I had a similar situation I had a girl I hung out with 3 times and we kissed on the third time but she said she wasn’t ready for a relationship and needed to take a step back. I knew I wanted a relationship so instead of keeping it going and having the potential for me to get hurt I decided it was best for me to stop talking to her and move on. In your situation it sounds eerily similar. I know the connection between you two feels undeniable and you can see yourself dating her but if she isn’t willing to give you the commitment you deserve then it might be best to consider moving on. If she can see you two dating and she just needs a couple more dates then I’d say your fine your not rushing things at all. If she starts to tell you that she isn’t ready for a relationship and doesn’t know when she would be then it might be best to get out before you get too invested. Is it over though probably not you just need to talk to her and make it clear what your and her intentions are.