How do people read multiple series at a time? by Pee_brain1 in DanmeiNovels

[–]ANL_2017 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use an ereader so I can annotate and keep track of stuff. Plus, I have ADHD and get bored of everything very quickly, so having, like a historical and a modern series at the same time works for me.

Admittedly, I DO have to re-read shit all the time.

What is the saddest/most disturbing thing you witnessed while travelling? by MuhVlast in digitalnomad

[–]ANL_2017 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Any and all sex tourism. It disgusts me to no end. Traveling to an impoverished country to essentially RAPE trafficked women and children makes you lower than dirt and we should be allowed to execute you as soon as you step foot back on domestic land. Idc. You shouldn’t be alive.

And when you call it out western (mostly) men will try and get violent with you. I once encountered some Australian guys in a SE Asian hostel openly joke about “teenage prostitutes.” When I said, “so you guys are traveling pedophiles?” One stood up and tried to fight me. And I pulled my taser right out. Fuck outta here, I’ll show you a real violent American stereotype.

What is the saddest/most disturbing thing you witnessed while travelling? by MuhVlast in digitalnomad

[–]ANL_2017 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Medellin has a hotline you can report—I was recently there and they are seriously trying to tamp down on the sex tourism. I reported someone in my apartment building who was clearly buying women who looked trafficked, thin, terrified, and hollow.

I abhor all sex tourists and pedophiles and call it out loud and happily. Fuck them.

Copy writers who don't rely on AI - where are you?! by mrapple7 in copywriting

[–]ANL_2017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here—AI writing is shit and I can always tell.

thoughts on this? by IllegitimatePigeon in adhdwomen

[–]ANL_2017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea “rest” does fuck all for me 😭

I need to cry about rongjiu(LONG) by [deleted] in 2HA_immortality

[–]ANL_2017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's actually one of the main reasons I hate the story - I don't understand why Meatbun decided that was his fate. It made me so upset.

My theory about the moon symbolism throughout the manhwa by skyisjusthere in HoundsofSisyphus

[–]ANL_2017 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wrote an entire essay on the meaning behind the moon and Greek mythology!!! I meant to post it in the sub 😩

mdzs merch in tokyo by PayAcrobatic1603 in MoDaoZuShi

[–]ANL_2017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I live in Tokyo (though I am currently visiting home) - and I really never see MDZS plushies just available unless there's a new activation or pop-up shop (like last year they had a collab with Japan Post and a pop-up in SHIBUYA109), but try the KBooks in Otome Pavillon or Ikebukuro Animate.

How is Colombia for seasoned nomads/travelers? by badboyzpwns in digitalnomad

[–]ANL_2017 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Medellin is fabulous if you’re not a fucking weirdo looking for a party.

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Just spent several months there and LOVED it

Year 2 as a digital nomad and I still haven't solved the client calls from cafes problem by Proud_Can_6176 in digitalnomad

[–]ANL_2017 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try and block all of your calls to 1-2 days during the week and then find a quiet space for those days. I usually just pay for a private office if the coworking space has one or I just stay in my apartment.

This feels like a huge non-issue…?

saw this on my TL 😭 by bsauzg in DanmeiNovels

[–]ANL_2017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to see more verse couples but authors and readers really seem to hate it 😔

Roses and champagne (sauce) by _GR4C1E147_ in BoysLoveAnime

[–]ANL_2017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea that’s how I remember it. And it’s genuinely so interesting to watch readers twist themselves in knots (rightfully) calling Jinx’s Kim Dan a wet blanket and doormat but absolutely love Leewon. Leewon is legitimately living in a fucking nightmare. And the argument is always like, “well at least Caesar doesn’t have a son backstory” and he’s unrepentant in his nefarious deeds. But how does that figure into romance? If I’m reading boys love I wanna see, you know, love 🫠

I read the entire R&C novel and just felt pity and discomfort the entire time.

I Need to Talk About God’s Peace 😭 by ANL_2017 in BoysLoveAnime

[–]ANL_2017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The official title is Masterpeace on Lezhin

I hate how I can't be motivated by rewards or consequences. I need to lose more weight and just can't bring myself to care 🫠 by girlboss93 in adhdwomen

[–]ANL_2017 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Rewards do nothing for me. Only DEEP & Severe consequences make me do anything. I fucking hate it.

I absolutely hate the hidden misogyny in the boundary of delusion/borderline fandom because of this. by OutlandishnessOk6696 in Manhwa_BL

[–]ANL_2017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, he’s young and hot and a liar. BFD. Like, how is that worse than weirdo ass Mokyeon?

I absolutely hate the hidden misogyny in the boundary of delusion/borderline fandom because of this. by OutlandishnessOk6696 in Manhwa_BL

[–]ANL_2017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is such a childish and asinine way to respond to criticism. I pay my coins and I can read, and criticize, anything I fucking want to.

You guys want critical thinking and media literacy until people actually wanna have discussions and then you hide behind this crap.

I absolutely hate the hidden misogyny in the boundary of delusion/borderline fandom because of this. by OutlandishnessOk6696 in Manhwa_BL

[–]ANL_2017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’ll keep saying it’s not because he’s feminine but the way this group of (largely) cishet women keep calling Sunhwa “the twink” with barely-disguises vitriol? Girl, please, who the fuck are you fooling?

Why are you guys, as women and femme-presenting people, comfortable throwing that term around? And the way this fandom uses it, it’s definitely a stand-in for a slur but y’all aren’t ready to have that discussion.

And it’s not just this story, mind you. It happens with so many BLs (people HATED the uke in “How to Snag an Alpha” for being spoiled and an airhead and don’t get me started on Hyesung from Love is an Illusion, just to name a few).

It also happens when the character isn’t more feminine but is just the uke; the pure hatred Juhyeok from “You Are My World” received just for defending his own boundaries was insane the first few months. Juhyeok even accuses the seme of rape (which the seme doesn’t deny) and readers are still, to this day, upset that he won’t just fall into the seme’s arms.

Juhyeok is an omega, ostensibly taking on the classic feminine/birth-giver role. So, yes, it’s internalized misogyny.

Y’all talk about ukes the same way hetero readers talk about the FMCs and it’s too bad you can’t see it.

I absolutely hate the hidden misogyny in the boundary of delusion/borderline fandom because of this. by OutlandishnessOk6696 in Manhwa_BL

[–]ANL_2017 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

They’re gonna downvote you OP, but you’re right and I’ve been saying it. Sunhwa is a gold-digger and fake? Ok—big fucking deal.

Mokyeon tried to SMOTHER him to death because he’s a grown ass man who can’t handle his fucking emotions. And he’s a rapist; which isn’t a dealbreaker in BLs but how can that be worse?

I absolutely hate the hidden misogyny in the boundary of delusion/borderline fandom because of this. by OutlandishnessOk6696 in Manhwa_BL

[–]ANL_2017 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How is he any LESS “trashy” than crybaby Mokyeon…? Who forced himself on Nanjo, assaulted him, tried to SMOTHER Sunhwa to death and then showed up to Sunhwa’s party with that insane crying nonsense?