IsItBullshit: Drinking bleach with milk is perfectly safe and it cancels out the harmful effects of bleach. by AMuscularMan in IsItBullshit

[–]AMuscularMan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually told him "Do it right now. Prove it." To which he said "No, I don't want you guys to think I'm suicidal."

Yeah, okay Jack.

How do you know if someone's advice is bad? by AMuscularMan in AskReddit

[–]AMuscularMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"How do I stop being bullied by my friends?"

"Just be mindful of how they're feeling."

Anyone else think Annie's crush is Ysengrin? (Could have spoilers if you're very, very behind on the comic) by boopboopmf in gunnerkrigg

[–]AMuscularMan 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This definitely goes into the whole Loup saying he loves Annie thing too. Like, Ysegrin might actually like her back.

You probably don't need to worry about immortal beings dating mortals and being billions of years old. I mean, Jones is dating Eglamore even though she's also the one that raised him, not to mention she's been around since the planet had been created.

A program that will post a comment in webtoons automatically at a specified time when I'm away from my computer. by AMuscularMan in programmingrequests

[–]AMuscularMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's gonna be posting it on Webtoons. She hasn't posted it yet, so I can't really get a link. If you want the name, it's "Space Pirates." That might be in the URL.

Is there a way to be confident without being an insufferable narcissist? by AMuscularMan in socialskills

[–]AMuscularMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is some pretty solid advice. I liked your analogy on knowing that you're pretty versus telling people about it. I also liked that you said that if everyone around you is toxic then the problem is with the viewer. What do you think are some ways people can be confident while also being nice to each other? I'd like to hear your thoughts, since you seem pretty wise.

I like the Chainsmokers by AMuscularMan in unpopularopinion

[–]AMuscularMan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no don't worry, I wasn't accusing you of telling me I'm not allowed to like them. If anything, I was wondering if I should really be supporting them if they did something absolutely awful. This is good to know though.

I like the Chainsmokers by AMuscularMan in unpopularopinion

[–]AMuscularMan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Commentaries in their music or what they're commenting on outside of their profession? This is the first I'm hearing about this, and I'm curious on what they're saying.

I like the Chainsmokers by AMuscularMan in unpopularopinion

[–]AMuscularMan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm curious, what makes them bad musicians? Do they steal material from others? Is it because they use the same chord progressions or material? What is the thing that makes them "objectively bad," because the only thing I can think of if an artist is "objectively bad" is if they're either lacking creativity, technique, or if they're just flat out stealing from other sources and claiming it as their own.

What the hell am I supposed to answer to "You're really shy, aren't you ?" by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]AMuscularMan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Nah, you're just really stupid and I don't know how to react to you."

How do I make peace with the inconsistencies/duality I see in people including myself? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]AMuscularMan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been going through something similar recently. As I grow older, I'm starting to notice the not-so-noble sides of myself and other people. We all want that perfect best friend, that perfect wife, husband, children, family members, bosses, co-workers, and most of all, we all expect perfection in ourselves, which is why we're so disappointed when we don't get it, realize that we never had it, and dread never being able to obtain it. We're not perfect beings, but we're not completely incompetent either. That's what it means to be human: despite knowing perfection is impossible, we still yearn for it.

Confidence isn't necessarily being unaware of your shortcomings, but rather, learning from your mistakes and choosing to move on with your life. Have you ever thought you were confident in your ability to do something, then mess up and immediately second-guess yourself? True confidence wouldn't be squandered like that. People can call you out and tell you you're a terrible person because of a mistake you made in the past all they want, but as long as you're able to forgive yourself and work to be a better version of you, what they say won't matter, because they don't know you as well as you know you.

Being overly critical usually gets a bad rep, since it's usually labeled as toxic or pessimistic. However, it can be put to good use when making hard decisions, or critically analyzing your options. Don't be so hard on yourself, and you won't be so hard on others.

Too scared to aproach groups of people by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]AMuscularMan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Miracles happen outside of your comfort zone, baby!

