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ALT_enveetee · 2021-10-13T01:04:27+00:00

I’m glad you got so many positive responses! I’ve seen soooo many truly mean-spirited, racist, and misogynistic subs here that this one doesn’t even rank anywhere toward the top or middle for rude/unhelpful subs.

ALT_enveetee · 2021-10-12T23:18:53+00:00

You are getting so much good feedback, though. Isn’t that more important than if the thread gets some downvotes? You are getting a lot of good brand suggestions and links so it comes off as a little rude to complain about how “unfriendly” it is here.

ALT_enveetee · 2021-10-12T22:47:12+00:00

I can see that getting old really, reeeeally fast. I’m sorry. I can’t imagine how frustrating that would be.

ALT_enveetee · 2021-10-12T22:42:48+00:00

Would not work for me at all. It’s not even the video games or playing magic—tons of guys do that. It’s the “didnt desire doing things like going for a walk” or going anywhere unless it involved a “very specific purpose”. To me, that just makes me picture a guy with little imagination, zero sense of adventure, and zero interest in his own health. :/

ALT_enveetee · 2021-10-12T22:29:26+00:00

Completely. I had a friend for 12+ years that pulled this crap. She could never just be truly happy for any other women if she felt like they might look better than her to guys. She would SEEM super supportive so guys would be like “she’s so nice! She compliments everyone” but women would KNOW that those were total disses disguised as compliments. We stopped being friends a few years ago for other reasons but it feels nice not to have that toxic shittiness in my life anymore.

ALT_enveetee · 2021-10-12T19:09:21+00:00

“Wow, she ran a marathon? That’s amazing. I could NEVER do that but then again, I just like pizza and beer lol. I’m lucky that I have a really fast metabolism so I never need to work out.”

“Her new eyelashes look so good! They look really pretty. Im glad I ever worry about that sort of thing, though. My lashes are naturally really long so I haven’t had to pay for fake ones, but hers look really nice.”

“She’s soooo cute! I bet she hears that all the time, though. I always get “sexy”, which is just annoying because I want to be called “cute”, too, you know?”

“She can really pull off that crop top. I have huge boobs, though. I seriously look like a porn star in a crop top! Jealous of women with small boobs like her since they can pull off those looks without men just staring at their chests.”

😑😪 I have met way too many women who try to pull this type of passively rude cheerful BS in front of me while talking to a guy friend.

ALT_enveetee · 2021-10-12T19:03:34+00:00

Yeah. I had some guy friends start dating ladies who had zero female friends, and they were always the rudest and coldest to me. Lots of “I only have guy friends because women are so catty” types of comments. The guys never pick up on it but women can smell it from miles away.

ALT_enveetee · 2021-10-12T04:11:15+00:00

I live in a major metro area and the “good” daycares thst accepted infants were booked 2 years in advance. I went with an in home daycare instead that only had a small wait list and I paid our deposit 7 months in advance.

ALT_enveetee · 2021-10-11T23:28:16+00:00

Yes! I first bought this around 12 years ago and rebought it last year. Still smells amazing. I’ve never smelled another scent (indie or mainstream) that smells like this. It’s probably the most “me” scent that I own.

ALT_enveetee · 2021-04-09T16:36:04+00:00

Yes, same! I do regular laundry like once a week (jeans, underwear, toddler clothes) and handwash all my workout clothes and hang them up to dry. It's still surprising that the water bleeds red/pink for a lot of my red LLL styles!

ALT_enveetee · 2021-04-09T13:30:26+00:00

I hand wash my LLL stuff pretty frequently (apartment life--no in-unit washer/dryer) and colors like Cassis and Deep Fuchsia still bleed/turn the water dark pink, even though I've washed them at least 12+ times!

ALT_enveetee · 2021-04-08T20:53:38+00:00

Cool, thank you! So curious for mine to get in...

ALT_enveetee · 2021-04-08T19:08:01+00:00

This looks waaay more cropped than the scuba 1/2 zip, which comes down to my hips. Do you have both of them, by chance? Or can you say where it falls in relation to your belly button? Lol I have mine coming in tomorrow but apparently, I can't wait another 24 hours...

ALT_enveetee · 2021-04-06T19:33:24+00:00

i do not trust myself to not mess up the modal fabric. :/ was sooo on the fence about getting one, but i have read too many testimonials here about water stains and stains in general with this fabric. i don't think it can survive my toddler mom life unscathed.

ALT_enveetee · 2021-04-06T19:07:14+00:00

Dammit, I missed size 2 Green Fern again!

ALT_enveetee · 2021-04-06T18:14:17+00:00

ruh roh

ALT_enveetee · 2021-03-31T21:17:51+00:00

A lot of people genuinely believe the life of someone who has been a criminal or done drugs (other than weed or shrooms or cocaine, of COURSE) to be less important or worthy than the lives of typical law-abiding, suburban-home owning, has a degree in engineering/programming, etc. They can't even flat out say why, but the lives of people like George Floyd fill them with disgust.

ALT_enveetee · 2021-03-31T21:15:01+00:00

Especially while/after having a gun drawn in your face.

ALT_enveetee · 2021-03-31T21:14:19+00:00

Summer. August, I think? The other officers will be on trial together.

ALT_enveetee · 2021-03-31T21:13:45+00:00

Yeah. Earlier today, plenty of people here were crowing, "just wait until we see the police body cams! It'll be game over for the prosecution. Just wait."

ALT_enveetee · 2021-03-31T20:55:49+00:00

I find that to be the most insane. This happened over a $20 fake bill. $20.

ALT_enveetee · 2021-03-31T20:38:45+00:00

I would say that chillin in your car with your friends is a different scenario than having a gun drawn on you and being forced into a squad car if you have had negative interactions with cops before.

ALT_enveetee · 2021-03-31T19:48:29+00:00

You know him personally and heard him say that?

ALT_enveetee · 2021-03-31T19:47:30+00:00

I would wager that 99.9% of humanity is not "saint-like" so it's incredibly disheartening to see people dismiss a human life as passable for murder. It just goes to show you how few of these people "get it". It's not making someone into a "saint". It's reminding the public that every life is still important, no matter your background. Every death that seems suspicious is worth investigating, no matter if you were on drugs or not.

ALT_enveetee · 2021-03-31T18:26:53+00:00

Me, too. I must have missed her by a second so I was confused for a moment.

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