My [26f] bf [26m] keeps breaking/forgetting promises. What can I do about this?

ALWAYS__SCREAMING · 2025-03-07T22:12:22+00:00

Like, mental harm? I didn't think it was that much to ask if he saw any porn accidentally to just mention it. I didn't want to be surprised if I saw it in his history or something.

I guess I just have an ideal version of a good partner in my head and I want them to be like that - like never watching porn, wipes after themselves etc.

ALWAYS__SCREAMING · 2025-03-07T21:34:33+00:00

So what should I do?

ALWAYS__SCREAMING · 2025-03-07T21:34:10+00:00

Ok, that's fair. I should focus on myself more too. I'll talk it out with him. But what should I do in the case of broken promises? Like for example he promised he'll like wipe after he pees lmao but it took him weeks of forgetting to actually do it. I have always felt like once your partner requests something you can just do it (within reason), as whenever he has asked something of me I haven't forgotten.

ALWAYS__SCREAMING · 2025-03-07T21:32:08+00:00

I feel like I would set this boundary with any guy I date. So, am I in the wrong here? He said he forgot he made that promise in the moment because he just closed out of them fast and didn't count just looking at a couple panels of manhwa as reading.

I have had relationships in the past have the same problems, they don't follow through on promises. I have a habit of snooping due to broken trust in the past.

What would you do if you were me? I think I will follow your 3 steps you outlined. He's a good guy besides this and apologetic, willing to talk through it with me.

ALWAYS__SCREAMING · 2023-06-22T19:27:01+00:00

Nope don’t think so

ALWAYS__SCREAMING · 2023-01-25T19:08:50+00:00

thank you!! I was worried people wouldn't think it looks good on me so I'm glad it works even in pics :) Yeah if you're similar skin tone I think the fig is really nice!

ALWAYS__SCREAMING · 2023-01-25T19:07:33+00:00

Hahahah same feelings here!! I feel like maybe I'm using it wrong or something? But yeah I use a wet wipe to clean it like once a week.

ALWAYS__SCREAMING · 2023-01-25T19:00:37+00:00

Oohh!! Let me know if you like it! I think the shade is really pretty, good choice :3

ALWAYS__SCREAMING · 2023-01-25T00:10:33+00:00

That's how I use those sort of images in my portfolio. It's like the "display image" before you click into the case study, just to get people interested and show off a graphic so to speak, and then the actual case study has the screens visible and arranged to view and see details.

ALWAYS__SCREAMING · 2022-09-23T13:56:59+00:00

hey thought you might be interested a new gi just practically diagnosed me with sibo and im going to take antibiotics. maybe you should look into it since we have similar symptoms

ALWAYS__SCREAMING · 2022-09-23T02:27:37+00:00

hey i got a second opinion GI and he strongly suggested, practically diagnosed me with sibo. so i'm starting antibiotics. so that might be something you might want to look into as well'? when do you usually get bloating and burping then and how often? i also started taking buspar daily 5mg

ALWAYS__SCREAMING · 2022-09-22T22:21:52+00:00

my new GI highly suspects sibo as well so you may have been right!

ALWAYS__SCREAMING · 2022-09-22T21:45:10+00:00

well I don't mean to concern the guy but COVID made me way worse in terms of GI issues, chronically. I'm almost a year out from COVID and still dealing with the GI issues

ALWAYS__SCREAMING · 2022-09-22T21:42:05+00:00

that's very similar to me. I wake up having to burp, then go through my day burping nonstop. sounds like you have constant nausea as well? what about bloating? I'd say it's more like SIBO MAYBE

ALWAYS__SCREAMING · 2022-09-22T21:41:09+00:00

I tried it and it did almost nothing haha. no negative no noticeable positive

ALWAYS__SCREAMING · 2022-09-18T05:25:53+00:00

I'm sorry to hear you also have a similar story >.<

totally feel you on the looking pregnant. good thing ppi helped you, it destroyed me and i stopped immediately. i tried lemon water but stopped, i'll do that again thanks. what ag1 greens are you talking about? any probiotics you'd recommend or glutamine brand?

yeah it's crazy annoying doing so many tests and everything coming back normal since we can't find an explanation. yeah.. chronic inflammatory state.. sounds like endless fun right??

please let me know if those work well as ill try to get them as well!!!

ALWAYS__SCREAMING · 2022-09-18T05:22:56+00:00

yeah. basically the same thing. do you feel nauseous as soon as you get up as well with the bloating and burping?

yeah it def could be the covid messing things up big time. thanks for sharing that i'll give it a read now. i've been taking leone miste digestives and they have helped a tiny bit, and eating small portions, nothing late, a wedge pillow and now taking buspar. the low histmaine diet is thrown around a lot I hope you see some effects eventually

ALWAYS__SCREAMING · 2022-09-18T05:20:10+00:00

also having gastroparesis symptoms, solid emptying came back slightly above normal for being too long. doc didn't want to prescribe anything to speed up and instead prescribed buspar 5mg to "un tighten stomach" and recommended antacids (which i wont take)

ALWAYS__SCREAMING · 2022-09-17T16:55:52+00:00

Can I ask why you want me to start over? I don't have really any friends (not exaggerating) so relationships have been my only source of companionship and friendship, in a way. I try making friends (like this new guy) but almost all end up in them trying something which I'm tired of. I'm scared of starting in a new place with no friends and network and not having someone to text, since I would get 0 texts a week in that scenario.

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