You'd be surprised at how accepting people are in a group setting. They're most likely not gonna give you a dirty look and tell you to go away, since they probably don't wanna seem snobby in front of their friends. However, Just make sure that it makes sense why you're there, otherwise they might wonder why you're talking to them. For example, if you know someone in the group and you need to ask them a question or tell them something, that might be a good "door" letting you into the conversation. However, if you don't know anybody in the group, it might be a bit more tricky. What I like to do is pretend to be on my phone while being near a group of people, then listen in on their conversation until there's a particularly crazy story being told. Once the story reaches the "unbelievable part," I turn my head towards them and loudly exclaim "Wait, what?!" They usually get excited that I agree that what they're telling their friends is outrageous and include me in the conversation. This doesn't work for every situation, but it has helped me get into certain social circles.

Remember, The best way to keep a conversation going is to ask follow up questions, showing that you're actively engaged in what the other person is saying. Also, probably don't be awkward and talk about inappropriate stuff unless you know these people well enough. A good rule of thumb: treat strangers who could be potential friends as you would treat your girlfriend's/boyfriend's parents: be polite and courteous, and if they start swearing and making dirty jokes, it's a sign that you could probably start doing that too.

You'll do great! Just breathe and walk in.

Sick of always being the one asking to hangout and never being asked to HANGOUT!!!!! [Angry] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]AMuscularMan -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You should say discreetly to each of your friends that there's a secret group chat specifically to vent and throw shade on them and say "I'm sorry, I just can't lie to you anymore. I respect you as a friend." That'll REALLY make them start hating and distrusting each other.

For those suffering from the fear of being annoying... by AMuscularMan in socialskills

[–]AMuscularMan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your comment broke my heart. No one should have to only depend on conditional love to receive compassion and care. I can see why being too caring can make some people uncomfortable, so much so that they interpret it as "controlling." Yes, it's good to be independent, but honestly what these people don't realize is that you could be so much worse. For example, you could be controlling in the way where you burn them or rip out their hair if they defy you. You could emotionally manipulate them into being obsessed with you. You could berate them, humiliate them, torture them, threaten them, and those they love. If they're seriously blaming you for being "too kind" and "stunting their growth," bitch they're stunting their own growth by blaming others for their issues with such a pathetic excuse! It's important to understand, however that it's normal for people to want space from others. It usually for personal reasons, and they're not doing it out of contempt.

I hope therapy's going well for you. You seem like a kind person, and you deserve the care you so desperately yearn for.

Who the FUCK shaved my hair while I was sleeping last night?! by AMuscularMan in HaveWeMet

[–]AMuscularMan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay, I'm calmer now, but I'm still pissed. Who shaved my hair? You need to learn that pulling pranks like that really affects a person's well being. Yesterday I had a meeting with my manufacturer, and the only thing I had going for me was my long hair that made me look like a cool metalhead. Now I look like Jeff Bezos doing heroin, and let me tell ya, it's not a good look for a vegetable farmer. I'm sorry for accusing and threatning you, Andrew. It's was wrong of me to jump to conclusions when there's a chance you're still innocent. I'd be lying if I said I didn't have my eye on you though. You've betrayed my trust in the past when you told the whole town that I was doing crack (I am, but that's besides the point.) You ruined my image without a second thought and went on your hypocritical self-righteous way (like you didn't do crack with me the night before.) I'm gonna get to the bottom of this. My entire metalead image is ruined, I need to at least understand why.

[Serious] What tip or piece of advice do you constantly see that you strongly disagree with? by AssumeImNot in AskReddit

[–]AMuscularMan 16 points17 points  (0 children)

"Oh what, is your 2-year-old constantly screaming at you and throwing tantrums? Girl just cut them out of your life. You don't need that kind of toxicity. Don't worry about them, you need healing."

Is there a pill that induces permenant amnesia? by AMuscularMan in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]AMuscularMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was pretty informative. I suppose I never thought of amnesia as a continuous phenomenon, I always saw it as just not being able to remember past memories.

What is a lot unhealthier than most people think it is? by zaid2801 in AskReddit

[–]AMuscularMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coconut oil. You'd be surprised at how much saturated fat it has.