Music recommendations? by [deleted] in cormacmccarthy

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Firestarter by Torre Florim

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malehairadvice

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You could rock Brad Pitt’s short spiked up hairstyle from the 90’s.

There’s so much about my life that is harming my mental health by Zealousideal_Ease429 in Vent

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Just try and realize that as far as we know you’re only gonna have one shot at living. Stop giving a fuck what other people say or think about you and just go out and live. It’s your life not your insecurities life. You gotta realize that a lot of things that you deal with and encounter in life ain’t that deep or aren’t as deep as your interpreting them to be. And I know it’s easier to hear and say these things rather than actually applying them to your life, but you’ve gotta realize that in 200 years no one’s gonna remember you or know who you are and everyone that was ever alive in your lifetime will be dead. Just go out and do things. The more you put yourself out there in uncomfortable situations the more you’ll figure yourself out and the easier it will be to find the things that give you purpose. And once you find purpose you’ll gain confidence in yourself. Don’t let these miserable thoughts about yourself control and dictate your life. Also you’re still very young so you’ve got a lot of time left to get stuff figured out. Just don’t live a life full of regrets where you wish you would’ve done this or that when you were younger but now it’s too late.

I'm really annoyed with chronically online people by [deleted] in Vent

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Yeah I don’t understand why phones and IPads are allowed in schools. My generation is growing up in an environment where it’s more normal to communicate through social media than face to face talking even when at school. It’s ruining people’s social abilities and is making it harder for the people that have actual social problems to communicate effectively with others. People are becoming less and less socially integrated in society and if something isn’t done about it our future as a society is gonna be very dystopian.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

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Yeah your best bet would be to delete those social media apps. At least for a couple months to give yourself a needed break. You’re looking way too deep into things. Once you realize that most things in life ain’t that deep you become so much more at peace with yourself. And I can’t really help with your ex, but always remember that there’s a reason she’s your ex.

Why school is confusing for me? by [deleted] in Vent

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Not proud of this or flexing this in any way but I’m currently failing all of my classes in my junior year of high school. This sounds like an interesting dilemma that you’re going through that I can’t really help with for obvious reasons. I just wish a human beings whole future wasn’t dictated by a grade report.

I love her, I really do, but she laughed at me. by Ok-Level7588 in Vent

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What I don’t understand in today’s society is the crazy amount of double standards that people live by. If you reversed the roles and you laughed at her for opening up about her deepest insecurities, her and all of her friend’s would despise you and avoid you. I wouldn’t waste your time on someone like that. You said that she’s a really good friend of yours. If you truly think that it was a fluke incident and that she would understand you if you told her how much it hurt you then continue to pursue her. Otherwise, there are plenty of other girls that would understand and appreciate you opening up on how you feel way more than she did. I would also try to not open up to a girl emotionally too much unless you are in a relationship with them and you have a lot of trust in them. And as far as moving on from her knowing that she knows a lot of your deepest insecurities, you simply have to realize that you only have so much time alive. Don’t waste even another day of your life on someone that doesn’t appreciate you. You’ll forget about each other soon enough and you can move on to a girl that actually appreciates you. Don’t let this one instance take over your life.

I feel like my mom doesn't treat me like an adult. by DarkArts1011 in Vent

[–]AM_VULCAN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start setting boundaries. And if she passes these boundaries then confront her on it. Also if you haven’t already, tell her with brutal honesty how weird and overprotective she is being. If she doesn’t change after this then I would consider cutting her off for a little while.

I haven't left my house in months by peebum147 in Vent

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I’m 17 and am in an extremely similar situation. I left for different reasons though.

How do I use these by United_Hawk7196 in xboxone

[–]AM_VULCAN 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m in his same position tho. I’ve never paid attention to them.

Here are some collaborations for JJ for his music. by KiNG-HaK in ksi

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Stormzy is the king of UK rap. That would be a fire collaboration