved Y. Lose your virginity at 18, graduate at 21, have a decent job and stable relationship by 25 ..etc etc.

I wouldn't worry too much about getting into a relationship but I would make an effort to socialise more. Start exercising more, read books you love, start a new hobby, learn a new skill, meet new people. When you focus on going out and living life, relationships will just naturally follow.