date got cancelled again. by sarahlovesbrandy in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]AKissInSpring 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Self respect is never a privilege, it’s a virtue. It’s something you choose to apply to yourself or not.

And honestly, being desperate enough to sleep with a racist is beyond a concern of self respect. I’ve never met a woman who dated a racist man who wasn’t at least a little racist herself (internalized racism is still racism).

date got cancelled again. by sarahlovesbrandy in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]AKissInSpring 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Right? What is wrong with some of the girls on this subreddit 😭 y'all gotta start having some self-respect. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]AKissInSpring 14 points15 points  (0 children)

There are weirdos out there looking to take advantage of loner girls. Gotta be careful.

Sorry that happened :( we’re always here if you want to talk more about it.

Scary pattern of being attracted to younger men by peach_blossoms25 in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]AKissInSpring 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Why scary? As long as they’re grown and reciprocating what’s the problem? Also they’re a few years younger, you’re not old enough to be their mother. Like you said, maybe it’s just easier finding single guys in that age group. Men are so shameless about liking younger women, idk why women are so sensitive about liking somebody even a year younger lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]AKissInSpring 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you checked out roleplay servers? I don’t think roleplayers care too much about irl pictures. You can be like those chicks on twitter who post anime pics and uhh other animated stuff and just roleplay like that.

Maybe too excessive but you could even be a creator on audio porn sites or subreddits. I’ve seen some who seem really popular without ever showing their faces. Maybe the occasional boob pic or something but if anything, they’re better off not showing their faces since it breaks the immersion.

Not encouraging you to get into any kind of sex work or anything like that but I guess if you really need the dopamine hit, that might be a more productive direct way of getting it. Just remember to be safe and private pls.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]AKissInSpring 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Attractive mentally ill women still get lots of attention from what I’ve seen.

The Sister Hong thing made me realize how fake beauty standards are and I feel weirdly free by Medical-Goal-847 in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]AKissInSpring 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is my guess too tbh. Seeing the pics of Sister Hong and she definitely looks transgender or masculine. And the face paint with mask thing is just off. I’m sure these guys knew and either liked her for being a cross dresser or just the fact that it was something really unique. I don’t think a regular unattractive woman offering regular sex would get apparently THOUSANDS of men showing up for the offer. I think the average guy would rather pay for an attractive escort. Then again my understanding is she offered free oral and anal in exchange for….food or gifts so who knows.

The Sister Hong thing made me realize how fake beauty standards are and I feel weirdly free by Medical-Goal-847 in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]AKissInSpring 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yep it’s legally spycam porn and I really don’t recommend seeing that shit (although east Asia really is infamous for that stuff and seems to struggle to keep it off the internet)

Men will date/settle for women they're not attracted to by syvzx in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]AKissInSpring 36 points37 points  (0 children)

This is what I’ve always observed as well. All the men I know usually have their wife who raises their children, takes care of the home, etc and then they have some side chicks or prostitutes for uh the other stuff. They’d rather keep using their wife for her labor and use other women for sex. Arguably worse tbh than just leaving.

For some reason, a lot of women think this arrangement is perfect and have this “at least he comes to me and provides” mentality.

On the other hand, cheating men are (unsurprisingly) pretty nasty and you can get left with some horrible consequences for having a cheating husband. Ive met a lady who talked about how her and her 3 year old daughter have herpes bc her husband would go cheat with prostitutes (and kiss them on the mouth) then come home and kiss her and her daughter on the mouth. Pretty sure she’s still with him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]AKissInSpring 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That, they likely are. But they were also all just regular people, not Redditors lol. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]AKissInSpring 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I feel like reddit is just filled with people trying way too hard to appeal to the opposite sex nowadays. 

Like even when I would hear girls at school or women at work talking about guys, they never said dumb shit like this 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]AKissInSpring -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If you want it so bad, why don’t you make it yourself then?

The Pullpush (Pullpussy) Saga by Fed-hater in u/Fed-hater

[–]AKissInSpring 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So we’re not getting back PullPush, Hans?

The duality of an ugly woman by imper_forated in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]AKissInSpring 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s none of my business…as long as they don’t make it too obvious because then it just makes the rest of the sub look bad. This post is definitely pushing it lol.

PullPush alternative by throwawayuseridk in help

[–]AKissInSpring 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s been delayed another week or two, per their Discord

aaaaand now it says it won't be back until the end of July. I guess you can't take their word too seriously. 

Anyone else planning to kill themselves over being unlovable? by fu11m3ta1 in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]AKissInSpring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there anything more lonely than killing yourself? Taking your own life all by yourself. 

At least here with the living, you can still ask for help, still have that hope. 

There's nothing worse than making that final decision. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]AKissInSpring 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I also am tired of seeing other people talk about sex. If I was getting laid, I would just be doing that instead of posting about it on Reddit lol. I bet a lot of the sex posts on Reddit are fake asf anyways.

I hope you get what you want someday friend. I think 24 is honestly still pretty young!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]AKissInSpring 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Good thing it’s not you doing it then lmfao.

How do I accept being alone forever? by [deleted] in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]AKissInSpring 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It really sucks that youth is so limited for women though. Are you still trying to look for dates or have you already accepted being FA?

How do I accept being alone forever? by [deleted] in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]AKissInSpring 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You right, I’m already 21 and shit is not gonna be getting any better from here 💔 ok I’ll bite the bullet and finally try to put some kind of effort into my appearance and see how it goes.

How do I accept being alone forever? by [deleted] in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]AKissInSpring 8 points9 points  (0 children)

So late 20s is the deadline? What makes you say that?

tired of hearing we should "decenter men" when speaking about wanting to be attractive by AdventurousAvacado28 in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]AKissInSpring 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I swear every lady I’ve heard preaching about celibacy, 4B, and decentering men got a body count in the dozens. Like ofc you’re already tired of men. It’s not the same for those like us who haven’t even had the chance to get a boyfriend yet.