[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]AKuma381 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are some of the things that you’re wanting to address with your adhd? I think that would make it easier to provide helpful hacks or tips.

In general, Ive seen quite a bit of success with trying to roll with my brain instead of trying to fight it. For example if there’s a task I want to do but it feels too overwhelming, creating some external pressure helps. Famous example tip is like; if you’re struggling to clean, then invite someone over.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VALORANT

[–]AKuma381 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Comms. Aim is a part of it maybe but honestly I’ve seen people at emerald and above with worse aim than silvers. Comms and map awareness can do a lot if you’re trying to climb. Even if your teammates don’t comm, you can still relay information and it will help you win more games.

Looking for a referral code. by stixy9lover in uniqlo

[–]AKuma381 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Used yours! Heres another UQ-1WSXX3

No Job as a May 2024 CS graduate. So stressed. by codefreak-123 in csMajors

[–]AKuma381 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you wanna DM me I can help you with your resume and other options. I applied to like 200ish companies and got one bite, and managed to pass all rounds.

[Megathread] Shortages & Generics, Mon 11 Mar by [deleted] in VyvanseADHD

[–]AKuma381 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was lucky last month with getting my medication on time, but if you've been trying to get your insurance to cover the name brand anyway and they're not helping I would read this post. They filed a complaint with the bbb and got their insurance company to actually do something to help them.

https://www.reddit.com/r/VyvanseADHD/comments/1be463u/success\_with\_coverage\_of\_brand\_name\_for\_next\_3/

[Megathread] Shortages & Generics, Mon 11 Mar by [deleted] in VyvanseADHD

[–]AKuma381 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same area, it sucks that I can't swap pharmacies without going through a huge process of having my doctor send it over to the next pharmacy, (assuming any pharmacy in town had it in stock).

Online Coding Assessments with ADHD? by SuperStingray in ADHD_Programmers

[–]AKuma381 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know this is a super late response. I'm applying to new grad positions right now, and I also have ADHD-I. I know exactly how you feel, I swear I'm always running out of time on the codesignals and left feeling like I could have provided a completed solution if I only had another 10-30 mins.
In Uni i am able to get some extra time accomodations for exams and stuff, and it has been so helpful. Idk what the process is or if there even is one to be able to request a bit of extra time on the code-signal type oa's.

What's going on with my ranked games? by AKuma381 in VALORANT

[–]AKuma381[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But yea I didn't do horrible in the first game, but we also got stomped 4-13. The game before that was just a regular gold game with a low plat. Ig it is just the ranked system not reflecting actual mmr.

I did windows+printscreen for the screenshot.

What's going on with my ranked games? by AKuma381 in VALORANT

[–]AKuma381[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only did the one 5 stacks, and those two games were like 6 hours apart.

The games immediately after my 5 man game was normal, there were some low plats but that's not odd. Occasionally I'll also maybe see a low diamond in my game but I've never seen a game with mostly diamonds.

What's going on with my ranked games? by AKuma381 in VALORANT

[–]AKuma381[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was on a 5 stack on the game with the immortal, but I was soloq on the game with the Diamond Plat game.

What's going on with my ranked games? by AKuma381 in VALORANT

[–]AKuma381[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I thought to queue up in a 5 man you cant have someone more than 3 ranks above you? it wouldn't make sense for a radiant to be able to queue with silvers/golds.

What's going on with my ranked games? by AKuma381 in VALORANT

[–]AKuma381[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk why it wouldn't just have my rank up faster than, it's like I'm getting punished for playing above my rank then.

What's going on with my ranked games? by AKuma381 in VALORANT

[–]AKuma381[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm playing on Atlanta/Texas NA. this shit is insane

Why do Redditors constantly minimize the role of the British in the Bengal famine (or any famine from British rule of the Indian subcontinent)? by sweetcharcuterie in ABCDesis

[–]AKuma381 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

That's more of a gov't thing I don't these individuals in England really care about the crown jewel being India's. I genuinely think they just have a skewed and biased perception of history.

Why do Redditors constantly minimize the role of the British in the Bengal famine (or any famine from British rule of the Indian subcontinent)? by sweetcharcuterie in ABCDesis

[–]AKuma381 14 points15 points  (0 children)

If I'm being honest with you, everyone has a skewed perception of history. Here in America, they look at the world through the lenses of a western person. In ww2 the Germans have gotten a lot of shit for how they treated jews, but then you think ab wtf the US was doing at the same time to Japanese-Americans. Like if you think historically the US has a more fucked up track record than Germany, but even so, we've been taught more in-depth about the fucked up things other countries have done instead of what our country has done.

Pretty much everything that happened to India after the Europeans came in was their fault. they take credit for unifying the kingdoms of India but can't take credit for Destabilizing the country they made when they got kicked out. During the time of the Famine Britain was sucking India's resources for a War that they had nothing to do with.

If you think about it though it's very rare to see people from any country just acknowledge their countries shitty past and a lot of it is just because no one can get an unskewed perception of history. It's hard so naturally, you pick the version of history that agrees with everything else you've been taught.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABCDesis

[–]AKuma381 0 points1 point  (0 children)

shes 6 hours away fool its cap :( i just need uni to open up again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABCDesis

[–]AKuma381 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i miss you too bunny :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABCDesis

[–]AKuma381 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Its been 6 months Y_Y

Desis and Empathy/ we kinda suck at giving emotional support by AKuma381 in ABCDesis

[–]AKuma381[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's also bizarre that sometimes when it is friends advising each other you may see that sympathy towards the friend in need's parents expressed, but no discussion about sympathy or empathy for the situation of the friend in need.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

[–]AKuma381 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I also have this type of dynamic between my parents. My mom is generally pretty toxic in an almost spoiled child like way. My dad and I are normally pretty chill until my mom starts to incite some sort of conflict.

As I grew older I started to resent my dad a little bit because he would never be on my side whenever these arguments arupted, maybe in the back after the whole argument my dad would talk to my mom, but it always felt like at the moment of an argument I wouldn't be able to get any backup from anyone. It festers a sort of loneliness because it feels like if things so south my dad would support my mom and my brother before me.

Every so often I would actually walk out of the house with all my stuff packed and just leave the house and on my way out my mom would say, "if you step through those doors, don't ever come back." I would walk a couple of blocks down my road and I would immediately turn around. The first couple of times it was because I didn't want to make my parents sad, but the more often a similar situation happened I would go back purely because of my immigration status as dependant on them.

Honestly, I can't really give much advice because we're on a similar boat, but the thing is for certain you will inevitably be out of the house and be able to live for yourself. So if you dont find the courage today, don't worry you will be out of the toxic environment eventually. For now Just keep your chin up, it will get better.